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MOSAICS OF LIFE 




THE APPEAL. 



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MOSAICS OF LIFE 



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Poetry and Prose 



by 



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ELIZABETH A. THURSTON 



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WITH ILLUSTRATIONS. 




PHILADELPHIA: 

J. B. LIPPINCOTT & CO 

1881. 









Copyright, 1880, by J. B. Lippincott & Co. 



INTRODUCTORY. 



There is a pleasant old story, that once upon a time, Truth 
went into a library, and burnt all the books, save two or three ! 
The compiler of a book, in his, or her best estate, must be 
considered one of the humblest servants of her Majesty. 
Nevertheless if there be 

"A natural gift, 
The lettered grain from lettered chaff to sift," 

such followers and gleaners have their value. 
The collection is a motley one ; 

"A thing of shreds and patches;" 

But such is life — a mingled thread — " An April day ; sunshine 
and showers alternate; joy follows close upon the heels of 
sorrow. The funeral procession scarcely passes, ere we are 
gazing on the wedding pageant/' 

As it is not yet determined by universal consent of natu- 
ralists, whether the egg preceded the hen, or the hen the egg, 
could I begin my mosaics better than to follow the order of 
one of the most authentic beginnings of life extant ? namely, 

that of the " grand old gardener," and his wife; and introduce 
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INTRODUCTORY. 



my characters in Eden ! If an Eden can be to mortals, per- 
haps the era of wooing and betrothal approaches it most 
nearly. 

I would say, in conclusion, to all who read, to all who 
receive, and to all who give away this compilation, [may their 
number be Legion,] that if I have collected pictures touching 
and graphic on many phases of human life; if I have gathered 
together quaint and valuable sayings ; if 1 have been a faithful 
and loving step-mother to a pleasant and suggestive book, I 
have an abundant reward. 

ELIZABETH A. THURSTON. 






CONTENTS. 



BETROTHAL. 

PASS 

BETROTHAL Shdkspeare. 17 

THE LONG PATH O.W.Holmes. 17 

EXTRACT FROM "ARTEYELDE." Henry Taylor. 18 

A KING'S WOOING Shdkspeare, 18 

THERESA'S ANSWER TO WILHELM Goethe. 19 

HESITATION Alfred Tennyson. 19 

PROPOSAL Bayard Taylor. 19 

NOBODY COULD HAYE SEEN IT From the German. 20 

BEHAYE YOURSEL' BEFORE FOLK Scotch Song. 21 

JUDY McLEARY Irish Ballad. 22 

JENNY KISSED ME Leigh Hunt. 23 

AN OFFER Bayard Taylor. 23 

THE CONFESSION ....Elizabeth Austin. 21 

TAM GLEN Robert Bums. 26 

THE IMPROYISATRICE L. E. Landon. 27 

GENEYIEYE S. T. Coleridge. 28 

THE GROOMSMAN TO HIS MISTRESS T. W. Parsons. 30 

BRINGING WATER FROM THE WELL 32 

THE APPEAL .. S. W. Brooks. 34 

SCHULE— LOYE William Motherwell. 35 

LOYE Charles Swain. 36 

THE BROOKSIDE R. M. Milnes. 37 

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PAGB 

4N EXPERIENCE Alfred Tennyson. 38 

THE PICTURE AT THE FOUNTAIN..../. Jeremias Gotthelf. 39 

TO William R. Spencer. 39 

ASSOCIATION ....J. S. Knowles. 40 

A TALISMAN P. B. Shelley. 40 

A WOMAN'S QUESTION Adelaide A. Proctor. 40 

CHOICE OF A WIFE , Sir Philip Sydney. 42 

MARRIAGE Nathaniel Cotton. 42 

LOVE WILL FIND OUT THE WAY Percy's Reliques. 44 

THE ANNOYER N. P. Willis. 45 

BRIDAL SONG Henry D. Austin. 46 

THE FATHER'S LAMENT H. W. Longfellow. 47 

THE BRIDAL. A PICTURE 47 



WEDDED LIFE. 

WEDDED LIFE H. W. Longfellow. 61 

DOST THOU REMEMBER? 51 

A CAUTION Lard George Lyltleton. 52 

DARKEY'S COUNSEL TO THE NEWLY MARRIED Edmund Kirke. 53 

THE POET'S SONG TO HIS WIFE Allan Cunningham. 54 

TO MY WIFE Gerald Massey. 56 

A QUESTION Matthew Pryor. 57 

TEN YEARS AGO Alaric A. Watts. 58 

GOOD AND BAD SPIRITS Frederika Bremer. 61 

MUTUAL FORBEARANCE William Coivper. 62 

SUCH A ONE AS HE WOULD LOVE Sir Thomas Wy'att. 63 

FROM "MANUEL DES PECHES." Wadington. 63 

AN ANGEL IN THE HOUSE Leigh Hunt. 64 

ART OF PUTTING THINGS Boyd. 64 

TO MY BIRDIE Carotin* Southey. 65 

A WARNING Alfred Tennyson. 65 

TRIFLES NOT TRIFLES F. Bremer. 66 

THE LENT UMBRELLA Douglas JerroU. 66 

A TABLE OF ERRATA Thomas Hood. 69 

THE UNREASONABLE HUSBAND 73 

THE WOMAN-LYE MASTERPIECE Ueywood. 74 



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THE GOOD WIFE TJwmas Fuller. 75 

MUTUAL FORGIVENESS JG. Holland. 76 

THE RETURN William J. MicTcle. 76 

TO MY WIFE Samuel Bishop. 77 

ILLUSIONS R. W.Emerson. 78 

BREAKFAST TALK. No. 1 Douglas Jerrold. 79 

RREAKFAST TALK. No. 2 Douglas Jerrold. 79 

THE TRUEST FRIENDSHIP v Cotton. 81 

A TRUE WIFE George Chapman. 81 

" ANGELS UNAWARES." T. Powell. 82 

WOMAN - Robert Dodsley. 82 

THE STORY OF KARIN J. G. Whittier. 83 



BABYHOOD. 

WOMAN'S RIGHTS .'. Punch. £1 

SEASONS OF PRAYER Henry Ware. f2 

THE BABY 92 

MY BIRD Emily Judson. 93 

A GRAPHIC DESCRIPTION OF A BABY Knickerbocker. 94 

THE INVALID WIFE Fanny Fern. 96 

BABY Knickerbocker. 99 

AVERSE FOR THE YOUNG MOTHER TO PARODY Thomas Moore. 100 

A NURSERY SONG 100 

THOUGHTS WHILE SHE ROCKS THE CRADLE J. G. Holland. 103 

PHILIP, MY KING Miss Muloch. 104 

OUR BABY 3frs. Gage. 106 

NOT AN EVERY-DAY BABY? Mansfield. 107 

CHILDREN Jean Paul. 107 

LETTER TO A NEW BORN CHILD..... Catharine Talbot. 108 

THE RETURN 110 

THE CHILD POET J. R. Lowell. 110 

SIMPLE PLEASURES Jean Paul. Ill 

A PICTURE James BaUantyne. Ill 

DOMESTIC BLISS 112 

THE MOTHER'S COMPLAINT... „ William Miller. 113 

THE CHARGE OF INFANTRY Knickerbocker. 113 



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SOME ACCOUNT OF A REMARKABLE BABY C. Dickens. 116 

TWO YEARS OLD 116 

A PARENTAL ODE TO MY SON Thomas Hood. 118 

FOUR YEARS OLD Leigh Hunt. 120 

THE RIDE IN A WHEEL-BARROW Boyd. 123 

AMANTIUM TRM AMORIS REDINTEGRATIO EST Richard Edwards. 124 

FATHER IS COMING! Mary Howitt. 124 

A MOTHER'S MORNING PRAYER „ 125 

THRENODIA J. E.Lowell. 126 

CASA WAPPY D. M. Moir. 127 

VESPERS 129 

CHILDREN'S PRAYERS 130 

CHILD-SLEEP Thomas Hood. 130 

EMBLEMATICAL Byron. 131 

THE BIRD-CATCHER Laman Blanchard. 131 

LITTLE WILLIE WAKING UP E. H. Sears. 132 

CHRIST AND THE LITTLE ONES Julia Gill. 134 

THE FISHERMEN Charles King sley. 136 

SOWING IN TEARS 137 

GOOD LIFE, LONG LIFE Ben Jonson. 139 

LITTLE CHILDREN Mary Howitt. 139 

WHAT THE CHRIST-SPIRIT SAID TO CHILDREN 140 

THE HALLOWED DRAWER H. B. Stowe. 141 

A PICTURE Thomas Burbidge. 141 

CHILDREN W. S. Landor. 142 

TO A CHILD EMBRACING HIS MOTHER Thomas Hood. 143 

MOTHER'S LOVE W. J. Fox. 144 

MY SERMON Boyd. 144 

IN MEMORIAM Knickerbocker. 145 

A SUNBEAM AND A SHADOW Monthly Religious Magazine. 146 

A MOTHER'S JOYS William Ferguson. 146 

THE CHILDREN H. W. Longfellow. 147 

ANTIPODES H.B.Stowe: 148 

THE DEAD BOY William Allen Butler. 149 

THE PRATTLE OF CHILDREN Jeremy Taylor. 149 

ILLUSIONS Emerson. 150 

THE CONTRAST Plummer. 151 

THE MOTHER EVEN IN DEATH John Brown. 152 



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THE CHILDREN'S HOUR H. W. Longfellow. 153 

MOTHER'S TRUST Charles Dickens. 155 

MOTHER'S TENDERNESS Washington Irving. 155 

"I LIVE FOR THEE." Alfred Tennyson. 156 

THE SEA R. H. Stoddard. 156 

LITTLE CHARLIE F. B. Aldrich. 157 

KITTLE IS GONE William B. Bradbury. 158 

HOW'S MY BOY? Sydney Dobell. 159 

THE BAREFOOT BOY J. G. Whittier. 161 

HARRY'S LETTER Thomas Hood. 164 

A QUESTION John Gay. 165 

THE BOY'S APPEAL 165 

THE FATHER'S ADVICE Richard Hildreth. 166 

AGAINST BOYS Chamber? Journal. 166 

WHICH IS THE HAPPIEST? Paul de Koch. 16T 

EXTRACT FROM A LETTER Henry Sydney. 167 

THE BOY AT FIFTEEN! H. B. Slowe. 168 

WHAT THE FATHER SAID TO THE SCHOOL-BOY Thomas Hughes. 169 

WHAT THE FATHER SAID TO HIS DAUGHTER Lord Collingwood. 169 

WHAT THE POET SAID TO THE YOUNG MAIDEN Charles Kingsley. 169 

WHAT THE POET MIGHT SAY TO THE YOUNG MAIDEN'S MOTHER...Goethe. 170 

BOY LOST! 171 



YOUTH. 

YOUTH KL.Bulwer. 177 

EMILY IS MARRIED! Charles Lamb. 178 

TO FANNIE IN A BALL DRESS John Everett. 179 

MAIDENHOOD H. W.Longfellow. 180 

LIFE IS BEFORE YE! Fanny Kemble. 180 

IDEALS OF WOMAN. No. 1. Alexander Pope. 181 

IDEALS OF WOMAN. No. 2 George Lyttleton. 182 

MY KATE. Ideal No. 3 E.B.Browning. 183 

IDEAL. No. 4 William Wordsworth. 184 

FROM "COMUS." A MASK John Milton. 185 

EXTRACT Victor Hugo. 187 

THE BRIDGE OF SIGHS T.Hood. 187 



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VIRGINIA T. B. Macaulay. 191 

SHE'S GANE TO DWALL IN HEAVEN Nit Jisdale and Galloway Songs. 192 

A MOSAIC FOR FRIENDS 197 

A MOSAIC FOR YOUNG MEN 203 

A MOSAIC FOR HOUSEWIVES 209 

A MOSAIC FOR US ALL 215 



SINGLE LIFE. 

THE OLD MAID'S PRAYER TO DIANA Mrs. Tight. 221 

BROTHER AND SISTER Charles Lamb. 223 

EPITAPH ON AN OLD MAID Englishwoman's Journal. 224 

COUSIN JANE 225 

FROM AN "EXTRA LEAF ON DAUGHTER-FULL HOUSES." Jean Paul. 227 

IF THOU COULDST KNOW 223 

SOLITUDE OF SINGLE WOMEN Dinah Muloch. 228 

MIDDLE LIFE S. Osgood. 230 

EXPECTATION L. E. Landon. 230 

IT MIGHT HAVE BEEN J. G. Whittier. 231 

THE UNLOVED '. 0. W. Holmes. 232 

FROM "ENDYMION." Longfellow. 233 

REFLECTED HAPPINESS Charles Lamb. 233 

FROM "MUCH ADO ABOUT NOTHING." Shalcspeare. 234 

BACHELOR'S FARE Horace Smith. 235 

OUR IDEALS Victor Hugo. 236 

EXACTIONS OF MARRIED PEOPLE Wilkie Collins. 236 

A BACHELOR'S IGNORANCE Mansfield. 237 

A BACHELOR'S QUESTION Ruffini. 237 

SONG OF ANTICIPATION Elizabeth Austin. 237 

KIZZY KRINGLE Fanny Fern. 239 

THE FORSAKEN Auld Sang. 240 

THE WOUNDED HEART E.B.Browning. 241 

A PICTURE Eclectic Review. 243 

NOT A MISTAKE G. W. Curtis. 244 

JEAN PAUL'S QUESTIONS 244 

OLD MAIDS United States Gazette. 245 

SONG OF CASSANDRA From the Spanish. 246 



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PAGB 

SOLILOQUY OF A BACHELOR Shakspeare. 247 

A REMONSTRANCE Alaric A. Watts. 248 



OLD AGHE. 

AULD AGE. A Treaty Elizabeth Hamilton. 253 

GOLDEN WORDS O. W. Holmes. 256 

THE FLIGHT OF YOUTH Richard M. MLlnes. 256 

THE LAST LEAF O.W.Holmes. 259 

SONG John Sterling. 261 

EXTRACT FROM "DIVINE POEMS." Edmund WaUer. 261 

JOYS OF OLD AGE Frederica Bremer. 262 

BOYS AND GIRLS FOREVER J. G. Holland. 263 

ONE GOOD OLD MAN G. W. Curtis. 263 

BEAUTY OF AGE H. B. Stowe. 263 

THE HOUSE IN THE MEADOW Louisa C. Moulton. 265 

COMING HOME Alice Cary. 268 

THE PLEASURE VOYAGE G. P. R.James. 270 

A PETITION TO TIME B. W. Proctor. 272 

THE GOOD OLD FRIEND Mary Howitt. 272 

THE ONE GRAY nAIR Walter S. Landor. 273 

TEMPERANCE Richard Crashaw. 277 

USE OF EXPERIENCE 277 

THE SAFE SIDE John Denham. 278 

SIR MARMADUKE George Colman. 279 

TO A GRANDMOTHER Bernard Barton. 280 

BEHIND THE MASK Atlantic Monthly. 282 

THE SPARK DIVINE Johann C. Lavater. 283 

A RETROSPECTIVE REVIEW Thomas Hood. 283 

OLD AGE R. w. Emerson. 287 

ANOTHER CHANCE „ .....E. S. Turner. 288 

THE OLD MAN'S FUNERAL W.C.Bryant. 288 

MY FIFTIETH BIRTHDAY F. D. Gage. 290 

IT NEVER COMES AGAIN R.H.Stoddard. 294 

FROM "HALL OF FANTASY."..... Hawthorne. 295 

THE GRANDMOTHER'S APOLOGY Alfred Tennyson. 295 

ACROSS THE RIVER Lucy Larcom 300 



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PAGB 

FLIGHT OF TIME S02 

TRAVELING IN FOREIGN LANDS 302 

PRAYER OF ALEXANDER PEDEN 303 

A SUMMARY SUMMING UP OF DIFFICULT SUMS 303 

LIFE Anna Letitia BarbavM. 303 

NIGHT AND DEATH „ Blanco White. 304 

OUR BIRTH IS YET TO COME F. H. Hedge. 305 



BETROTHAL. 

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Mosaics of Life. 



BETROTHAL 



Miranda. Do you love me? 

Ferdinand. I, 

Beyond all limit of what else i' the world, 

Do love, prize, honor you. 
Miranda. I am a fool, 

To weep at what I am glad of. 
Ferdinand. Here's my hand, 

Miranda. And mine, with my heart in't. 

Tempest— Act III., Scene L 

THE LONG PATH. 

T FELT very weak, indeed, (though of a tolerably robust 
-*- habit,) as we came opposite the head of this path on that 
morning. I think I tried to speak twice without making 
myself distinctly audible. At last I got out the question : 
" Will you take the long path with me ?" " Certainly," said the 
school-mistress, "with much pleasure." "Think,"* I said, "be- 
fore you answer ) if you take the long path with me now, I shall 
interpret it that we are to part no more I" The school-mistress 
stepped back with a sudden movement, as if an arrow had 
struck her. 

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18 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

One of the long granite blocks, used as seats, was hard by. 
" Pray, sit down," I said. " No — no," she answered, softly; " I 
will walk the long path with you !" 

The old gentleman who sits opposite, met us walking, arm 
in arm, about the middle of the long path, and said, very 
charmingly, " Good morning, my dears !" 

O. W. Holmes. 



Extract from "ARTEVELDE." 

Adriana. Nay, said I not — 

And if I said it not, I say it now ; 

I'll follow thee through sunshine, and through storm ; 

I will be with thee in thy weal and woe, 

In thy afflictions, should they fall upon thee ; 

In thy temptations, when bad men beset thee ; 

In all the perils which must now press round thee, 

And should they crush thee, in the hour of death. 

Let but thy love be with me to the last. 
Artevelde. 

My love is with thee ever; that thou knowest. 

Henry Taylor. 



A KING'S WOOING. 

C\ ANST thou love me, Kate ? A good leg will fall ; a straight 
^ back will stoop ; a black beard will turn white ; a curled 
pate will grow bald ; a fair face will wither ; a full eye will 
wax hollow; but a good heart, Kate, is the sun and moon, or 
rather the sun and not the moon ; for it shines bright and 
never changes, but keeps its course truly. If thou wouldst 
have such an one, have me. If thou canst love me for this, 
take me ; if not, to say to thee, that I shall die, is true ; but, 
for thy love, by the Lord, no ; yet I love thee too. 

King Henry V. — Act V., Scene II. 










HESITATION 



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MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

The sunshine kisses mount and vale, 

The stars they kiss the sea, 
The west winds kiss the clover bloom, 

But I kiss — thee. 

The oriole weds his mottled mate. 

The lily's bride o' the bee ; 
Heaven's marriage-ring is round the earth ; 

Shall I wed thee ? 

Bayard Taylor. 



N buying horses, and taking a wife, shut your eyes and 
commend yourself to God ! 

Italian. 



NOBODY COULD HAVE SEEN IT. 

T?AST down the staircase swinging, 
-*■ With flying feet I passed ; 
Quick up the staircase springing, 

He came and held me fast; 
And the stairs are dark and dim — 
Many a kiss I had from him, 

And nobody could have seen it. 

Down into the hall demurely, 

The guests were assembled there ; 

My cheeks flushed hot, and surely 
My lips did their tale declare. 

I thought they looked at me every one, 

And saw what we together had done, 
Yet nobody could have seen it. 



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The garden its sweets displaying, 

Beckoned me out of doors ; 
The welcome call obeying, 

I hastened to look at the flowers ; 
There blushed the roses all around, 
There sang the birds with merry sound, 

As if they all had seen it. 

From the German. 



BEHAVE YOURSEL' BEFORE EOLK, 



~DEHAVE yoursel' before folk, 
-^ And dinna be sae rude to me, 
As kiss me sae before folk. 

It's no through hatred o' a kiss, 

That I sae plainly tell you this ; 

But ah ! I tak' it sair amiss, 
To be sae teazed before folk, 
Behave yourself before folk, 

When we're alane, ye may tak' ane, 
But nent a ane before folk. 

Ye tell me that my face is fair ; 
It may be sae — I dinna care — 
But ne'er again gar't blush sae sair 

As ye hae dune before folk. 
Ye tell me that my lips are sweet ; 
Sic tales, I doubt are a deceit ; 
At ony rate, it's hardly meet 

To prie their sweets before folk. 

But, gin you really do insist 
That I should suffer to be kissed, 
Gae, get a license frae the priest, 



22 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

And mak' me yours before folk; 
Behave yoursel' before folk, 
And when we're ane, baith flesh and bane, 
Ye may tak' ten — before folk ! 



Scotch Song 



JUDY M LEAKY. 

rpWAS Judy McLeary so fresh and so merry, 

Was milking the cow at her own cabin door, 
And thinking of nothing at all in the world, 

But the flowers that were blooming the cabin roof o'er 
The steps that she heard at her side the same minute, 

The voice that so musical broke on her ear, 
The sigh that came warm on her rosy red cheek, 

All spoke to her heart then of Terry McLeare. 

" Oh, Judy McLeary, }^ou beautiful soul, 

It's yourself I am thinking of three days and more, 
But I crooshed down my heart till I felt it was breaking, 

And then, you persave, I could bear it no more. 
Then tell me, dear Judy, at once if you're willing 

To lave your own cabin so lovely and dear, 
To gladden my life with your smile and your singing, 

The Guardian Angel of Terry McLeare." 

The tear-drop in Judy's bright eye was fast gathering, 

And deep was the sorrow that spoke in her tone ) 
" Oh, Terry, me darlint, how can I go wid you, 

To lave me poor mother, an orfin, alone ? 
Would you lave your own father, and sisters, and brothe* & ? 

They're dozens and dozens, they'd never miss you, 
And welcome ye'd be to our own little cabin, 

It's plenty convanient for us and you too." 



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Then Judy stopped quickly, and looked on the ground, 

For she feared she was speaking of more than was right; 
But Terry, he blessed her with warm Irish feeling, 

And gained the consent of her mother that night. 
The bells they were ringing, and glad voices singing, 

A welcome to Judy's own cabin so dear, 
And never the cow was suspecting the change 

From Judy McLeary to Judy McLeare. 



JENNY KISSED ME! 

TENNY kissed me when we met, 

Jumping from the chair she sat in ; 
Twice, you thief, who love to get 

Sweets into your list, put that in ! 
Say I'm weary, say I'm sad : ■ 

Say that health and wealth have missed me : 
Say I'm growing old, but add 
Jenny kissed me ! 

Leigh Hunt. 



AN OEEER. . 

T WANT you, Carrie, for my wife. You may hunt far and 
wide, but you'll find nobody that'll keer for you as I will. 
Every man, Carrie, that's wuth his salt must find a woman to 
work for, and when he's nigh on to thirty as I am, he wants to 
see a youngster growing up to take his place when he gits old : 
otherwise, no matter how lucky he is, there's not much comfort 
in livin\ Perhaps I don't talk quite as fine as some, but 
talking's like the froth on the creek, maybe it's shallow, and 



24 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

maybe it's deep — you can't tell. The heart's the main thing, 
and thank God, I'm right there. Carrie, don't trifle with me. 

Bayard Taylor. 



THE CONFESSION. 

[What the Maiden said to her Lover.J 
Versicles for Lovers only. 

I. 

A ND must I tell thee, dearest, that I trembled, when thy name 
Was uttered in our household, in honor, or in blame; 
And when thy manliness and worth all voices echoed loud, 
I coined some trifling error, my secret to enshroud ; 
Some dust upon the blossom, on the peerless gem a stain, 
A cloud in the cerulean, a shadow on the main. 

II. 

Though gallant youths full many might throng the festive hall, 
One noble form my partial eye could see amidst them all ; 
Though suitors clustered round me, and worshiped at my shrine, 
A cold abstracted notice, and changeless cheek were mine ; 
A mist, a cloud, o'ershadowed the view of all save thee — 
Oh, if the wise ones listened, what would they think of me ? 

III. 

A dull, dull weight was at my heart, how sad the eve flew by, 
If vainly, midst the motley crew. I sought thy speaking eye ; 
But mine the merry, merry heart, and thrill of maiden glee, 
If haply, in a far-off group, I caught one glimpse of thee, 
Did I mark thy hastening footstep, oh, how I strove to hide 
The tell-tale blushes on my cheek, fretting my maiden pride. 



BETROTHAL. 25 

IV. 

I dare not own, Confessor, though I remember well, 

When, from a distant city, arrived a brilliant belle ; 

Her manners so bewitching, so exquisite her brow, 

Her eyes, the winning hazel hue, I think I see them now, 

How much I feared those eyes would come between my love 

and me ! 
I felt that she was fair and good, and almost worthy thee ! 

V. 

And must I own, Confessor, how oft I strolled alone, 

And mused upon thy flattering speech, and most persuasive 

tone, 
And marveled that thou didst not say the words I wished yet 

feared, 
Full many a castle, fair and grand, my frolic fancy reared, 
And spite of bitter, rankling words, good-natured friends 

might say, 
My trusting heart forever found some cause for thy delay? 

VI. 

And yet full oft would I resolve, that never, never more 

One thought of thee should haunt my mind, and conned it 

o'er and o'er, 

A hopeless task indeed it was, such mandate to obey, 

I counsel each young maiden such trial to essay ; 

But when thy deep devotion no longer was concealed, 

And jealous doubts and earnest hopes thy changeless heart 

revealed ; 

VII. 

The depth of joy which thrilled my soul r forbade my lips to 

speak, 
But could a lover's searching glance distrust my mantling 

cheek • 

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2(3 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

I hoped my life might prove for thee one long self-sacrifice, 
And prayed that I thy fondest dreams might ever realize ; 
And now are told, Confessor, my whims and follies, all, 
And censure from the wise, I think, most powerless will fall ! 

Elizabeth Austin. 



TAM GLEN. 

"A /TY heart is a' breaking, dear Tittie, 
Some counsel unto me come len'j 
To anger them a* is a pity, 

But what will I do wi' Tarn Glen ? 

I'm thinking, wi' sic a braw fellow, 
In poortith I might mak' a fen ; 

What care I in riches to wallow, 
If I mauna marry Tarn Glen ? 

There's Lowry, the laird of Dumeller, 
Gude day to you, brute, he comes ben ; 

He brags and he blaws o' his siller, 

But when will he dance like Tarn Glen? 

My Minnie does constantly deave me, 
And bids me beware o' young men; 

They flatter, she says, to deceive me, 
But wha can think sae o' Tarn Glen? 

My daddie says, gin I'll forsake him, 
He'll gie me gude hunder marks ten; 

But if it's ordained I maun take him, 
wha will I get but Tarn Glen ? 



BETROTHAL. 27 

Yestreen at the valentine's dealing, 

My heart to my mou gied a sten; 
For thrice I drew ane without failing, 

And thrice it was written Tarn Glen ! 

The last Halloween I was wauking, 

My droukit sark-sleeve as ye ken; 
His likeness cam up the house staukin, 

And the very grey breeks o' Tarn Glen! 

Come counsel, dear Tittie, don't tarry, 

I'll gie you my bonnie black hen, 
Gif ye will advise me to marry 

The lad I lo'e dearly, Tarn Glen ! 

Robert Burns. 



Women see through Claude Lorraines. 

R. W. Emerson, 



THE IMPROVISATRICE. 

LOVED him as young Genius loves, 

When its own wild and radiant heaven 
Of starry thought burns with the light, 

The love, the life, by Genius given. 
I loved him, too, as woman loves — 

Reckless of sorrow, blame, or scorn : 
Life had no evil destiny 

That, with him, I would not have borne ! 
I would have rather been a slave, 

In tears, in bondage, by his side, 
Than shared in all, that, wanting him, 

The world had power to give beside! 



L. E. Landon. 



28 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

ANE Clairvoyance on earth is certain, and that is the Clair- 
^ voyance of true love. 



GENEVIEVE. 

A LL thoughts, all passions, all delights, 

Whatever stirs this mortal frame; 
All are but ministers of Love, 
And feed his sacred flame. 

Oft in my waking dreams do I, 
Live o'er again that happy hour, 
When midway on the mount I lay, 
Beside the ruined tower. 

The moonshine stealing o'er the scene, 
Had blended with the lights of eve; 
And she was there, my hope, my joy, 
My own dear Genevieve ! 

Few sorrows hath she of her own, 
My hope, my joy, my Genevieve ! 
She loves me best when'er I sing, 
The songs that make her grieve. 

I played a soft and doleful air, 
I sang an old and moving story; 
An old rude song, that fitted well 
The ruin wild and hoary. 

She listened with a flitting blush, 
With down-cast eyes and modest grace 
For well she knew, I could not choose 
But gaze upon her face. 



BETROTHAL. 29 

All impulses of soul and sense, 
Had thrilled my guileless Genevieve; 
The music and the doleful tale, 
The rich and balmy eve. 

And hopes, and fears that kindle hope, 
An unextinguishable throng; 
And gentle wishes, long subdued, 
Subdued and cherished long. 

She wept with pity and delight; 
She blushed with love and maiden shame; 
And like the murmur of a dream, 
I heard her breathe my name. 

Her bosom heaved — she stepped aside, 
As conscious of my look she stepped; 
Then suddenly, with timorous eye, 
She fled to me and wept. 

She half enclosed me with her arms, 
She pressed me with a meek embrace; 
And bending back her head looked up, 
And gazed upon my face. 

'Twas partly love, and partly fear, 
And partly 'twas a bashful art, 
That I might rather feel than see, 
The beating of her heart. 

I calmed her fears, and she was calm, 
And told her love with virgin pride, 
And so I won my Genevieve — 

My bright and beauteous Bride ! 

S. T. Coleridge 



30 MOSAICS OF LIFE, 



THE GROOMSMAN TO HIS MISTRESS. 

T?YERY wedding, says the proverb, 

Makes another, soon or late; 
Never yet was any marriage 

Entered in the book of Fate, 
But the names were also written 

Of the patient pair that wait. 

Blessings then upon the morning, 
When my friend with fondest look, 

By the solemn rites* persuasion, 
By himself a mistress took, 

And the Destinies recorded 

Another two, within their book. 

While the priest fulfilled his office, 
Still the ground the lovers eyed, 

And the parents and the kinsmen 
Aimed their glances at the bride, 

But the groomsmen eyed the virgins, 
Who were waiting at her side. 

Three there were that stood beside her, 
One was dark, and one was fair, 

But nor fair, nor dark, the other, 
Save her Arab eyes and hair; 

Neither dark nor fair I call her, 
Yet she was the fairest there. 

While her groomsman — shall I own it? 
Yes, to thee, and only thee — 



BETROTHAL. 81 

Gazed upon the dark-eyed maiden, 

Who was fairest of the three, 
Then he thought. " How blest the bridal 

Were the bride but such as she !" 

Then I mused upon the adage, 

Till my wisdom was perplexed, 
And I wondered as the churchman 

Dwelt upon the holy text; 
Which of all who heard the lesson, 

Should require his service next. 

Whose will be the next occasion, 
For the flowers, the feast, the wine ? 

Thine, perchance, my dearest lady, 
Or, who knows, it may be mine; 

What if 'twere — forgive the fancy — 
What if 't were — both mine and thine ? 

T. W. Parsons. 



Life outweighs all things, if Love lies within it. 

Goethe. 



f\ LADY, trust the generous boy, 
" His smiles are full of light and joy, 
And e'en his most envenomed dart, 
Is better than a vacant heart. 

i_. M. Child. 



32 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



BRINGING WATER FROM THE WELL. 

T^ARLY on a summer's morn, 

While the lark was singing sweet, 
Came, beyond the ancient farm-house, 

Sounds of lightly tripping feet. 
'Twas a lowly cottage maiden, 

Going, why, let young hearts tell, 
With her homely pitcher laden, 

Fetching water from the well. 



Shadows lay athwart the pathway, 

All along the quiet lane, 
And the breezes of the morning 

Moved them to and fro again. 
O'er the sunshine, o'er the shadow, 

Passed the maiden of the farm, 
With a charmed heart within her, 

Thinking of no ill nor harm. 

Pleasant, surely, were her musings, 

For the nodding leaves in vain, 
Sought to press their bright'ning image 

On her ever busy brain. 
Leaves and joyous birds went by her, 

Like a dim, half- waking dream, 
And her soul was only conscious 

Of life's gladdest summer gleam. 

At the old lane's shady turning, 
Lay a well of water bright, 

Singing soft its hallelujahs 

To the gracious morning light; 



BETROTHAL. 33 

Fern leaves, broad, and green, bent o'er it, 

Where its silver droplets fell, 
And the fairies dwelt beside it, 

In the spotted fox-glove bell. 

Back she bent the shading fern-leaves, 

Dipped the pitcher in the tide — 
Drew it, with the dripping waters 

Flowing o'er its glazed side. 
But before her arm could place it 

On her shiny, wavy hair, 
By her side a youth was standing! 

Love rejoiced to see the pair. 

Tones of tremulous emotion 

Trailed upon the morning breeze, 
Gentle words of heart devotion 

Whispered 'neath the ancient trees. 
But the holy, bless'd secrets, 

It becomes me not to tell : 
Life had met another meaning — 

Fetching water from the well ! 

Down the rural lane they sauntered, 

He the burdened pitcher bore; 
She with dewy eyes down looking, 

Grew more beauteous than before! 
When they neared the silent homestead, 

Up he raised the pitcher light, 
Like a fitting crown he placed it 

On her head of wavelets bright. 

Emblem of the coming burdens 

That for love of him she'd bear, 
Calling every burden blessed, 

If his love but lighten there ! 
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34 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Then, still waving benedictions, 
Further — further off he drew, 

While the shadow seemed a glory 
That across the pathway grew. 

Now about the household duties 

Silently the maiden went, 
And an ever radiant halo 

With her daily life was blent. 
Little knew the ancient matron, 

As her feet like music fell, 
What abundant treasure found she, 

Fetching water from the well. 



TN the meanest hut is a romance, if you knew the hearts 
■*- there. 

Varnhagen von Ense. 



THE APPEAL. 

fX& ! mother, cease to break my heart, 
^ I vow it now, I vowed it then — 
The kiss he left upon my lips, 

His lips shall one day take again ! 
Ah, well I mind the summer eve, 

A low scud swept the waning moon. 
And o'er the ripened clover-lea 

Floated the balmy breath of June. 

Among the dreamy woodland glooms, 
Alone, we breathed our parting sighs ; 

Only the silent watching stars 

Looked on us, with their holy eyes. 



BETROTHAL. 35 

No golden circlet bound our love, 

No vow at sacred altar given; 
Yet, in that hour, our married souls 

Were registered as one, in heaven. 

I will not live, a guilty thing, 

Pillowed upon another's breast, 
While every thought I send to him, 

Shall scare God's angels from my rest ! 
Perjured— before a new-born soul! 

[If such in holy trust were given,] 
Mother, / need a clean white hand 

To lead a little child to Heaven! 

Oh, turn away your cruel eyes ! 

The gold you'd sell me for is dim; 
What need I bargain for the world? 

I have my full round world in him. 
Then, mother, cease to break my heart, 

I vow it now, I vowed it then — 
The kiss he left upon my lips, 

His lips shall one day take again ! 

Sarah Warner Brooks. 



SCHULE — LOVE. 

npWAS then we luvit ilk ither weel, 

-*- 'Twas then we twa did part; 

Sweet time ! sad time ! twa bairns at schule, 

Twa bairns, and but ae heart ! 
When baith bent doun owre ae braid page, 

Wi' ae buik on our knee, 
Thy lips were on thy lesson, but 

My lesson was in thee ! 



36 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

mind ye how we hung our heads, 

How cheeks brent red wi' shame, 
Whene'er the schule-weans, laughin', said 

We cleeked thegither hame ? 
I've wandered east, I've wandered west, 

Through many a weary way; 
But never, never can forget 

The time of life's young day! 



William Motherwell. 



LOVE. 

T OVE ? I will tell thee what it is to love ! 

It is to build with human thoughts a shrine 
Where hope sits brooding like a beauteous dove; 

Where Time seems young and life a thing divine, 
All tastes, all pleasures, all desires combine, 

To consecrate this sanctuary of bliss, 
Above, the stars in shroudless beauty shine; 

Around, the streams their flowery margins kiss, 

And if there's heaven on earth, that heaven is surely this. 
Yes ! this is Love, the steadfast and the true, 

The immortal glory which hath never set; 
The best, the brightest gift the heart e'er knew ; 

Of all life's sweets, the very sweetest yet ! 
Oh ! who but can recall the eve they met 

To breathe, in some green walk, their first young vow, 
While summer flowers with moonlight dews were wet. 

And winds sighed soft around the mountain's brow, 

And all was rapture then, which is but memory now. 

Charles Swain. 



BETROTHAL. 37 

E COSA si dolce, Y essere amato ! 



Gluchlich allein ist die seele die liebt. 

Gothe's Egmont. 



THE BKOOKSIDE. 

T WANDEKED by the brookside, 

-*- I wandered by the mill, 

I could not hear the brook flow, 

The noisy wheel was still. 
There was no burr of grasshopper, 

No chirp of any bird — 
But the beating of my own heart 

Was all the sound I heard. 

I sat beneath the elm tree; 

I watched the long, long shade, 
And as it grew still longer, 

I did not feel afraid; 
For I listened for a foot-fall, 

I listened for a word — 
But the beating of my own heart 

Was all the sound I heard. 

He came not — no, he came not, 

The night came on alone, 
The little stars sat one by one, 

Each on his golden throne; 
The evening air past by my cheek, 

The leaves above were stirred; 
But the beating of my own heart 

Was all the sound I heard. 



38 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Fast silent tears were flowing, 

When something stood behind, 
A hand was on my shoulder, 

I knew its touch was kind ! 
It drew me nearer — nearer, 

We did not speak a word; 
But the beating of our own hearts 

Was all the sound we heard. 



R. M Milnes. 



AN EXPERIENCE. 

A HAPPY lover who has come, 

To look on her that loves him well, 
Who lights and rings the gateway bell, 
And learns her gone, and far from home. 

He saddens, all the magic light 

Dies off at once from bower and hall, 
And all the place is dark, and all 

The chambers emptied of delight. 

A.fred Tennyson. 



'HE hydden traynes I know, and secret snares of Love, 
How soone a luke will prynte a thoughte that never may 
remove. 

Howard — Earl of Surry. 







NE of the most wonderful things in nature, is a glance ; it 
transcends speech ; it is the bodily symbol of identity. 

R. W. Emerson. 



BETROTHAL. 39 



THE PICTURE AT THE FOUNTAIN. 

T7ENELI leaned her head upon the breast of him whom she 
accepted thus as her husband. As the waves of the fountain 
succeeded each other, pure and limpid, so the certainty of his 
happiness floated into the heart of Ulric. He pressed the 
young girl gently in his arms. What he said first was lost in 
the murmuring of the water ; then the fountain heard, " Will 
you be mine ?" " Yes, forever." It heard other things besides, 
but it has never repeated them. 

Jeremias Gotthelf. 



rPHE supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are 
loved; loved for ourselves — say rather, loved in spite of 
ourselves. 

Victor Hugo. 

~DE loyal to thy luver trew, 

And nevir change hir for a new; 
If gude and fayre, of hir have care, 
A woman's banning's wondrous sair. 

Anne Boswelf. 



Love sought, is good; but given unsought, is better. 

Twelfth Night — Act III., Scene I. 



TO 



r POO late I staid — forgive the crime; 

The minutes flew like hours: 
How noiseless falls the foot of Time ! 
That only treads on flowers ! 



40 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Oh! who to sober measurement 

Time's happy swiftness brings, 
When birds of Paradise have lent 

Their plumage for his wings! 

William R. Spencer 



ASSOCIATION. 

Lorenzo. You came to Mantua? 

Mariana. What could I do? 

Cot, garden, vineyard, rivulet, and wood, 

Lake, sky, and mountain, went along with him ! 

Could I remain behind ? I followed him 

To Mantua ! to breathe the air he breathed, 

To walk upon the ground he walked upon, 

To look upon the things he looked upon, 

To look, perchance, on him ! 

J. S. Knowlet. 



A TALISMAN. 

[I love thee, and I feel 

That on the fountain of my heart a seal 

Is set, to keep its waters pure and bright 

For thee.] 

P. B. Shelley. 

A WOMAN'S QUESTION. 

"DEFOKE I trust my fate to thee, 
-^ Or place my hand in thine, 
Before I let thy future give 

Color and form to mine, 
Before I peril all for thee, question thy soul to-night for 
me. 



BETROTHAL. 41 

I break all slighter bonds, nor feel 

A shadow of regret; 
Is there one link within the Past 

That holds thy spirit yet? 
Or is thy Faith as clear and free as that which I can pledge 
to thee ? 

Does there within thy dimmest dreams 

A possible future shine, 
Wherein thy life could henceforth breathe, 

Untouched, unshared by mine? 
If so, at any pain or cost, oh, tell me before all is lost. 

Look deeper still. If thou canst feel 

Within thy inmost soul, 
That thou hast kept a portion back, 

While I have staked the whole; 
Let no false pity spare the blow, but in true mercy tell 
me so. 

Is there within thy heart a need 

That mine cannot fulfil ? 
One chord that any other hand 

Could better break or still? 
Speak now — lest at some future day my whole life wither and 
decay. 

Lives there within thy nature hid 

The demon-spirit Change, 
Shedding a passing glory still, 

On all things new and strange ? 
It may not be thy fault alone — but shield my heart against 
thy own. 
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42 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Couldst thou withdraw thy hand one day, 

And answer to my claim, 
That Fate, and that to-day's mistake — 

Not thou— had been to blame ? 
Some soothe their conscience thus ; but thou wilt surely warn 
and save me now. 

Nay, answer not — I dare not hear, 

The words would come too late; 
Yet I would spare thee all remorse, 

So comfort thee, my Fate; 
Whatever on my heart may fall, remember, I would risk it 
all. 

Adelaide A. Proctor. 



CHOICE Or A WIFE. 

YT7HEN it shall please God to bring thee to man's estate, 
use great providence and circumspection in choosing thy 
wife. For from thence will spring all thy future good or evil ; 
and it is an action of life, like unto a stratagem of war; 
wherein a man can err but once ! 

Sir Philip Sydney. 



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MAKKIAGE. 

rpHOSE awful words, " Till death do part," 
-^ May well alarm the youthful heart: 
No after-thought when once a wife; 
The die is cast, and cast for life; 
Yet thousands venture every day, 
As some base passion leads the way. 



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BETROTHAL. 43 

Pert Sylvia talks of wedlock-scones, 
Though scarcely entered on her teens; 
Smiles on her whining spark, and hears 
His sugared speech with raptured ears; 
Impatient of a parent's rule, 
She quits her sire, and weds a fool. 
Want enters at the guardless door, 
And love is fled, to come no more. 
Some few there are of sordid mould, 
Who barter youth and bloom for gold; 
Careless with what, or whom they mate, 
Their ruling passion's all for state, 
But Hymen, generous, just, and kind, 
Abhors the mercenary mind; 
Such rebels groan beneath his rod, 
For Hymen's a vindictive god. 
'Tis an important point to know, 
There's no perfection here below, 
Man's an odd compound, after all, 
And ever has been since the fall. 
Say, that he loves you from his soul, 
Still man is proud, nor brooks control; 
And though a slave in Love's soft school, 
In wedlock claims his right to rule. 
The best, in short, has faults about him, 
If few those faults, you must not flout him ; 
With some, indeed, you can't dispense, 
As want of temper, want of sense. 

Vision VII. on Marriage — Nathaniel Cotton. 



CHOSE my wife as she did her wedding gown, for qualities 
that would wear well. 

Oliver Goldsmith. 



14 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

T7R0M my experience, not one in twenty marries the first 
love; we build statues of snow, and weep to see them melt. 

Walter Scott. 



'0 know, to esteem, to love, and then to part, 
Makes up life's tale to many a feeling heart. 



LOVE WILL TIND OUT THE WAY. 

/ \VER the mountains, 

^ And over the waves; 
Under the fountains, 

And under the graves; 
Under floods that are deepest, 

Which Neptune obey ; 
Over rocks that are steepest, 

Love will find out the way. 

Where there is no place 

For the glow-worm to lie; 
Where there is no place 

For receipt of a fly; 
Where the midge dare not venture, 

Lest herself fast she lay; 
If love come, he will enter, 

And soon find out his way. 

You may esteem him 

A child for his might; 
Or you may deem him 

A coward from his flight ; 



BETROTHAL. 45 

But if she, whom Love doth honor, 

Be concealed from the day, 
Set a thousand guards upon her, 

Love will find out the way. 

Some think to lose him 

By having him confined, 
And some do suppose him, 

Poor thing, to be blind; 
But if ne'er so close ye wall him, 

Do the best that you may, 
Blind love, if so ye call him, 

Will find out his way. 

You may train the eagle 

To stoop to your fist; 
Or you may inveigle 

The phenix of the east; 
The lioness, ye may move her 

To give o'er her prey; 
But you'll ne'er stop a lover: 

He will find out his way. 

Percy's Reliques. 



THE ANNOYEK 

TTE blurs the print of the scholar's book, 

And intrudes in the maiden's prayer, 
And profanes the cell of the holy man, 

In the shape of a lady fair. 
In the darkest night, and the bright daylight, 

In earth, and sea, and sky, 
In every home of human thought, 

Will Love be lurking nigh. 

N. P. Willis. 



46 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

BRIDAL SONG, 

To my Sister on the Morning of her Marriagt. 

C\ OLDEN in thy youth, Lizzie, 

Golden in thy prime, 
Golden wilt thou be, Lizzie, 
In the olden time. 

Linger on the stile, Lizzie, 
Back and forth glance free; 

Listen while I sing, Lizzie, 
Bridal song for thee. 

Wildly music swept, Lizzie, 
O'er thy dewy dawn; 

Mellowed now, but yet, Lizzie, 
Sweet as in its morn. 

Gently, bravely borne, Lizzie, 
Life's past scenes of woe; 

With the lesson fraught, Lizzie, 
Safely onward go. 

Wisdom calmly wends, Lizzie, 

Sadly, nor in glee; 
Be not all too wise, Lizzie, 

Laughter loveth thee. 



Sandals shod with lead, Lizzie, 
Lengthen out the way; 

But the light heart lives, Lizzie, 
Lend thee to its sway. 



BETROTHAL. 

Merry make the Manse, Lizzie, 

Sinners save by smiles; 
Saints may not withstand, Lizzie, 

Woman's winning wiles. 

Tell it not in Gath, Lizzie, 

Nor in Askalon, 
That I dream and rhyme, Lizzie, 

For my lay is done. 

Mistress coy is Law, Lizzie, 

Brooketh rival none; 
Laughs to scorn the Muse, Lizzie, 

So my lay is done. 



Henry D. Austin. 



THE FATHER'S LAMENT, 

rpHUS it is our daughters leave us, 
-*- Those we love, and those who love us; 
Just when they have learned to help us, 
When we are old and lean upon them, 
Comes a youth with flaunting feathers, 
With his flute of reeds, a stranger, 
Wanders piping through the village, 
Beckons to the fairest maiden, 
And she follows where he leads her, 
Leaving all things for the stranger. 

H. W. Longfellow. 



THE BRIDAL — A PICTURE. 

A LIVE with eyes, the village sees 
The Bridal dawning from the trees, 
And housewives swarm i' the sun like bees 



48 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Love's lovely to the passer-by, 

But they who love are regioned high 

On hills of bliss with heaven nigh. 

The Blessing given, the ring is on 
And at God's altar radiant run 
The currents of two lives in one! 



T?ROM the sky the sun, benignant, 

-L Looked upon them through the branches, 

Saying to them, " Oh, my children, 

Love is sunshine, hate is shallow, 

Life is checkered shade and sunshine; 

Rule by love, Hiawatha !" 

From the sky the moon looked at them, 

Filled the lodge with mystic splendor, 

Whispered to them, " Oh, my children, 

Day is restless, night is quiet, 

Man imperious, woman feeble : 

Half is mine, although I follow; 

Rule by patience, Laughing Water." 

M. W Longfellow, 



WEDDED LIFE. 

ft C 49 



WEDDED LIFE. 



Sail forth into the sea of life, 
Oh gentle, loving, trusting wife, 
And safe from all adversity, 
Upon the bosom of that sea 
Thy comings and thy goings be ! 
For gentleness, and love, and trust, 
Prevail o'er angry wave and gust ; 
And in the wreck of noble lives, 
Something immortal still survives ! 

H. W. LONGFBLLOW. 

To be man's tender mate was woman born, 

And, in obeying nature, she best serves 

The purposes of Heaven. 

Schiller, 



DOST THOU REMEMBEK? 

TX7HEN shall we come to that delightful day 

Y Y When each can say to each, "Dost thou remember V 
Let us fill urns with rose leaves in our May, 
And hive the thrifty sweetness for December ? 

For who may deem the reign of love secure, 

Till in a mighty past is built his throne ; 
Hope is a star each vapor can obscure, 

Memory the only empire all her own. 

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52 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

; Tis the heart's home to have a world, in time 
Of happy thoughts that we have known before, 

Hearing, in common words, the holy chime 

Of those sweet Sabbath-bells — the dreams of yore. 

Oft dost thou ask me, with that bashful eye, 
" If I shall love thee evermore as now ?" 

Feasting as fondly on the sure reply, 
As if my lips were virgin of the vow ! 

Sweet does that question, " Wilt thou love me ?" fall 
Upon the heart that has forsworn its will ; 

But when the words hereafter we recall, 

11 Dost thou remember ?" — shall be sweeter still ! 



A CAUTION. 

T?V'N in the happiest choice, where favoring Heaven 

Has equal love and easy fortune given, 
Think not, the husband gained, that all is done: 
The prize of happiness must still be won : 
And oft the careless find it to their cost, 
The lover in the husband may be lost; 
The graces might alone his heart allure; 
Tliey, and the virtues meeting must secure. 
Let ev'n your prudence wear the pleasing dress 
Of care for him, and anxious tenderness. 
From kind concern about his weal or woe, 
Let each domestic duty seem to flow. 
Endearing still the common acts of life, 
The mistress still shall charm him in the wife; 
And wrinkled face shall unobserved come on, 
Before his eye perceives one beauty gone. 

Lord George Lyttleton. 



WEDDED LIFE, 53 

TX7EE rich nicht achtet, ehrt die Frauen nicht, 

Wer nicht die Frauen ehrt, kennt er die Liehe ? 
Wer nicht die Liebe kennt, kennt er die Ehre ? 
Wer nicht die Ehre kennt, was hat er noch ? 

Leopold Schefer. 



SHOULD not love thee, dear, so much, 
Loved I not honor more. 

Percy's Reliques. 



DARKEY'S COUNSEL TO THE NEWLY MARRIED. 

"A FY chil'ren, lub one anoder; bar wid one anoder; be faith- 
^ ful ter one anoder. You hab started on a long journey; 
many rough places am in de road; many trubbles will spring 
up by de wayside ; but gwo on hand an' hand togedder ; lub 
one anoder, an' no matter what come outer you, you will be 
happy — fur lub will sweeten ebery sorrer, lighten ebery load, 
make de sun shine in eben de bery cloudiest wedder. I knows 
it will, my chil'ren, 'case I'se been ober de groun'. Ole Aggy 
an' I hab trabbled de road. Hand in hand we hab gone ober 
de rocks; fru de mud; in de hot burning sand; been out 
togedder in de cole, an' de rain, an' de storm, fur nigh outer 
forty yar, but we hab clung ter one anoder ; an' fru ebery ting 
in de bery darkest days, de sun ob joy an' peace hab broke fru 
de clouds, an' sent him bressed rays inter our hearts. TTe 
started jess like two young saplin's you's seed a growin side 
by side in de woods. At fust we seemed 'way part fur de 
brambles, an' de tick bushes, an' de ugly forns — [dem war our 
bad ways] — war atween us; but lub, like de sun. shone down 
on us, 'an we grow'd. We grow'd till our heads got above de 
bushes ; till dis little branch, an' dat little branch — dem war 

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5-4 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

our holy feelin's — put out toward one anoder, an' we come 
closer an' closer togedder. An' dough we 'm ole trees now, an* 
sometime de wind blow, an' de storm rage fru de tops, an' 
freaten ter tear off de limbs, an' ter pull up de bery roots, we'm 
growin closer an' closer, an' nearer an' nearer togedder ebery 
day — an' soon de ole tops will meet; soon de ole branches, all 
cjbered ober wid de gray moss, will twine roun' one anoder; 
soon de two ole trees will come togedder, an' grow inter one 
foreber — grow inter one up dar in de sky, whar de wind neber 
'11 blow, whar de storm neber '11 beat; whar we shill blossom 
an' bar fruit ter de glory ob de Lord, an' in His heabenly 
kingdom foreber ! Amen. 

Edmund Kirke. 



THE POET'S SONG TO HIS WIFE. 

/ \ ! MY love's like the steadfast sun, 
^ • Or streams that deepen as they run ; 
Nor hoary hairs, nor forty years, 
Nor moments between sighs and tears; 
Nor nights of thought, nor days of pain, 
Nor dreams of glory dreamed in vain ; 
Nor mirth, nor sweetest song which flows 
To sober joys and soften woes, 
Can make my heart or fancy flee 
One moment, my sweet wife, from thee. 

Even while I muse, I see thee sit 
In maiden bloom, and matron wit; 
Fair, gentle, as when first I sued 
Ye seem, but of sedater mood ; 
Yet my heart leaps as fond for thee 
As when, beneath Arbigland tree 



WEDDED LIFE. 55 

We scaid and wooed, and thought the moon 

Set on the sea an hour too soon; 

Or lingered 'mid the falling dew, 

When looks were fond, and words were few. 

Though I see smiling at thy feet 

Five sons and ae fair daughter sweet; 

And time and care and birth-time woes 

Have dimmed thine eye, and touched thy rose; 

To thee, and thoughts of thee belong 

All that charms me of tale or song; 

When words come down like dews unsought 

With gleams of deep enthusiast thought; 

And fancy in her heaven flies free — 

They come, my love, they come from thee. 

0, when more thought we gave of old 

To silver than some give to gold, 

'Twas sweet to sit and ponder o'er 

What things should deck our humble bower ! 

'Twas sweet to pull in hope, with thee, 

The golden fruit from fortune's tree; 

And sweeter still to choose and twine 

A garland for these locks of thine; 

A song-wreath which may grace my Jean, 

While rivers flow, and woods are green. 

At times there come, as come there ought, 
Grave moments of sedater thought; 
When fortune frowns, nor lends our night 
One gleam of her inconstant light; 
And hope, that decks the peasant's bower, 
Shines like the rainbow through the shower; 
0, then, I see, while seated nigh, 
A mother's heart shine in thy eye; 



56 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

And proud resolve, and purpose meek, 
Speak of thee more than words can speak — 
I think the wedded wife of mine 
The best of all that's not divine ! 

Allan Cunningham. 



TO MY WIFE, 

On the Ninth Anniversary of her Marriage. 

"VTINE years ago you came to me, 

And nestled on my breast, 
A soft and winged mystery 

That settled here to rest ; 
And my heart rocked its Babe of bliss, 

And soothed its Child of air, 
With something 'twixt a song and kiss, 

To keep it nestling there. 

At first I thought the fairy form 



'n 



r y 



Too spirit-soft and good 
To fill my poor, low nest with warm 

And wifely womanhood. 
But such a cozy peep of home 

Did your dear eyes unfold ; 
And in their deep and dewy gloom. 

What tales of love were told! 

In dreamy curves your beauty drooped, 

As tendrils lean to twine, 
And very graciously they stooped 

To bear their fruit, my Vine ! 




TO MY WIF 



Page 56. 



WEDDED LIFE. 57 

To bear such blessed fruit of love 

As tenderly increased 
Among the ripe vine-bunches of 

Your balmy-breathing breast. 

We cannot boast to have bickered not, 

Since you and I were wed; 
We have not lived the smoothest lot, 

Nor found the downiest bed ! 
Time hath not passed o'er head in stars, 

And under foot in flowers, 
With wings that slept on fragrant airs 

Thro' all the happy hours. 

It is our way, more fate than fault, 

Love's cloudy fire to clear; 
To find some virtue in the salt 

That sparkles in a tear! 
Pray God it all come right at last, 

Pray God it so befall, 
That when our day of life is past, 

The end may crown it all. 

Gerald Massay. 



A QUESTION. 

PvID I but purpose to embark with thee 
"^ On the smooth surface of a summer's sea, 
While gentle zephyrs blow with prosperous gales, 
And fortune's favors fill the swelling sails, 
But would forsake the ship and make the shore 
When the winds whistle and the tempests roar ? 

Matthew Pryor. 
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58 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



TEN YEARS AGO. 



ago, 



rPEN years ago, ten years 

Life was to us a fairy scene; 
And the keen blasts of worldly woe 

Had seared not then its pathway green. 
Youth and its thousand dreams were ours, 

Feelings we ne'er can knew again; 
Unwithered hopes, nnwaated powers, 

And frames unworn by mortal pain: 
Such was the bright and genial flow 
Of life with us — ten years ago! 

Time has not blanched a single hair 

That clusters round thy forehead now; 
Nor hath the cankering touch of care 

Left even one furrow on thy brow. 
Thine eyes are blue as when we met, 

In love's deep truth, in earlier years; 
Thy cheek of rose is blooming yet, 

Though sometimes stained by secret tears; 
But where, oh ! where's the spirit's glow, 
That shone through all — ten years ago? 

I, too, am changed — I scarce know why — 

Can feel each flagging pulse decay; 
And youth and health, and visions high, 

Melt like a wreath of snow away; 
Time cannot sure have wrought the ill; 

Though worn in this world's sickening strife, 
In soul and form, I linger still 

In the first summer month of life; 
Yet journey on my path below, 
Oh ! how unlike — ten years ago ! 



WEDDED LIFE. 59 

But look not thus : I would not give 

The wreck of hopes that thou must share, 
To bid those joyous hours revive 

When all around me seemed so fair. 
We've wandered on in sunny weather, 

When winds were low, and flowers in bloom, 
And hand in hand have kept together, 

And still will keep, 'mid storm and gloom; 
Endeared by ties we could not know 
When life was young — ten years ago ! 

Has fortune frowned ? Her frowns were vain, 

For hearts like ours she could not chill; 
Have friends proved false? Their love might wane, 

But ours grew fonder, firmer still. 
Twin barks on this world's changing wave, 

Steadfast in calms, in tempests tried ; 
In concert still our fate we'll brave, 

Together cleave life's fitful tide; 
Nor mourn, whatever winds may blow, 
Youth's first wild dreams — ten years ago ! 

Have we not knelt beside his bed, 

And watched our first-born blossom die? 
Hoped, till the shade of hope had fled, 

Then wept till feeling's fount was dry? 
Was it not sweet, in that dark hour, 

To think, 'mid mutual tears and sighs, 
Our bud had left its earthly bower, 

And burst to bloom in Paradise ? 
What to the thought that soothed that woe 
Were heartless joys — ten years ago ? 

Yes, it is sweet, when heaven is bright, 
To share its sunny beams with thee; 



60 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

But sweeter far, 'mid clouds and blight, 
To have thee near to weep with me. 

Then dry those tears — though something changed 
From what we were in earlier youth, 

Time, that hath hopes and friends estranged, 
Hath left us love in all its truth ; 

Sweet feelings we could not forego 

For life's best joys — ten years ago. 



Alaric A. Watts. 



VTOTHING flatters a man so much as the happiness of his 
■^ wife J he is always proud of himself as the source of it. 
The tear of a loving girl, says an old book, is like a dew-drop 
on the rose ; but that on the cheek of a wife is a drop of poison 
to her husband. 

Moser. 



TTAPPY, happier far than thou, 
•^ With the laurel on thy brow, 
She that makes the humblest hearth 
Lovely but to one on earth! 



Mrs. Hemans 






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Love knows no measure, has no grave. 

Italian. 



Love makes all things possible. 

tarrerais. 



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WEDDED LIFE. 61 

F we really love a person, let him be thousands of miles 
away, he is at the end of our eyes I 

Hindoo Saying. 



HOU art not gone being gone, where'er thou art, 
Thou leav'st in him thy watchful eyes, in him thy loving 
heart. 



GOOD AND BAB SPIRITS. 

Bad Spirits — 

Think on what thou hast given up ! think on thy own 
merits ! Thou canst annoy ; thou canst punish. Take refuge 
in thy nerves, in unkindness; make use of thy power, and 
enjoy the pleasure of revenge ! 

Good Spirits — 

Think on thy wants, on thy faults. Recollect all the patience, 
all the kindness, all the tenderness, which has been shown 
thee ! Think on thy husband's worth, on his beautiful, noble 
qualities. Think also on life, how short it is; how much 
unavoidable bitterness it possesses ; how much which it is easy 
either to bear or chase away; and think how the power of 
affection can make all things right. 

Frederika Bremer. 



TX7H0 are they, that in one path have journeyed, needing 
' • not forgiveness at its close ? 



npWO consorts must be very two, before they can be very 
-*- one. 

R. W. Emerson. 
6 



(52 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Two consorts in heaven are not two, but one angel. 

Swedenborg. 



IV/rAKRIAGE is not like the hill Olympus, wholly clear, 
without clouds. 

Thomas Fuller. 



MUTUAL FORBEARANCE. 

rpiIE kindest and the happiest pair, 

Will have occasion to forbear, 
And something, every day they live 
To pity, and perhaps, forgive. 
The love that cheers life's latest stage, 
Proof against sickness and old age, 
Is gentle, delicate, and kind, 
To faults compassionate or blind; 
And will with sympathy endure 
Those evils it would gladly cure. 



William Cowper 



/^1 IVE me next good, an understanding wife, 
^ By nature wise, not learned by much art, 
Some knowledge on her part, will, all her life, 

More scope of conversation impart; 
Besides her inborn virtue fortify, 
They are most firmly good, who best know why. 

••The Wife."— Sir Thomas Overbury 



WEDDED LIFE. 63 



SUCK A ONE AS HE WOULD LOVE. 

A FACE that should content me wondrous well, 
Should not be fair, but lovely to behold; 
With gladsome chere, all grief for to expel, 

With sober looks so would I that it should 
Speak without words, such words as none can tell; 

The tress, also, should be of crisped gold, 
With wit, and these, might chance I might be tied, 
And knit again the knot that should not slide. 

Sir Thomas Wyatt 



From "MANUEL DES PECHES." 

"YTOTHING is to man so dear, 

As woman's love in good manner. 
A good woman is man's bliss, 
Where her love right and steadfast is. 
There is no solace under heaven, 
Of all that a man may neven ; 
That should a man so much glew, 
As a good woman that loveth true; 
No dearer is none in God's hurd, 
Than a chaste woman with lovely word. 

William de Wadington, translated by Robert Manning. 



nnHERE'S nae place sae sweet as one's ain fireside, 
-^ With kind friends to cheer me, and gay ones to glad ; 

I can laugh when I'm merry and sing when I'm sad, 
Oh, there's nae place sae sweet as one's ain fireside ! 

Old Song 



64 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



AN ANGEL IN THE HOUSE. 

TTOW sweet it were, if without feeble fright, 
Or dying of the dreadful beauteous sight, 
An angel came to us, and we could bear 
To see hirn issue from the. silent air 
At evening in our room, and bend on ours 
His divine eyes, and bring us from his bowers 
News of dear friends, and children who have never 
Been dead, indeed, as we shall know for ever. 
Alas ! We think not what we daily see 
About our hearts — angels that are to be, 
Or may be if they will, and we prepare 
Their souls and ours to meet in happy air — 
A child, a friend, a wife whose soft heart sings 
In unison with ours, breeding its future wings. 

Leigh Hunt. 



TTUMAN life is a constant want, and ought to be a constant 






prayer. 

S. Osgood. 







NLY so far as a man is happily married to himself, is he fit 
for married life and family life, generally. 



Novalis. 



ART Or PUTTING THINGS. 

rpHERE is no more sunshiny inmate of any home than the 
genial happy-tempered one who has the art of putting all 
things in a pleasant light, from the great misfortunes of life, 
down to a broken carriage spring, a servant's failings, a child's 
salts and senna. 

Boyd. 



WEDDED LIFE. 65 

A LL persons are not discreet enough to know how to take 
things by the right handle. 

Cervantes. 



TO MY BIRDIE. 

"\7~E ken when folks are paired, Birdie ! ye ken when folks 
are paired, 
Life's fair and foul, and freakish weather, 
An' light an' lumbering loads, thegither 

Maun a' be shared; 
An' shared with lovin' hearts, Birdie ! wi' lovin' hearts and 
free, 
Fu' fashious loads may weel be borne ; 
An' roughest roads to velvet turn, 

Trod cheerfully. 

Caroline Southey 



A WARNING. 
» 
A S the husband is, the wife is; if mated with a clown, 

The grossness of his nature will have weight to drag thee 

down. 

He will hold thee, when his passion shall have spent its novel 

force, 
Something better than his dog, a little dearer than his horse. 

Alfred Tennyson 
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GG MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



TRIFLES, NOT TRIFLES. 

" XTOTHING is a trifle which is displeasing to my friend." 
-^ Ah ! If everybody thought so, there would not so often 
arise that dull bad weather, those clouded feelings, those little 
bitter disagreeables, by which not only married people, but 
brothers and sisters, parents and children, by degrees, embitter 
one another's lives, and which create altogether that great 
grey heavy oppressive cloud — discomfort. A fly is a very 
light burden ; but if it were perpetually to return and settle 
on one's nose, it might weary us of our very lives; and by the 
side of this we would inscribe upon the tablets of Home. 
"Nothing is insignificant which gives pleasure to our friend!" 
Because, from this arises that bright summer-mild atmosphere 
in the home, which is called comfort. 

Frederika Bremer. 



THE LENT UMBRELLA. 

" T\0 you hear the rain, Mr. Caudle? I say, do you hear 
the rain ? and you've lent that man our only umbrella ! 
Take cold ', indeed ! He doesn't look like one of the sort to 
take cold. Besides, he'd better have taken cold than taken 
our umbrella. He return the umbrella ? As if anybody ever 
did return an umbrella. I should like to know how the chil- 
dren are to go to school to-morrow. They shan't go through 
such weather, I'm determined. No; they shall stay at home, 
and never learn anything — the blessed creatures — sooner than 
go and get wet; and when they grow up, I wonder who they'll 
have to thank for knowing nothing — who, indeed, but their 
own father. People who can't feel for their own children 






WEDDED LIFE. 67 

ought never to be fathers. But I know why you lent the 
umbrella. Oh, yes; I know very well. I was going out to 
tea at dear mother's to-morrow; you know that, and you did it 
on purpose. Don't tell me ; you hate me to go there, and take 
every mean advantage to hinder me. But don't you think it, 
Mr. Caudle. No, sir; if it comes down in buckets-ful, I'll go 
all the same. No; and I won't have a cab. 

" Where do you think the money's to come from ? A cab, 
indeed ! Cost me sixteen pence at least — sixteen pence — two 
and eight pence, for there's back again ! Cabs, indeed ! I 
should like to know who's to pay for 'em. I can't pay for 'em ; 
and I'm sure you can't, if you go on as you do; throwing 
away your property, and beggaring your children — buying 
umbrellas ! 

" Do you hear the rain, Mr. Caudle ? I say, do you hear it ? 
But I don't care ; I'll go to mother's to-morrow ; I will, and, 
what's more, I'll walk every step of the way, and you know 
that will give me my death. Don't call me & foolish woman; 
it's you that's the foolish man. You know I can't wear clogs; 
and with no umbrella, the wet's sure to give me a, cold — it 
always does. But what do you care for that ? Nothing at 
all. I may be laid up, for what you care, as I dare say I shall ; 
and a pretty doctor's bill there'll be. I hope there will ! It 
will teach you to lend your umbrella again. I shouldn't wonder 
if I caught my death. Yes; and that's what you lent the 
umbrella for. Of course ! Nice clothes I shall get, too, trape- 
sing through weather like this. My gown and bonnet will be 
spoilt quite. Needn't I wear 'em then ? Indeed, Mr. Caudle, 
I shall wear 'em. No, sir, I'm not going out a dowdy to please 
you, or anybody else. Gracious knows 'tisn't often that I step 
over the threshold; indeed I might as well be a slave at once; 
better, I should say. But when I go out, Mr. Caudle, I choose 
to go out as a lady. Oh ! that rain, if it isn't enough to break 
in the windows 



6fc MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

" Ugh ! I do look forward with dread for to-morrow ! How 
I am to go to mother's, I'm sure I can't tell. But if I die, 
. 11 do it. No, sir, I won't borrow an umbrella. No, and you 
shan't buy one. (With great emphasis) — Mr. Caudle, if you 
bring home another umbrella, I'll throw it in the street. I'll 
have my own umbrella, or none at all. Ha! and it was only 
last week I had a new nozzle put to that umbrella. I'm sine 
if I had known as much as I do now, it might have gone 
without one for me. Paying for new nozzles for other people 
to laugh at you. Oh, it's all very well for you — you can go 
to sleep. You've no thought of your poor, patient wife and 
your dear children. You think of nothing but lending um- 
brellas ! 

" Men, indeed ! Call themselves lords of the creation ! 
Pretty lords, when they can't even take care of an umbrella ! 
I know that walk to-morrow will be the death of me. But 
that's what you want ; then you may go to your club, and do 
as you like ; and then nicely my poor dear children will be 
used : but then, sir, you'll be happy. Oh, don't tell me ! I 
know you will ; else you'd never have lent the umbrella. * * * 
I should like to know how I'm to go to mother's without the 
umbrella? Don't tell me that I said I would go; that's nothing 
to do with it — nothing at all. She'll think I'm neglecting 
her ; and the little money we were to have, we shan't have at 
all, because we've no umbrella. The children too, dear things ! 
They'll be sopping wet ; for they shan't stop at home ; they 
shan't lose their learning; it's all their father will leave 'em, 
I'm sure. But they shall go to school. Don't tell me I said 
they shouldn't; you are so aggravating, Caudle; you'd spoil 
the temper of an angel. They shall go to school ; mark that. 
And if they get their death of cold, it's not my fault. I did 
not lend the umbrella !" 

" Here," says Caudle, " I fell asleep ; and dreamt that 



WEDDED LIFE. 69 

the sky was turned into green calico, with whalebone ribs; 
that, in fact, the whole world revolved under a tremendous um- 
brella." 

Douglas Jerrold. 



TJ IM that has a good wife, no evil in life that may not be 

borne can befall ; 
Him that has a bad wife, no good thing in life can chance to 

that good you can call. 

Spanish Saying. 



SPHERE'S but a gude wife in the country, and ilka man 
thinks he's got her. 

Scotch. 



A H ! gentle dames, it gars me greet, 

To think how mony counsels sweet, 
How mony lengthened, sage advices, 
The husband frae the wife despises! 



Robert Burns. 



A TABLE OF ERRATA. 

Hostess Loquitur. 

TX7ELL ! thanks be to Heaven, 

The summons is given; 
It's only gone seven 

And should have been six; 
There's fine overdoing 
In roasting and stewing, 
And victuals past chewing, 

To rags and to sticks ! 



MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

How dreadfully chilly ! 
I shake, willy-nilly; 
That John is so silly, 

And never will learn ; 
This plate is a cold one; 
That cloth is an old one; 
I wish they had told one 

The lamp wouldn't burn. 

Now, then, for some blunder, 
For nerves to sink under; 
I never shall wonder 

Whatever goes ill. 
That fish is a riddle ; 
It's broke in the middle; 
A Turbot? a fiddle! 

It's only a Brill ! 

It's quite overboiled too; 
The butter is oiled too ; 
The soup is all spoiled too— 

It's nothing but slop. 
The smelts looking flabby, 
The soles are so dabby; 
It is so shabby, 

That cook shall not stop! 

As sure as the morning 
She gets a month's warning, 
My orders for scorning — 

There's nothing to eat! 
I hear such a rushing; 
I feel such a flushing; 
I know I am blushing 

As red as a beet ! 



WEDDED LIFE. 71 

Friends flatter and flatter; 
I wish tliey would chatter; 
What can be the matter 

That nothing comes next? 
How very unpleasant ! 
Lord! there is the pheasant! 
Not wanted at present — 

I'm born to be vext! 

The pudding brought on, too, 
And aiming at ton, too, 
And where is that John, too, 

The plague that he is ! 
He's off on some ramble, 
And there is Miss Campbell 
Enjoying the scramble — 

Detestable quiz ! 

The veal they all eye it, 
But no one will try it; 
An ogre would shy it, 

So ruddy as that! 
And as for the mutton, 
The cold dish it's put on 
Converts to a button 

Each drop of the fat. 

The beef without mustard! 
My fate's to be flustered; 
And there comes the custard 

To eat with the hare ! 
Such flesh, fowl, and fishing, 
Such waiting and dishing! 
I cannot help wishing 

A woman might swear ! 



72 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

0. dear ! did I ever ? 
But no, I did never — 
Well, come, that is clever, 

To send up the brawn ! 
That cook, I could scold her, 
Gets worse as she's older; 
I wonder who told her 

That woodcocks are drawn i 

It's really audacious ! 
I cannot look gracious, 
Lord help the voracious 

That came for a cram ! 
There's Alderman Fuller 
Gets duller and duller, 
Those fowls, by the color, 

Were boiled with the hani I 

Well, where is the curry? 

I'm all in a flurry, 

No, cook's in no hurry — 

A stoppage again ! 
And John makes it wider— 
A pretty provider ! 
By bringing up cider 

Instead of champagne ! 

My troubles come faster ! 
There's my lord and master 
Detects each disaster, 

And hardly can sit. 
He cannot help seeing 
All things disagreeing; 
If he begins d ing 

I'm off in a fit ! 



WEDDED LIFE. 73 

This cooking ! it's messing ! 
The spinach wants pressing, 
And salads in dressing 

Are best with good eggs. 
And John — yes, already — 
Has had something heady, 
That makes him unsteady 

In keeping his legs. 

How shall I get through it? 
I never can do it; 
I'm quite looking to it, 

To sink by and by. 
O ! would I were dead now, 
Or up in my bed now, 
To cover my head now, 

And have a good cry!!! 

Thomas Hood. 



fPHE happiness of life is made up of minute fractions, the 
little soon forgotten charities of a kiss or a smile, a kind 
look, a heartfelt compliment, and the countless infinitesimals 
of pleasurable thought and genial feeling. 

Coleridge. 



THE UNREASONABLE HUSBAND. 

A WIFE, domestic, good, and pure, 

Like snail should keep within her door; 

But not like snail, in silver track, 
Place all her wardrobe on her bach ! 
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74 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

A wife should be like echo, true, 
Not speak but when she's spoken to; 

Yet not like echo, still be heard 
Contending for the final word ! 

Like a town clock a wife should be, 
Keep time and regularity; 

But not like clock harangue so clear, 
That all the town her voice may hear ! 



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THE WOMAN-LYE MASTER-PIECE. 



Palmer- 



A ND this I would ye should understand, 
I have seen women, five hundred thousand ; 
Yet in all places where I have been, 
Of all the women that I have seen, 
I never saw nor knew in my conscience 
Any one woman out of 'patience I ! ! 

POTICARY — 

By the mass, there's a great lye! 
Pardoner — " 

I never heard a greater, by our Ladie ! 

E'EDLER 

A greater! nay, know you any one so great? 

Merry John Heywood. 



WEDDED LIFE. 75 



THE GOOD WIFE. 

QHE never crosseth her husband in the spring-tide of his 
anger, but stays till it be ebbing water. Surely men, con- 
trary to iron, are worse to be wrought upon when they are hot. 
Her clothes are rather comely than costly, and she makes plain 
cloth to be velvet by her handsome wearing it. Her husband's 
secrets she will not divulge ; especially she is careful to conceal 
his infirmities. In her husband's absence, she is wife and 
deputy-husband, which makes her double the files of her dili- 
gence. At his return, he finds all things so well, that he 
wonders to see himself at home when he was abroad. Her 
children, though many in number, are none in noise, steering 
them with a look whither she listeth. 

Thomas Fuller. 



ET no man value at a little price 

George Chapman, 



A virtuous woman's counsel. 



A WOMAN in a single state may be happy, and may be 
miserable; but most happy, most miserable — these are 
epithets, which, with rare exceptions, belong exclusively to a 
wife 

S. T. Coleridge. 



76 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



MUTUAL FORGIVENESS. 

f" SUPPOSE the brides are few who have not wept once over 
-*- the hasty words of a husband, not six months married 3 and 
I suppose there are few husbands who, in the early part of 
their married life, have not felt that perhaps their choice was 
not a wise one. Breaches of harmony will occur between im- 
perfect men and women ; but all evil results may be avoided 
by a resolution, well kept on both sides, to ask forgiveness for 
the hasty word, the peevish complaint, the unshared pleasure; 
and if there is a frank and worthy nature, a quarrel is im- 
possible. 

Dr. J. G. Holland. 



rpHE very difference in their characters produced a har- 
monious combination. He was of a romantic and some- 
what serious cast : she was all life and gladness. 

Washington Irving. 



THE RETURN. 

A ND will I see his face again ? 
And will I hear him speak? 
I'm downright dizzy wi' the thought; 
In troth I'm like to greet. 

Sae sweet his voice, sae smooth his tongue; 

His breath's like caller air; 
His very foot has music in % 

As he comes up the stair. 




MUTUAL FORGIVENESS. 



Page 76. 



WEDDED LIFE. 77 



For there's nae luck about the house, 

There's nae luck at a', 
There's little pleasure in the house 

When our gude man's awa. 

William J. Mickle 



TO MY WIFE, 

On the Anniversary of her Wedding-day, which was also her Birth-day. 

"rpHEE, Mary, with this ring I wed;" 
So, fourteen years ago, I said. 

Behold another ring ! For what ? 

To wed thee o'er again. Why not? 

With that first ring I married youth, 

Grace, beauty, innocence, and truth, 

Taste long admired, sense long revered, 

And all my Mary then appeared. 

If she, by merit since disclosed, 

Prove twice the woman I supposed, 

I plead that double merit now 

To justify a double vow. 

Here, then, to-day (with faith as sure, 

With ardor as intense, as pure, 

As when amidst the rites divine, 

I took thy troth and plighted mine), 

To thee, sweet girl, my second ring, 

A token and a pledge I bring; 

With this I wed, till death us part, 

The riper virtues of thy heart; 

Those virtues which, before untried, 

The wife has added to the bride; 

Those virtues, whose progressive claim, 

Endearing wedlock's very name, 
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78 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

My soul enjoys, my song approves, 
For conscience* sake, as well as love's. 
And why? They show me every hour 
Honor's high thought, affection's power, 
Discretion's deed, sound judgment's sentence, 
And teach me all things but repentance. 

Samuel Bishop. 



rpHE treasures of the deep are not so precious 
As are the concealed comforts of a man 

Locked up in woman's love. I scent the air 
Of blessing when I come but near the house. 
What a delicious breath marriage sends forth. 
The violet bed's not sweeter ! 

Middleton. 



OTRONG- indeed is the man who has a good wife; a sensible, 
^ affectionate, refined, practical woman, who makes a man's 
nature all the stronger, by making it more tender. 

S. Osgood. 



ILLUSIONS. 

TT7E are not very much to blame for our bad marriages. 
We live amid hallucinations, and this especial trap is 
laid to trip up our feet with, and all are tripped up first or 
last. But the mighty Mother, who had been so sly with us, as 
if she felt she owed us some indemnity, insinuates into the 
Pandora box of marriage some deep and serious benefits, and 
some great joys. We find a delight in the beauty and happi- 



WEDDED LIFE. 79 

ness of children, that makes the heart too big for the body. 
In the worst assorted connections there is ever some mixture 
of true marriage. Teague and his jade get some just relations 
oi mutual respect, kindly observation, and fostering of each 
other, learn something, and would carry themselves wiselier, 
if they were now to begin. 

R. W. Emerson. 



BREAKFAST TALK. 
No. 1. 

TT'S rather extraordinary, Mrs. Smith, that you can't make 
me a proper cup of tea. Here's the eggs boiled to a stone 
again ! Do you think I'm a canary bird, to be fed upon hard 
eggs ? I think I've put up with your neglect long enough ; 
therefore, Mrs. Smith, if my tea is not made a little more to 
my liking to-morrow, and if you insult me with a herring like 
that, and boil my eggs that you might fire 'em out of guns; 
why, perhaps, Mrs. Smith, you may see a man in a passion. 
It takes a good deal to rouse me, but when I'm up — I say, 
when I'm up — that's all. Where diJ I put my gloves ? You 
don't know ? Of course, not ; you know nothing. 

Douglas Jerrold. 



BREAKFAST TALK. 
No. 2. 

T) Y the bye, Sarah, just put half a dozen shirts, and all that 
sort of thing, in my portmanteau, I'm going — There you 
are with your black looks again ! T can never go anywhere, 
just a little to enjoy myself, but you look like thunder. What ! 
/ might sometimes take you out ? Nonsense ; women — that is, 



80 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

women when they're married — are best at home. Half a dozen 
shirts, I say, and my shaving-tackle. Do you hear me, Mrs. 
Smith ? Perhaps when you've done counting the legs of that 
fly on the ceiling, you'll attend to me. Eh ? / think you 
never want to go out? Quite the contrary; it's my belief 
you'd always be out. I've no opinion of any woman who 
wants to go out at all. Women were never intended to go out. 
They manage these matters much better in the Bast. I should 
have told you where I was going, but, as you've shown your 
temper, I won't tell you a syllable. No ; nor I shan't tell you 
who I'm going with, or when I shall be back. When you sec 
me, then you may expect me, and not before. And mind that 
all the buttons are on my shirts — that's all. It's miserable 
always Icing left by yourself? Yourself, indeed! Ain't there 
books in the house ? I'm sure you'd be none the worse for 
'em. Besides, there's the Cookery book; read that. A wife 
can't study anything better. All I say to you is, stay at home ; 
you've a needle and thread, haven't you ? and I'll be sworn 
for it, plenty of things to make and mend. And if you 
haven't, cut holes, and sew 'em up again. Now, see when I 
come home that my portmanteau's ready. What's o'clock ? 

You want five minutes to ? No doubt; the old story; 

you're always wanting something. 

Douglas Jerrold. 



" "HEAVEN will be no heaven to me, if I do not meet my 

Andrew Jackson. 



■*-*- wife there." 



" Y CAN wish you no better lot," said he, with enthusiasm, 
" than to have a wife and children. If you are prosper- 
ous, there they are to share your prosperity; if otherwise, 
there they are to comfort you." 

Washington Irvirg. 



WEDDED LIFE. 81 

HTIS sweet to hear the watch-dog's honest bark, 

-*" Bay deep-mouthed welcome as we draw near home; 

'Tis sweet to know there is an eye will mark 



Our coming, and look brighter when we come. 



Lord Byron, 



Women act their parts, 
When they do make their ordered houses know them. 

J. S. Knowles, 



THE TRUEST FRIENDSHIP. 

TN wedlock when the sexes meet, 
Friendship is only then complete. 
" Blest state ! where souls each other draw, 
Where love is liberty and law !" 
The choicest blessing found below, 
That man can wish, or Heaven bestow! 



Nathaniel Cotton. 



A TRUE WIFE. 

C\ WHAT a treasure is a virtuous wife, 

^J Discreet and loving! Not one gift on earth 

Makes a man's life so nighly bound to heaven. 

She gives him double forces to endure 

And to enjoy, by being one with him, 

Feeling his joys and griefs with equal sense; 

And, like the twins Hippocrates reports, 

If he fetch sighs, she draws her breath as short; 

If he lament, she melts herself in tears; 

If he be glad, she triumphs j if he stir, 



82 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

She moves his way; . * * * 
All store without her leaves a man but poor* 
And with her poverty is exceedfng store; 
No time is tedious with her; her true worth 
Makes a true husband think his arms enfold . 
(With her alone) a complete world of gold. 

George Chapman 



ANGELS UNAWARES." 

r ITTLE can we tell who share, 

Our household hearth of love and care ! 

Therefore with grave tenderness 
Should we strive to cheer and bless, 

All who live this little life — 
Husband, children, sire, or wife, 

Lest we wrong some seraph here, 
Who has left some starry sphere, 

Exiled from the heavens above, 
To fulfill a mortal love. 



T. Powell. 



WOMAN. 

O HE presideth in the house, and there is peace. She com- 
^ mandeth with judgment, and is obeyed. She ariseth in 
the morning; she considers her affairs; and appointeth to 
every one their proper business. The care of her family is 
her whole delight; to that alone she applieth her study; and 
elegance with frugality is seen in her mansions. She informeth 



WEDDED LIFE. 83 

the minds of her children with wisdom ; she fashioneth their 
manners from the example of her own goodness. The word 
of her month is the law of their youth; the motion of her 
eye commandeth their obedience. In prosperity she is not 
puffed up; in adversity she healeth the wounds of Fortune 
with patience. The troubles of her husband are alleviated by 
her counsels, and sweetened by her endearments ; he putteth 
his heart in her bosom, and receiveth comfort. Happy is the 
man that hath made her his wife ; happy the child that calleth 
her mother. 

Robert Dodsley. 



TT is a delightful thought, that during the familiarity of con- 
stant proximity, the heart gathers up in silence the nutri- 
ment of love, as the diamond, even beneath water, imbibes the 
light it emits. Time, which deadens hatred, secretly strengthens 
love. 

Richter. 



THE STORY OP KAKIN. 

'JZ ARIN the fair, Karin the gay, 

She came on the morn of her bridal day ; 

She came to the mill-pond clear and bright, 
And viewed hersel' in the morning light. 

" And, oh," she cried, that my bonny brow 
May ever be white and smooth as now ! 

" And, oh, my hair, that I love to braid, 
Be yellow in sunshine, and brown in shade ! 

" And, oh, my waist, sae slender and fine, 
May it never need girdle longer than mine I" 



84 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

She lingered and laughed o'er the waters clear, 
When sudden she starts and shrieks with fear: 

" Oh, what is this face, sae laidly old, 
That looks at my side in the waters cold?" 

She turns around to view the bank, 
And the osier willows dark and dank; 

And from the fern she sees arise 
An aged crone wi' awsome eyes. 

" Ha ! ha t" she laughed, " ye're a bonny bride ! 
See how ye'll fare gin the New Year tide ! 

" Ye'll wear a robe sae blithely gran', 
An ell-long girdle canna span. 

" When twal-months three shall pass away, 
Your berry-brown hair shall be streaked with gray, 

" And gin ye be mither of bairnies nine, 
Your brow shall be wrinkled and dark as mine." 

Karin she sprang to her feet wi' speed, 
And clapped her hands abune her head : 

" I pray to the saints and spirits all, 

* That never a child may me mither call!" 

The crone drew near, and the crone she spake: 
"Nine times flesh and banes shall ache. 

"Laidly and awsome ye shall wane 
Wi' toil, and care and travail-pain." 

" Better," said Karin, " lay me low, 
And sink for aye in the waters' flow !" 



WEDDED LIFE. 85 

The crone raised her withered hand on high. 
And showed her a tree that stood hard by. 

" And take of the bonny fruit," she said, 
"And eat till the seeds are dark and red. 

" Count them less, or count them more, 
Nine times you shall number o'er; 

" And when each number you shall speak, 
Cast seed by seed into the lake." 

Karin she ate of the fruit sae fine; 
'Twas mellow as sand, and sweet as brine. 

Seed by seed she let them fall; 
The waters rippled over all. 

But ilka seed as Karin threw, 
Up rose a bubble to her view, 

Up rose a sigh from out the lake, 
As though a baby's heart did break. 

* * * * 

Twice nine years are come and gone; 
Karin the fair, she walks her lone. 

She sees around on ilka side 
Maiden and mither, wife and bride; 

Wan and pale her bonny brow, 
Sunken and sad her eyelids now, 

Slow her step, and heavy her breast, 
And never an arm whereon to rest. 

The old kirk-porch when Karin spied, 
The postern door was open wide. 



86 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

"Wae's me!" she said, "I'll enter in, 
And shrive me from my every sin." 

; Twas silence all within the kirk ; 
The aisle was empty, chill and mirk. 

The chancel rails were black and bare; 
Nae priest, nae penitent was there. 

Karin knelt, and her prayer she said; 

But her heart within her was heavy and dead. 

Her prayer fell back on the cold gray stone; 
It would not rise to heaven alone. 

Darker grew the darksome aisle, 
Colder felt her heart the while. 

"Wae's me!" she cried, "what is my sin?" 
Never I wronged kith nor kin. 

"But why do I start and quake with fear, 
Lest I a dreadful doom should hear? 

"And what is this light that seems to fall 
On the sixth command upon the wall ? 

"And who are these I see arise 
And look on me wi' stony eyes? 

"A shadowy troop they flock sae fast, 
The kirk-yard may not hold the last. 

"Young and old of ilk degree, 
Bairns, and bairnies' bairns, I see. 

"All I look on either way, 
* Mother, mother !' seem to say. 



WEDDED LIFE. 37 

" l We are souls that might have been, 
But for jour vanity and sin. 

" ' We, in numbers multiplied, 

Might have lived, and loved, and died; 

" i Might have served the Lord in this ; 
Might have met thy soul in bliss. 

Ui Mourn for us, then, while you pray, 
Who might have been, but never may !' " 

Then the voices died away — 
" Might have been, but never may !" 

Karin she left the kirk no more; 
Never she passed the postern-door. 

They found her dead at the vespo? toll; 
May Heaven in mercy rest her soul ! 

J. G. Whittier. 



BABYHOOD. 



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BABYHOOD. 



Of all the joys that brighten suffering earth, 
What joy is ^loomed like a new-born child? 

Mrs. Norton. 

A babe is a Mother's anchor. 

H. W. Beecher. 

A babe in a house is a well-spring of pleasure. 

Proverbial Philosophy. 



WOMAN'S WIGHTS. 

T? VERY woman has a right to think her child the " prettiest 
■^ little baby in the world," and it would be the greatest 
folly to deny her this right, for she would be sure to take it. 

Punch. 



HHHE clue of our destiny, wander where we will, lies at the 
-*- cradle-foot. 

My Early Days. 



Where children are, there is the Golden age. 

Novalis. 



I LOVE God, and every little child. 

Jean Paul, 
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92 MOSAICS OF LI I'll. 

TTOW infinite the wealth of love and hope, 
Garnered in these same tiny treasure-houses! 



TTE that hath a wife and children hath given hostages to 
Fortune. 

Lord Bacon. 



rpiIERE is even a happiness 

id. 

T. Hood. 



That makes the heart afraid. 



SEASONS OF PRAYER. 

r PI I ERE are JinKes and tears in the mother's eyes, 

For her new-born infant before her lies. 
Oh, hour of bliss ! when the heart o'erflows 
With rapture a mother only knows; 
Let it gush forth in words of fervent prayer; 
Let it swell up to heaven for her precious care. 

Henry Ware. 



HP HE heart that we have lain near before our birth is the only 
one that cannot forget that it has loved us. 



THE BABY. 

A NOTHER little wave upon the sea of life; 
Another soul to save amid its toil and strife. 



BABYHOOD. 93 

Two more little feet to walk the dusty road; 

To choose where two paths meet, the narrow and the broad. 

Two more little hands to work for good or ill; 
Two more little eyes, another little will. 

Another heart to love, receiving love again ; 
And so the baby came, a thing of joy and pain. 



MY BIRD. 

T^RE last year's moon had left the sky, 

A birdling sought my Indian nest, 
And folded, 0, so lovingly ! 

Her tiny wings upon my breast. 

From morn till evening's purple tinge, 
In winsome helplessness she lies; 

Two rose leaves with a silken fringe, 
Shut softly on her starry eyes. 

There's not in Ind a lovelier bird, 
Broad earth owns not a happier nest; 

God, thou hast a fountain stirred, 
Whose waters never more may rest. 

This beautiful, mysterious thing, 

This seeming visitant from Heaven, 

This bird with the immortal wing, 
To me, to me thy hand hath given. 

The pulse first caught its tiny stroke, 
The blood its crimson hue, from mine; 

This life which I have dared invoke, 
Henceforth is parallel with thine. 



94 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

A silent awe is in my room, 

I tremble with delicious fear; 
The future, with its light and gloom, 

Time and Eternity are here. 

Doubts, hopes, in eager tumult rise; 

Hear, 0, my God ! one earnest prayer : 
Room for my bird in Paradise, 

And give her angel plumage there ! 

Emily Judson 



TTE is sleeping — brown and silken 
Lie the lashes long and meek, 
Like caressing clinging shadows 

On his plump and peachy cheek; 
And I bend above him weeping 

Thankful tears — oh, undefiled ! 
For a woman's crown of glory, 

For the blessing of a child ! 



A GRAPHIC DESCRIPTION OP A BABY. 

TTURRAH ! Light upon the world again ! It's a glorious 
world! magnificent! quite too beautiful to leave; and, 
besides, I would rather stay, if only to thank God a little 
longer for this glorious light, this pure air that can echo back 
my loudest hurrah. And then, my boy — but haven't I told 
you ? Why, sir, I've got a boy. A BOY ! ha, ha ! I shout 
it out to you — A BOY : fourteen pounds, and the mother a 
great deal better than could be expected ! And, I say, sir, it's 
mine! Hurrah, and hallelujah forever! 0, sir, such legs, 



BABYHOOD. 95 

such arms, and such a head ! and 0, good heavens ! lie has his 
mothers lips! I can kiss them forever! and then, sir, look 
at his feet, his hands, his chin, his eyes, his everything 
in fact, so, u so perfectly 0. K V Give me joy, sir; no 
you needn't, either ! I am full now ; I run over ; and they 
say that I ran over a number of old women, half killed the 
mother, pulled the doctor by the nose, and upset a Apothecary 
shop in the corner ; and then, didn't I ring the tea-bell ? 
Didn't I blow the horn ? Didn't I dance, shout, laugh, and 
cry, altogether ? The women they had to tie me up. I don't 
believe that ; but who is going to shut his mouth when he has 
a live baby? You should have heard his lungs, sir, at the 
first mouthful of fresh air ; such a burst ! A little tone in his 
voice, but not pain ; excess of joy, sir, from too great sensation. 
The air-bath was so sudden, you know. 

Think of all this beautiful machinery starting off at once in 
full motion ; all his thousand outside feelers answering to the 
touch of cool air ; the flutter and crash at the ear, and that 
curious contrivance, the eye, looking out wonderingly and 
bewildered on the great world, so glorious to his unworn per- 
ceptions. His network of nerves, his wheels and pulleys, his 
air pumps and valves, his engines and reservoirs ; and within 
all, that beautiful fountain, with its jets and running streams, 
dashing and coursing through the whole length and breadth, 
without stint or pause; making altogether, sir, exactly four- 
teen. Did I ever talk brown to you, sir, or blue, or any other 
of the Devil's colors ? You say I have. Beg your pardon, 
sir, but you are mistaken in the individual. I am this day, 
sir, multiplied by two; I am duplicate; I am number one of 
an indefinite series, and there's my continuation. And you 
observe, sir, it is not a block, nor a blockhead, nor a painting, 
nor a bust, nor a fragment of anything, however beautiful; 
but a combination of all the arts and sciences in one ; painting, 
sculpture, music, (hear him cry !) mineralogy, chemistry, me- 



96 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

chanics, (sec him kick !) geography, and the use of the globes, 
(see him Durae !) and with all. he is a perpetual motion, a time- 
piece that will never run down. 

And who wound it up? But words are but a mouthing and 
a mockery. * * * * 

When a man is nearly crushed under obligations, it is pre- 
sumed he is unable to speak ; but lie may bend over very care- 
fully, for Tear of Billing, nod in a small way. and say nothing; 
and then ii' he have sullieient presence of mind to lay a hand 
up«»n his heart, and look down at an angle of forty-five degrees, 
with a motion of the lips, muttered poetry, showing the wish 
and the inability, it will be i well done) very gracefully ex- 
pressive. With my boy in his first integuments, I assume 
that position, make the small nod aforesaid, and leave you the 
poetry unmuttered. 



THE INVALID WIFE. 

"T7VERY wife needs a good stock of love to begin with/' 
-^ Don't she ? You are upon a sick bed ; a little feeble 
thing lies on your arm, that you might crush with your hand. 
You take those little velvet fingers in yours, close your eyes, 
and turn your head languidly to the pillow. Little brothers 
and sisters, Henry and Willie, and Agnes and Bessie, and 
Mary and Kitty — half a score — come tip-toeing into the room 
to " see the new baby." It is quite an old story to " nurse," 
who sits like an automaton, w r hile they give vent to their 
enthusiastic admiration of its wee toes and fingers, and make 
profound inquiries, which nobody thinks best to hear. You 
look on with a languid smile, and they pass out, asking, " w r hy 
they can't stay with dear mamma, and w T hy they mustn't play 
1 puss in the corner' as usual t n You wonder if your little 
croupy boy tied his tippet on when he went to school, and 



BABYHOOD. 97 

whether Betty will see that your husband's flannel ?.s aired, 
and if Peggy has cleaned the silver, and washed off the front 
door steps, and what your blessed husband is about, that he 
don't come home to dinner. There sits old nurse, keeping up 
that dreadful treadmill trotting " to quiet the baby," till you 
eould fly through the key-hole in desperation. The odor of 
dinner begins to creep up-stairs. You wonder if your hus- 
band's pudding will be made right, and if Betty will remember 
to put wine in the sauce, as he likes it: and then the per- 
spiration starts out on your forehead as you hear a thumping 
on the stairs, and a child's suppressed scream ; and nurse 
snatches the baby up in flannel to the tip of its nose, dumps 
it down in the easy-chair, and tells you to leave the family to 
her and go to sleep. By and by she comes in — after staying 
down long enough to get a refreshing cup of coffee— and walks 
up to the bed with a bowl of gruel, tasting it, and then putting 
the spoon back into the bowl. In the first place, you hate 
gruel ; in the next, you couldn't eat it if she held a pistol to 
your head, after that spoon had been in her mouth; so you 
meekly suggest that it be set on the table to cool — hoping by 
some providential interposition it may get tipped over.. Well, 
she moves round your room with a pair of creaking shoes, and 
a bran-new gingham gown that rattles like a paper window- 
curtain at every step ; and smooths her hair with your nice 
little head-brush, and opens a drawer by mistake (?), u think- 
ing it was the baby's drawer.'' Then you hear little nails- 
scratching on the door; and Charlie whispers through the 
key-hole, " Mamma, Charlie's tired, please let Charlie come in." 
Nurse scowls and says no ; but you intercede — poor Charlie, 
he's only a baby himself. Well, he leans his head against the 
pillow, and looks suspiciously at that little, moving bundle of 
flannel in nurse's lap. It's clear he's had a hard time of it, 
what with tears and molasses ! The little shining curls, that 
you have so often rolled over your finger are a tangled mass; 
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98 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

and you long to take hirn and make him comfortable, and 
cosset him a little; and then, baby cries again, and you turn 
your head to the pillow with a smothered sigh. Nurse hears 
it, and Charlie is taken struggling from the room. You take 
your watch from under your pillow, to see if husband won't be 
home soon, and then look at nurse, who takes a pincb of snuff 
over your gruel, and sits down, nodding drowsily, with the 
baby in an alarming proximity to the fire. Now you hear a 
dear step on the stairs. It's your Charlie! How bright he 
looks! and what nice fresh air he brings with him from out 
of doors ! lie parts the bed-curtains. looks in, and pats you 
on the cheek. Sou just want to lay your head on his shoulder 
and have such a splendid cry! but there sits that old Gorgon 
of a nurse — she don't believe in husbands, she don't! You 
make Charlie a Free Bfason sign to send her down-stairs for 
something. He says, right out loud — men are so stupid ! — 
11 What did you say, dear "'" Of course you protest you didn't 
say a word — never tho't of such a thing! and cuddle your 
head down to your ruffled pillows, and cry because you are 
weak and weary, and full of care for your family, and don't 
want to see anybody but " Charlie." Nurse says " she shall 
have you sick," and tells your husband " he'd better go down, 
and let you go to sleep." Off he goes, wondering what on 
earth ails you to cry ! wishes he had nothing to do but lie 
still, and be waited upon ! After dinner .he comes in to bid 
you good-bye before he goes to his office ; whistles " Nel'/ Bly" 
loud enough to wake up the baby, whom he calls a " comical 
little concern," and then puts his dear, thoughtless head down 
to your pillow, at a signal from you, to hear what you have to 
say. Well, there's no help for it, you cry again, and only say, 
" Dear Charlie f and he laughs and settles his dickey, and 
says you are a " nervous little puss," gives you a kiss, lights his 
cigar at the fire, half strangles the new baby with the first 
whiff, and takes your heart off with him down the street 



BABYHOOD. 99 

And you lie there and eat that gruel ! and pick the fuzz all 
off the blanket, and make faces at the nurse, under the sheet, 
and wish Eve had never ate that apple — Genesis iii. 16; or 
that you were "Abel to Cain" for doing it ! 

Fanny Fern. 



BABY. 

AN tip-toe I entered the bed-room of baby; 

And trembling I parted the gossamer curtains 
Where baby lay, fair as a fresh morning glory. 

Like petals of purest and pinkest petunias, 
Four delicate fingers crept out of their nestling, 
Transparent and chubby, they rest on the crib's edge, 
And draping the fingers, a fringe of crochet-work, 
As flossy and light as a net-web of snow lace, 
Lay, kissing them daintily — ever so daintily! 
Nails soft and so tiny, and tinted like pink-buds, 
Looked up to me temptingly — "ever so cunning;" 
And asked me to kiss them, and oh ! how I longed to, 
But dare not, for baby was smiling so sweetly 
I knew he beheld then an angel-face % near him. 



Loose ringed, "on his temples of pure alabaster, 
Lay curls of the softest and lightest of texture, 
As. sketched by a crayon of delicate gold-tint; 
Such curls as the gods gave to Cupid and Psyche! 
Those kissable curls, with their live, springing tendrils, 
Came up to my lips, and went down to my heart-strings. 

Those eyelids so filmy, translucent as amber, 

Were colored and toned by the blue eyes beneath them, 

To softest of purple. 0, marvellous eyelids ! 



100 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Ah ! what is this clinging so close to my heart-string, 
'Tis fear — that I know by the thrill in my bosom ? 
'Tis born of these ringlets and fingers and eyelids : 
Born of this beauty too precious for mortals; 
It tells me I look on the face of an angel 
That lies there deceiving my soul by concealing 
Its pinions beneath the blue waves of the velvet. 

I'll wake him ! the darling ! with kisses I'll wake him. 
There ! there ! I have reddened the white brow of baby, 
Between those two limnings of delicate lace work — 
The rarest of eyebrows; his laugh reassures me! 
I'll crush him down hard, wings and all, on my bosom ! 

Knickerbocker. 



A VERSE EOR THE YOUNG MOTHER TO PARODY 

HPHERE'S not a sabre meets her eye, 

But with his life-blood seems to swim; 
There's not an arrow wings the sky, 
But fancy turns its point to him! 

T. Moore 



A NURSERY SONG. 

HAD a little baby once, 
1 I called him "Wakeful Willie ;" 
He would not go to sleep one night, 
He was so very silly. 

I went and asked the moolly cow, 
If in her arms she'd lock him, 

And if she could but spare the time, 
Would just sit down and rock him ? 



BABYHOOD. 101 

She said she had no rocking-chair, 

Else would she be quite willing; 
But she'd give him supper of new milk, 

And never ask a shilling. 

I asked the horse to leave his oats, 

The old horse in the stable, 
And come and rock my boy to sleep, 

And sing if he were able. 

But he had been a journey long, 

He said, and felt quite weary; 
Else would he find his prettiest song, 

And sing it to my deary. 

I asked the cat, upon the mat, 

To rock my babe to slumber; 
Says Puss, "I never rocked a babe, 

Though I've had quite a number. 

" Besides, the rat is in his hole, 
And I have got to watch him, 
And there's a mouse, about the house, 
And I have got to catch him Y* 

The croaking frog, down in the bog, 
Among the reeds was sprawling, 
" Come up," said I, " and hush my boy, 
For music is thy calling." 

He shook his head, and sadly said, 

" Though music my delight is, 
Yet once I wet my feet, and since, 
I'm troubled with bronchitis." 
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102 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

I went and asked the speckled hen, 
Beneath her wings to fold him, 

To sing him all the songs she knew, 
And if he stirred, to scold him ! 

She said, " Her babies slept so well, 
She never sang a quaver, 

Nor could she even sing a song, 
If from the cook 'twould save her. 



The white owl in the cypress tree, 

Looked gentle as a lily, 
I asked her to come in, and sing 

A song to " Wakeful Willie." 

She stared at me with two great eyes, 
And said, " She could not now sing, 

For wise folks were but just awake, 
And 'twas her time for mousing." 

I knew the song-birds were asleep, 
And sleep they would till morning; 

For Robin nodded as he sang, 
And Whippoorwill was yawning. 

I looked about in hope to see, 
The nightingale and mavis, 

When up stairs hopped a pretty bird, 
'Twas Willie's sister Avis. 

And Avis sang till Willie slept, 

As well as she was able, 
While mother went to pour out tea 

For Father at the table. 



BABYHOOD. 103 



THOUGHTS WHILE SHE ROCKS THE CRADLE. 

TT7HAT is the little one thinking about? 
Very wonderful things, no doubt. 

Unwritten history ! 

Unfathomable mystery! 
But he laughs and cries, and eats and drinks, 
And chuckles and crows, and nods and winks, 
As if his head were as full of kinks 
And curious riddles as any sphynx ! 

Warped by colic and wet by tears, 
Punctured by pins and tortured by fears, 
Our little nephew will lose two years; 

And he'll never know 

Where the summers go! 

He need not laugh, for he'll find it so! 

Who can tell what the baby thinks? 
Who can follow the gossamer links 

By which the manikin feels his way, 
Out from the shores of the great unknown, 
Blind, and wailing, and alone, 

Into the light of day? 
Out from the shores of the unknown sea, 
Tossing in pitiful agony! 

Of the unknown sea that reels and rolls, 
Specked with the barks of little souls — 
Barks that launched on the other side, 
And slipped from heaven on an ebbing tide ! 
And what does he think of his mother's eyes? 

What does he think of his mother's hair? 
What of the cradle roof that flies 

Forward and backward through the air? 



104 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

What does he think of his mother's breast, 
Bare and beautiful, smooth and white, 
Seeking it ever with fresh delight, 

Cup of his joy, and couch of his rest? 

What does he think when her quick embrace 
Presses his hand, and buries his face 
Deep where the heart-throbs sink and swell 
With a tenderness she can never tell ? 
Though she murmur the words of all the birds — 
Words she has learned to murmur so well ! 
Now he thinks he'll go to sleep ! 
I can see the shadows creep 
Over his eyes in soft eclipse, 
Out in his little finger tips, 
Softly sinking down he goes, 
Down he goes, down he goes. 
See! he is hushed in sweet repose! 



PHILIP, MY KING. 

"Who bears upon his baby brow the round 
And top of sovereignty." 

T OOK at me with thy large brown eyes, 

-^ Philip, my King. 

Round where the enshadowing purple lies 

Of babyhood's royal dignities; 

Lay on my neck thy tiny hand 

With love's invisible sceptre laden; 
I am thine Esther to command, 

Till thou shalt find a queen-handmaiden, 
Philip, my King. 



BABYHOOD. 105 

Oh, the day when thou goest a wooing, 

Philip, my King ! 
When those beautiful lips 'gin suing, 
And some gentle heart's bars undoing, 
Thou dost enter love-crowned, and there 

Sittest love glorified. Rule kindly, 
Tenderly over thy kingdom fair; 

For we that love, ah ! we love so blindly, 
Philip, my King. 

Up from thy sweet mouth, up to thy brow, 

Philip, my King! 
The spirit that there lies sleeping now 
May ride like a giant, and make men bow, 
As to one heaven-chosen amongst his peers — 

My Saul, than thy brethren taller and fairer, 
Let me behold thee in future years; 
Yet thy head needeth a circlet rarer, 
Philip, my King. 

A wreath not of gold, but palm — one day, 

Philip, my King! 
Thou too must tread, as we trod, a way 
Thorny and cruel, and cold and gray; 
Rebels within thee, and foes without, 

Will snatch at thy crown. But march on glorious, 
Martyr, yet monarch, till angels shout, 

As thou sit'st at the feet of God, victorious, 
Philip, my King! 

Miss Mutoch. 



H 



E sings to the wide world, and she to her nest ; 

the b 

J. R. Lov 



In the nice ear of Nature which song is the best ? 



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106 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



OUK BABY. 



FvID you ever see our baby? 
^ Little Tot; 

With her eyes so sparkling bright, 
And her skin so lily white, 
Lips and cheeks of rosy light — 

Tell you what, 
She is just the sweetest baby 

In the lot. 

Ah ! she is our only darling, 

And to me 
All her little ways are witty; 
And when she sings her little ditty, 
Every word is just as pretty 

As can be — 
Not another in the city 

Sweet as she. 

You don't think so — never saw her, 

Wish you could 
See her with her playthings clattering, 
Hear her little tongue a chattering; 
Little dancing feet come pattering — 

Think you would 
Love her just as well I do, 

If you could ! 

Every grandma's only darling, 

I suppose, 
Is as sweet and bright a blossom, 
Is a treasure to her bosom, 



BABYHOOD. 107 

Is as cheering and endearing, 

As my rose. 
Heavenly Father, spare them to us, 

Till life's close. 

Mrs. Gage. 



NOT AN EVERY-DAY BABY. 

*\^OU know how apt babies are to be remarkable; but, sir, 
perhaps you never saw a baby like this ; I presume to say, 
you never did. That it is fair and round-faced ; that it never 
cries; that it is always "jolly," so to speak. These things are 
something, but what I have to add, is the penetrating sagacity 
with which it selects out one particular person, and wherever 
that person may go — up, down, or sideways, there follow the 
baby's eyes with the pertinacity of a magnet ! And who do 
you suppose is that individual ? The father ? the mother ? or 
grandfather ? No, sir ! I am that individual ! You will ask, 
perhaps, if I am all the time dandling it. Never had the 
baby in my arms but once in my life, and then — but, as I was 
saying, there is no doubt it will be an extraordinary child. 

Mansfield. 



CHILDREN. 

rpHE smallest are near to God, as the smallest planets are 
nearest the sun. Were I only for a time almighty and 
powerful, I would create a little world especially for myself, 
and suspend it under the mildest sun, a world where I would 
have nothing but lovely little children, and these little things 
I would never suffer to grow up, but only to play eternally 



108 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

If a seraph were worthy of heaven, or his golden pinions 
drooped, I would send him to dwell for awhile in my happy 
infant world, and no angel, so long as he saw their innocence, 
could lose his own. 

Jean Paul. 



LETTER TO A NEW BORN CHILD. 

~\TOU are heartily welcome, my dear little cousin, into this 
unquiet world ; long may you continue in it in all the 
happiness it can give, and bestow enough on all your friends, 
to answer fully the impatience with which you have been 
expected. May you grow up to have every accomplishment 
that your good friend, the Bishop of Dcrry, can already 
imagine in you; and in the meantime, may you have a nurse 
with a tuneable voice, who may not talk an immoderate deal 
of nonsense to you. You are at present, my dear, in a very 
philosophic disposition ; the gaieties and follies of life have 
no attraction for you; its sorrows you kindly commiserate! 
but, however, do not suffer them to disturb your slumbers, and 
find charms in nothing but harmony and repose. You have 
as yet contracted no partialities, are entirely ignorant of party 
distinctions, and look with a perfect indifference on all human 
splendor. You have an absolute dislike to the vanities of 
dress ; and are likely for many months, to observe the Bishop 
of Bristol's* first rule of conversation, Silence, though tempted 
to transgress it by the novelty and strangeness of all objects 
around you. As you advance further in life this philosophic 
temper will, by degrees, wear off; the first object of your 
admiration will probably be the candle, and thence (as we all 
of us do) you will contract a taste for the gaudy and the 

* Seeker, afterwards Archbishop of Canterbury. 



BABYHOOD. 109 

glaring, without making one moral reflection upon the danger 
of such false admiration as leads people many a time to burn 
their fingers. You will then begin to show great partiality for 
some very good aunts, who will contribute all they can towards 
spoiling you; but you will be equally fond of an excellent 
mamma, who will teach you, by her example, all sorts of good 
qualities ; only let me warn you of one thing, my dear, that is 
not to learn of her to have such an immoderate love of home 
as is quite contrary to all the privileges of this polite age, and 
to give up so entirely all those pretty graces of whim, flutter, 
and affection, which so many charitable poets have declared to 
be the prerogative of our sex. Oh ! my poor cousin, to what 
purpose will you boast this prerogative, when your nurse tells 
you, (with a pious care to sow the seeds of jealousy and emula- 
tion as early as possible,) that you have a fine little brother 
" come to put your nose out of joint ?" There will be nothing 
to be done then but to be mighty good; and prove what, 
believe me, admits of very little dispute (though it has occa- 
sioned abundance) that we girls, however people give them- 
selves airs of being disappointed, are by no means to be 
despised. The men unenvied shine in public ; but it is we 
must make their homes delightful to them ; and, if they pro- 
voke us, no less uncomfortable. I do not expect you to answer 
this letter yet awhile ; but, as I dare say, you have the greatest 
interest with your papa, will beg you to prevail upon him that 
we may know by a line (before his time is engrossed by another 
secret committee) that you and your mamma are well. In the 
meantime, I will only assure you that all here rejoice in your 
existence extremely; and that I am, my very young corre- 
spondent, most affectionately yours, &c. 

Catherine Talbot. 
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110 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



THE KETUKN. 

/~^NE climbs into his arms, another 
^ Clings smiling round his knee; 
A third is lifted by its mother 

Its father's face to see; 
The cradled innocent, his youngest treasure, 
Holds out his dimpled arms, and crows for pleasure. 



" TF he isn't fast asleep. Lord ! Lord !" cried Jem, gazing 

at the child, " who, to look upon a sleeping baby, and to 

know what things are every day done in the world, would ever 

think that all men were sleeping babes once ! Put it to bed, 

Sue !" 

St. Giles and St. James. 



THE CHILD-POET. 

X^OU have watched a child playing, in those wondrous years 
when belief is not bound to the eyes and the ears, and the 
vision divine is so clear and unmarred, that each baker of pies 
in the dirt is a bard ! Give a knife and a shingle, he fits out 
a fleet, and, on that little mud-puddle over the street, his 
invention, in purest good faith, will make sail round the globe 
with a puff of his breath for a gale, will visit, in barely ten 
minutes, all climes, and find North-western passages hundreds 
of times. Or, suppose the young poet fresh stored with 
delights from that Bible of childhood, the Arabian Nights, he 
will turn to a crony, and cry, " Jack, let's play that I am a 
Genius !" Jacky straightway makes Aladdin's lamp out of a 
stone, and for hours they enjoy each his own supernatural 
powers. 

James Russel Lowell 



BABYHOOD. Ill 



SIMPLE PLEASURES. 

"VTOU need not surround your children with a little world of 
-*- turner's toys. Let their eggs be white, not figured and 
painted; they can dress them out of their own imaginations. 

Jean Paul. 



T\0 you think that a child who will spend an hour delightedly 
•^ in galloping round the garden on his horse, which horse 
is a stick, regards that stick as a mere bit of wood ? No ; that 
stick is to him instinct, with imaginings of a pony's pattering 
feet, and shaggy mane, and erect little ears. 

Boyd. 



A ND children are more busy at their play 
Than those that wiseliest pass their time away. 

Samuel Butler. 



rpRULY, there is nothing in the world so blessed or so sweet 
as the heritage ol bairns. 

Mrs. Oliphant. 



A PICTURE. 

HHHE bonnie, bonnie bairn, who sits with careless grace, 

Glowing in the fire, with his wee, round face, 
For all so sage he looks, what can the laddie ken? 
He's thinking of nothing ; like many mighty men. 

James Ballantyne. 



112 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



DOMESTIC BLISS. 

[A Fragment.] 

I am 
11 A married lady of thirty odd." 
Every evening I see in their beds 
A " baker's dozen" of curly heads ; 
Every morning my slumbers greet 
The patter, patter, of twenty-six feet. 
Thirteen little hearts are always in a flutter, 
Till thirteen little mouths are filled with bread and butter. 
Thirteen little tongues are busy all day long, 
And thirteen little hands with,doing something wrong. 

Till I fain am to do 

With an energy too, 
As did the old woman who lived in a shoe. 
And when my poor husband comes home from his work, 
Tired and hungry, and fierce as a Turk, 
What do you think is the picture he sees? 
A legion of babies, all in a breeze. 

Johnny a crying, 

And Lucy a sighing, 
And worn-out mamma, with her hair all a flying, 

Strong and angry Stephen 
Beating little Nelly; 

Willie in the pantry 
Eating currant jelly; 
Charlie strutting round in papa's Sunday coat; 
Harry at the glass, with a razor at his throat; 
Robert gets his fingers crushed when Susy shuts the door, 
Mitigates their aching with a forty pounder roar; 
Baby at the coal-hod hurries to begin 
Throwing in his mite to the universal din. 



BABYHOOD. 113 

Alas ! my lord and master, being rather weak of nerve, he 
Begins to lose his patience in the stunning topsy-turvy, 
And then the frightened little ones all fly to me for shelter, 
And so the drama closes 'mid a general helter-skelter. 

Til give you my name, 

Lest you think me a myth; 

Yours, very respectfully, 

Mrs. John Smith. 



THE MOTHER'S COMPLAINT. 

TX7EARIED is the mother 

That has a restless wean, 
A wee, stumpy bairnie, 

Heard whene'er he's seen; 
That has a battle, aye, with sleep 

Before he'll close an e'e; 
But a kiss from off his rosy lips 

Gives strength anew to me. 

William Miller. 



THE CHARGE OE INEANTRY. 

"DETSEY'S got another baby! 
-^ Charming precious little type ! 
Grandma says — and she knows, surely- 

That you never saw its like. 
Isn't it a beaming beauty, 

Lying there so sweet and snug? 
Mrs. Jones, pray stop your scandal; 

Darling's nose is not a pug ! 
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114 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Some one says 'tis Pa all over, 

Whereat Pa turns rather red, 
And, to scan his features, quickly 

To the looking-glass has fled; 
But recovers his composure, 

When he hears the nurse's story, 
Who admits that of all babies 

This indeed's the crowning glory! 

Aunt Lucretia says she guesses — 

Says, indeed, she knows it, pos, 
That 't will prove to be a greater 

Man than e'er its father was; 
Proving thus the modern thesis 

Held by reverend doctors sage, 
That in babies, as in wisdom, 

This is a " progressive" age. 

Uncle Henry looks and wonders 

At so great a prodigy; 
Close and closer still he presses, 

Thinking something brave to see. 
Up they hold the babe before him, 

While they gather in a ring, 
But, alas ! the staggered uncle 

Vainly tries his praise to sing. 

As he stares, the lovely infant, 

Nestling by its mother's side, 
Opes its little mouth, and singing, 

Gurgles forth a milky tide. 
Uncle tries to hide his blushes, 

Looks about to find his hat, 
Stumbles blindly o'er the cradle, 

And upsets the startled cat. 



BABYHOOD. 115 

Why, 0, why such awkward blunders? 

Better far have stayed away, 
Nor have thrust yourself where woman 

Holds an undisputed sway; 
Do you think that now they'll name it, 

As they mean to, after you? 
Wretched mortal ! let me answer, 

You're deluded if you do ! 

Round about the noisy women 

Pass the helpless stranger now, 
Raptured with each nascent feature, 

Chin and mouth and eyes and brow; 
And for this young bud of promise 

All neglect the rose in bloom, 
Eldest born, who, quite forgotten, 

Pouts within her lonely room. 

Sound the stage-horn ! ring the cow-bell ! 

That the waiting world may know; 
Publish it through all our borders, 

Even unto Mexico. 
Seize your pen, 0, dreaming poet! 

And in numbers smooth as may be, 
Spread afar the joyful tidings, 

Betsey's got another baby! 

Knickerbocker. 



SOME ACCOUNT OF A KEMAKKABLE BABY. 

T T was a peculiarity of this baby to be always cutting teeth. 

Whether they never came, or whether they came and went 

away again, is not in evidence ; but it had certainly cut enough, 

on the showing of its mother, to make a handsome dental pro- 



116 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

vision for the sign of the Bull and Mouth. All sorts of objects 
were impressed for the rubbing of its gums, notwithstanding 
that it always carried, dangling at its waist, (which was imme- 
diately under its chin,) a bone ring, large enough to have 
represented the rosary of a young nun. Knife-handles, um- 
brella-tops, the heads of walking-sticks selected from the stock, 
the fingers of the family, nutmeg-graters, crusts, the handles 
of doors, and the cool knobs on the tops of pokers, were among 
the commonest instruments indiscriminately applied for the 
baby's relief. The amount of electricity that must have been 
rubbed out of it in a week, is not to be calculated. Still its 
mother always said, " It was coming through, and then the child 
would be herself" and still it never did come through, and the 
child continued to be somebody else. 

Charles Dickens. 



f\ BANISH the tears of children ! continual rains upon the 
^ blossoms are hurtful. 

Jean Paul. 



TWO YEARS OLD. 

T)LAYINGr on the carpet near me, 

-*~ Is a little cherub girl; 

And her presence, much I fear me, 

Sets my senses in a whirl; 
For a book is near me lying, 
Full of grave philosophizing, 
And I own I'm vainly trying, 

There my thoughts to hold; 
But, in spite of my essaying, 
They will evermore be straying 
To that cherub near me playing, 

Only two years old. 



BABYHOOD. H7 

With her hair so long and flaxen, 

And her sunny eyes of blue, 
And her cheek so plump and waxen, 

She is charming to the view. 
Then her voice, to all who hear it, 
Breathes a sweet entrancing spirit. 
Oh, to be forever near it, 

Is a joy untold; 
For 'tis ever sweetly telling 
To my heart, with rapture swelling, 
Of affection inly dwelling — 

Only two years old. 

With a new delight I'm hearing 

All her sweet attempts at words 
In their melody endearing, 

Sweeter far than any bird's; 
And the musical mistaking 
Which her baby lips are making, 
For my heart a charm is waking 

Firmer in its hold 
Than the charm so rich and glowing, 
From the Roman's lip o'erflowing; 
Then she gives a look so knowing, 

Only two years old. 

Now her ripe and honeyed kisses, 

(Honeyed, ripe, for me alone,) 
Thrill my soul with varied blisses 

Venus never yet hath known. 
When her twining arms are round me, 
All domestic joy hath crowned me, 
And a fervent spell hath bound me, 

Never to grow old. 



il£ MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

0, there's not, this side of Aiden, 
Aught with loveliness so laden, 
As my little cherub maiden 
Only two years old. 



A PAKENTAL ODE TO MY SON, 

Aged Three Years and Five Months. 

Thou happy, happy elf! 
(But stop — first let me kiss away that tear) 

Thou tiny image of myself! 
(My love, he's poking peas into his ear !) 

Thou merry, laughing sprite! 

With spirits feather light, 
Untouched by sorrow, and unsoiled by sin, 
(Good heavens ! the child is swallowing a pin !) 

Thou little tricksy Puck! 
With antic toys so funnily bestuck, 
Light as the singing bird that wings the air, 
(The door, the door ! he'll tumble down the stair !) 

Thou darling of thy sire ! 
(Why, Jane, he'll set his pinafore afire!) 

Thou imp of mirth and joy ! 
In love's dear chain so strong and bright a link, 
Thou idol of thy parents (Drat the boy! 

There goes my ink !) 

Thou cherub — but of earth; 
Fit playfellow for Fays by moonlight pale, 

In harmless sport and mirth, 
(That dog will bite him if he pulls its tail!) 



BABYHOOD. 119 

Thou human humming-bee, extracting honey 
From every blossom in the world that blows, 

Singing in youth's Elysium ever sunny, 

(Another tumble — that's his precious nose !) 
Thy father's pride and hope ! 

(He'll break the mirror with that skipping-rope !) 

With pure heart newly stamped from nature's mint, 

(Where did he learn that squint!) 

Thou young domestic dove! 
(He'll have that jug off with another shove !) 

Dear nursling of the hymeneal nest! 

(Are those torn clothes his best?) 

Little epitome of man ! 
(He'll climb upon the table, that's his plan !) 
Touched with the beauteous tints of dawning life, 

(He's got a knife !) 

Thou enviable being! 
No storms, no clouds, in thy blue sky foreseeing, 

Play on, play on, 

My elfin John! 

Toss the light ball — bestride the stick, 
(I knew so many cakes would make him sick!) 
With fancies buoyant as the thistle-down, 
Prompting the face grotesque and antic brisk 

With many a lamb-like frisk, 
(He's got the scissors, snipping at your gown !) 

Thou pretty opening rose ! 
(Go to your mother, child, and wipe your nose !) 
Balmy, and breathing music like the south, 
(He really brings my heart into my mouth !) 
Fresh as the morn, and brilliant as its star, 
(I wish that window had an iron bar !) 



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MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



Bold as the hawk, jet gentle as the dove, 

(I'll tell you what, my love, 

I cannot write, unless he's sent above !) 

Thomas Hood. 



FOUR YEARS OLD. 

A Nursery Song. 

Pien d'araor, 
Pien di canto, c pien di fiori. 

A H, little ranting Johnny, 
For ever blithe and bonny, 
And singing nonny, nonny, 
With hat just thrown upon ye; 
Or whistling like the thrushes, 
With voice in silver gushes; 
Or twisting random posies 
With daisies, weeds, and roses; 
And strutting in and out so, 
Or dancing all about so; 
With cock-up nose so lightsome, 
And sidelong eyes so brightsome 
And cheeks as ripe as apples, 
And head as rough as Dapple's, 
And army as sunny shining 
As if their veins they'd wine in, 
And mouth that smiles so truly, 
Heaven seems to have made it newly: 
It breaks into such sweetness 
With merry-lipped completeness; 
Ah, Jack, ah, Giovanni mio. 
As blithe as Laughing Trio! 



Frugoni. 



BABYHOOD. 121 

Sir Richard, too, your rattler, 
So christened from the Tatler, 
My Bacchus in his glory, 
My little cor di fiori, 
My tricksome Puck, my Robin, 
Who in and out come bobbing, 
As full of feints and frolics as 
That fibbing rogue, Antolycus, 
And play the graceless robber on 
Your grave-eyed brother, Oberon ; 
Ah, Dick, ah, che dolce riso, 
How can you, can you be so? 

One cannot turn a minute, 
But mischief — there you're in it; 
A getting at my books, John, 
With mighty bustling looks, John; 
Or poking at the roses, 
In midst of which your nose is; 
Or climbing on a table, 
No matter how unstable, 
And turning up your quaint eye 
And half-shut teeth with, "Mayn't I?" 
Or else you're off at play, John, 
Just as you'd be all day, John, 
With hat or not as happens; 
And there you dance, and clap hands, 
Or on the grass go rolling, 
Or plucking flowers, or bowling, 
And getting me expenses 
With losing balls o'er fences; 
Or, as the constant trade is, 
Arc fondled by the ladies 
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122 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

With, " What a young rogue this is l" 

Reforming him with kisses; 

Till suddenly you cry out, 

As if you had an eye out, 

So desperately fearful, 

The sound is really fearful; 

When, lo ! directly after, 

It bubbles into laughter. 

Ah, rogue ! and do you know, John, 

Why, 'tis we love you so, John? 

And how it is they let ye 

Do what you like, and pet ye, 

Though all who look upon ye, 

Exclaim, "Ah, Johnny, Johnny!" 

It is because you please 'em 

Still more, John, than you teaze 'em; 

Because, too, when not present, 

The thought of you is pleasant; 

Because, though such an elf, John, 

They think that if yourself, John, 

Had something to condemn, too, 

You'd be as kind to them, too; 

In short, because you're very 

Good-tempered, Jack, and merry; 

And are as quick at giving 

As easy at receiving; 

And in the midst of pleasure 

Are certain to find leisure 

To think, my boy, of ours, 

And bring us heaps of flowers. 

But see, the sun shines brightly 
Come, put your hat on rightly, 



BABYHOOD, 123 

And we'll among the bushes, 

And hear your friends, the thrushes; 

And see what flowers the weather 

Has rendered fit to gather; 

And, when we home must jog, you 

Shall ride my back, you rogue you — 

Your hat adorned with fine leaves, 

Horse-chestnut, oak, and vine-leaves; 

And so, with green o'erhead, John, 

Shall whistle home to bed, John. 

Leigh Hunt. 



THE HIDE IN A WHEEL-BARROW. 

TT7H0 does not remember the keen relish of the rapid run 
in the wheel-barrow of early youth, bumping and rolling 
about, and finally turning a corner at full speed and upsetting ? 
Who does not remember the delight of the little springless 
carriage that threatened to dislocate and grind down the bones ? 
Luxury destroys real enjoyment. There is more real enjoy-' 
ment in riding in a wheel-barrow than in driving in a carriage- 
and-four. 

Boyd. 



AMANTIUM TRJZ AMORIS REDINTEGRATIO EST. 

TN going to my naked bed, as one that would have slept, 

I heard a wife sing to her child, that long before had wept. 
She sighed sore, and sang full sweet, to bring the babe to rest, 
That would not cease, but cried still in sucking at her breast. 



124 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

She was full weary of her watch, and grieved with her child; 

She rocked it, and rated it, until on her it smiled ; 

Then did she say, " Now have I found the proverb true to 

prove, 
The falling out of faithful friends renewing is of love. ,, 

Richard Edwards— 1523. 



The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world. 



SPHERE is a very general notion, that if you once suffer 
-^ woman to eat of the tree of knowledge, the rest of the 
family will soon be reduced to the same kind of aerial and 
unsatisfactory diet ! ****** (j an anything be more 
absurd than to suppose that the care and perpetual solicitude 
which a mother feels for her children, depends upon her 
ignorance of Greek and mathematics, and that she would desert 
an infant for a quadratic equation ? 

Sydney Smith. 



FATHER IS COMING! 

"YTAY, do not close the shutters, child; 

For, far along the lane, 
The little window looks, and he 

Can see it shining plain; 
I've heard him say he loves to mark 
The cheerful fire-light in the dark. 



BABYHOOD. 125 

I know lie's coming by this sign, 

That baby's almost wild; 
See how he laughs, and crows, and stares — 

Heaven bless the merry child; 
He's father's self in face and limb, 
And father's heart is strong in him. 

Hark! hark! I hear his footsteps now; 

He's through the garden-gate; 
Run, little Bess, and ope the door, 

And do not let him wait; 
Shout, baby, shout! and clap thy hands, 
For father on the threshold stands. 

Mary Howitt. 



One's hearth is a fair assize. 

Old Proverb 



A MOTHER'S MORNING PRAYER. 

TTP to me sweet childhood looketh, 

Heart and mind and soul awake; 
Teach me of thy ways, oh Father ! 
For sweet childhood's sake. 

In their young hearts, soft and tender, 
Guide my hand good seed to sow, 

That its blossoming may praise thee 
Wheresoe'er they go. 

Give to me a cheerful spirit, 

That my little flock may see 
It is good and pleasant service 



To be taught of Thee. 



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126 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Father, order all my footsteps; 

So direct my daily way 
That, in following me, the children 

May not go astray. 

Let thy holy counsel lead me — 
Let thy light before me shine, 

That they may not stumble over 
Word or deed of mine. 

Draw us hand in hand to Jesus, 
For his word's sake — unforgot, 
"Let the little ones come to me, 
And forbid them not." 






THRENODIA. 

TTOW peacefully they rest, 
J - L Crossfolded there 
Upon his little breast, 

Those small white hands that ne'er were still before. 
But ever sported with his mother's hair, 

Or the plain cross that on her breast she wore ; 
Her heart no more will beat 

To feel the touch of that soft palm, 
That ever seemed a new surprise, 
Sending glad thoughts up to her eyes 

To bless him with their holy calm. 

Full short his journey was; no dust 

Of earth unto his sandals clave; 
The weary weight that old men must, 

He bore not to the grave. 



BABYHOOD. 127 

He seemed a cherub who had lost his way 
And wandered hither; so his stay 

With us was short; and 'twas most meet 
That he should be no delver in earth's clod, 

Nor need to pause and cleanse his feet 
To stand before his God, 

blest word — evermore! 

J. R. Lowell. 



CASA WAPPY. 

fCasa Wappy was the self-conferred pet name of an infant son of the poet, 
snatched away after a very brief illness.] 

A ND hast thou sought thy heavenly home, 
■^ Our fond, dear boy — 
The realms where sorrow dare not come, 

Where life is joy? 
Pure at thy death as at thy birth, 
Thy spirit caught no taint from earth; 
Even by its bliss we mete our death, 
Casa Wappy! 

Despair was in our last farewell, 

As closed thine eye; 
Tears of our anguish may not tell 

When thou didst die; 
Words may not paint our grief for thee, 
Sighs are but bubbles on the sea 
Of our unfathomed agony, 

Casa Wappy! 

Do what I may, go where I will, 

Thou meet'st my sight; 
There dost thou glide before me still — 

A form of light ! 



128 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

I feel thy breath upon my cheek — 
I see thee smile, I hear thee speak — - 
Till oh! my heart is like to break, 
Casa Wappy! 

Methinks thou smil'st before me now, 

With glance of stealth; 
The hair thrown back from thy full brow 

In buoyant health; 
I see thine eyes' deep violet light, 
Thy dimpled cheek carnationed bright, 
Thy clasping arms so round and white, 
Casa Wappy! 

The nursery shows thy pictured wall, 

Thy bat, thy bow, 
Thy cloak and bonnet, club and ball; 

But where art thou? 
A corner holds thine empty chair, 
Thy playthings idly scattered there, 
But speak to us of our despair, 
Casa Wappy! 

Then be to us, dear, lost child ! 

With beam of love, 
A star, death's uncongenial wild 

Smiling above; 
Soon, soon thy little feet have trod 
The skyward path, the seraph's road, 
That led thee back from man to God, 
Casa Wappy! 

Yet 'tis sweet balm to our despair, 

Fond, fairest boy, 
That heaven is God's, and thou art there, 

With him in joy; 



BABYHOOD. 129 



There past are death and all its woes, 
There beauty's stream forever flows, 
And pleasure's day no sunset knows, 
Casa Wappy ! 

Farewell, then — for awhile, farewell — 

Pride of my heart ! 
It cannot be that long we dwell, 

Thus torn apart; 
Time's shadows like the shuttle flee: 
And, dark howe'er life's night may be, 
Beyond the grave I'll meet with thee, 
Casa Wappy! 



D. M. Moir. 



AH each of these young human flowers 
^ God's own high message bears; 
And we are walking all our hours 



With "Angels unawares." 



R. Edmonston#. 



VESPERS. 



A ROW of little faces in the bed 

A row of little hands upon the spread; 
A row of little roguish eyes all closed; 
A row of little naked feet exposed; 
A gentle mother leads them in their praise, 
Teaching their feet to tread in heavenly ways, 
And takes this lull in childhood's tiny tide, 
The little errors of the day to chide. 



130 MOSAICS OF LIFE, 

No lovelier Bight this side of heaven is seen, 
And angels hover o'er the group serene, 
Instead of odor in a censer swung, 
There floats the fragrance of an infant's tongue, 
All dressed like angels in their gowns of white, 
They're wafted to the skies in dreams of night; 
And Heaven will sparkle in their eyes at morn, 
And stolen graces all their ways adorn. 



CHILDREN'S PRAYERS. 

ANE night my little girl was wearied with a long walk. Ab 
^ I hade her good-night, I reminded her of one thing to be 
remembered before she slept. " Mamma !" said she, " I am so 
tired to-night ! wouldn't it do if I said, ' Thank you, God V " 
Still more interesting were those words of the little boy, who, 
though nearly overcome with weariness, began his usual prayer, 
but closing his eyes, and nestling his beautiful head on the 
pillow, murmured half audibly, " He knows the rest/' 



CHILD-SLEEP. 

T)UT a child that bids the world good-night 
In sober earnest, and cuts it quite, 

Is a cherub no art can copy; 
'Tis a perfect picture to see him lie, 
As if he had supped on dormouse pie, 

With a sauce of the syrup of poppy. 



T. Hood. 



BABYHOOD. 131 



EMBLEMATICAL. 

rpHE morn is up again; the dewy morn, 
-*- With lips all incense, and with cheek all bloom ; 
Laughing the clouds away as if in scorn, 
And living as if earth contained no tomb. 

Byron. 



THE BIRD-CATCHER. 

I remember well, sitting on the door-step of my father's house, a pinch 
of salt in my hand, watching with patient faith the blue and white pigeons 
coming so near, that ever and anon I could almost touch them! 

C\ ENTLY, gently yet, young stranger, 

Light of heart and light of heel ! 
Ere the bird perceives its danger, 

On it slyly steal. 
Silence ! — ah ! your scheme is failing — 

No; pursue your pretty prey; 
See, your shadow on the paling 

Startles it away. 

Caution ! now you're nearer creeping ; 

Nearer yet — how still it seems ! 
Sure, the winged creature's sleeping, 

Wrapt in forest-dreams ! 
Golden sights that bird is seeing. 

Nest of green, or mossy bough; 
Not a thought it hath of fleeing; 

Yes, you'll catch it now. 

How your eyes begin to twinkle ! 

Silence, and you'll scarcely fail. 
Now stoop down, and softly sprinkle 

Salt upon its tail. 



132 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Yes, you have it in your tether, 
Never more to skim the skies; 

Lodge the salt on that long feather — 
Ha! it flies! it flies! 

Hear it — hark ! among the bushes, 

Laughing at your idle lures ! 
Boy, the self-same feeling gushes 

Through my heart and yours. 
Baffled sportsman, childish Mentor, 

How have I been — hapless fault ! — 
Led, like you, my hopes to centre 

On a grain of salt ! 

On what captures I've been counting, 

Stooping here, and creeping there, 
All to see my bright hope mounting 

High into the air ! 
Thus have children of all ages, 

Seeing bliss before them fly, 
Found their hearts but empty cages, 

And their hopes on high! 



Laman Blanchard. 



LITTLE WILLIE WAKING UP. 

OOME have thought that in the dawning, 
^ In our being's freshest glow, 
God is nearer little children 

Than their parents ever know; 
And that, if you listen sharply, 

Better things than you can teach, 
And a sort of mystic wisdom 

Trickles through their careless speech 



BABYHOOD. 133 

How it is I cannot answer. 



But I knew a little child, 
Who, among the thyme and clover, 

And the bees was running wild. 
And he came one summer evening, 

With his ringlets o'er his eyes, 
And his hat was torn in pieces 

Chasing bees and butterflies. 

w Now I'll go to bed, dear mother, 

For I'm very tired of play !" 
And he said his, " Now I lay me," 

In a kind of careless way. 
And he drank the cooling water, 

From his little silver cup, 
And said, gayly, " When it's morning, 

Will the Angels take me up?" 

Down he sank with roguish laughter 

In his little trundle bed, 
And the kindly god of slumber 

Showered the poppies o'er his head. 
"What could mean his speaking strangely?" 

Asked his musing mother then — 
" Oh 'twas nothing but his prattle ; 
What can he of Angels ken?" 

There he lies, how sweet and placid, 
And his breathing comes and goes 
Like a zephyr moving softly, 

And his cheek is like a rose; 
But she leaned her ear to listen 
If his breathing could be heard : 
" Oh," she murmured, " if the Angels 
Took my darling at his word!" 
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134 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Night within its folding mantle 

Hath the sleepers both beguiled, 
And within its soft embracing 

Rest the mother and the child; 
Up she starteth from her dreaming, 

For a sound hath struck her ear — 
And it comes from little Willie, 

Lying on his trundle near. 

Up she springeth, for it strikes upon 

Her troubled ear again, 
And his breath, in louder fetches, 

Travels from his lungs in pain, 
And his eyes are fixing upward 

On some face beyond the room; 
And the blackness of the spoiler, 

From his cheek hath chased the bloom. 

Never more his, " Now I lay me," 

Shall be said from mother's knee, 
Never more among the clover 

Will he chase the humble-bee. 
Through the night she watched her darling, 

Now despairing, now in hope; 
And about the break of morning 

Did the Angels take him up. 



E. H. Stars. 



CHRIST AND THE LITTLE ONES. 

"HPHE Master has come over Jordan/' 
-^ Said Hannah, the mother, one day; 
"He is healing the people who throng him 
With a touch of his finger, they say. 



BABYHOOD. 135 



" And now I shall carry the children — 
Little Rachel, and Samuel, and John, 
I shall carry the baby, Esther, 
For the Lord to look upon." 

The father looked at her kindly, 
But he shook his head and smiled: 
" Now, who but a doting mother 

Would think of a thing so wild ? 

" If the children were tortured by demons, 
Or dying of fever, 'twere well, 
Or had they the taint of the leper, 
Like many in Israel." 

" Nay, do not hinder me, Nathan — 
I feel such a burden of care; 
If I carry it to the Master, 
Perhaps I shall leave it there. 

" If he lay his hand on the children, 
My heart will be lighter, I know, 
For a blessing forever and ever 
Will follow them as they go." 

So over the hills of Judah, 

Along by the vine-rows green, 
With Esther asleep on her bosom, 

And Rachel her brothers between, 

'Mong the people who hung on his teaching, 
Or waited his touch and his word, 

Through the row of proud Pharisees listening, 
She pressed to the feet of the Lord. 



13(J MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

" Now, why shouldst thou hinder the Master," 
Said Peter, " with children like these ? 
Seest not how, from morning till evening, 
He teacheth, and healeth disease V* 

Then Christ said, " Forbid not the children — 
Permit them to come unto me." 

And he took in his arms little Esther, 
And Rachel he set on his knee; 

And the heavy heart of the mother 
Wtf lifted all earth-care above, 

As he laid his hands on the brothers, 
And blest them with tendercst love; 

As he said of the babes in his bosom, 
" Of such is the kingdom of heaven ;" 
And strength for all duty and trial 
That hour to her spirit was given. 



Julia Gill. 



"VTOUTH fades ; love droops ; the leaves of friendship fall ; 
A mother's secret hope outlives them all ! 



O. W. Holmes. 



THE FISHERMEN. 

HPHREE fishers went sailing out into the West — 
-*- Out into the West as the sun went down; 
Each thought of the woman who loved him best, 

And the children stood watching them out of the town ; 
For men must work, and women must weep; 
And there's little to earn and many to keep, 
Though the harbor bar be moaning. 



BABYHOOD. 137 

Three wives sat up in the light-house tower 

And trimmed the lamps as the sun went down; 

And they looked at the squall, and they looked at the shower. 
And the rack it came rolling up ragged and brown; 

But men must work, and women must weep, 

Though storms be sudden, and waters deep, 
'And the harbor bar be moaning. 

Three corpses lay out on the shining sands, 
In the morning gleam as the tide went down, 

And the women are watching and wringing their hands, 
For those who will never come back to the town ; 

For men must work, and women must weep, 

And the sooner it's over, the sooner to sleep, 
And good-bye to the bar and its moaning. 

Charles Kingsley. 



SOWING IN TEAKS. 

OTEAIGHT and still the baby lies, 
^ No more smiling in his eyes, 
Neither tears nor wailing cries. 

Smiles and tears alike are done; 
He has need of neither one — 
Only, I must weep alone. 

Tiny fingers, all too slight, 
Hold within their grasping tight, 
Waxen berries scarce more white. 

Nights and days of weary pain, 
I have held them close — in vain; 
Now I never shall again. 



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LoS MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Crossed upon a silent breast, 
By no suffering distressed, 
Here they lie in marble rest; 

They shall ne'er unfolded be, 
Never more in agony 
Cling so pleadingly to me. 

Never! Oh, the hopeless sound 
To my heart so closely wound 
All his little being round ! 

I forget the shining crown. 

Glad exchange for cross laid down, 

Now his baby brows upon. 

Yearning sore, I only know 
I am very full of woe — 
And I want my baby so ! 

Selfish heart, that thou shouldst prove 
So unworthy of the love 
Which thine idol doth remove ! 

Blinded eyes, that cannot see 

Past the present misery, 

Joy and comfort full and free ! 

! my Father, loving Lord ! 
I am ashamed at my own word; 
Strength and patience me afford. 

I will yield me to thy will; 
Now thy purposes fulfil; 
Only help me to be still. 




LITTLE CHILDREN. 



Page 139. 



BABYHOOD. 139 

Though my mother-heart shall ache, 
I believe that, for thy sake, 
It shdl not entirely break. 

And I know I yet shall own, 
For my seeds of sorrow sown, 
Sheaves of joy around thy throne ! 



GOOD LIFE, LONG LIFE. 

TN small proportion we just beauties see, 
And in short measures life may perfect be. 



Ben Jonson. 



LITTLE CHILDREN. 

OPOKTING through the forest wide, 
^ Playing by the water side, 
Wandering o'er the heather fells, 
Down within the woodland dells, 
All among the mountains wild, 
Dwelleth many a little child. 

In the rich man's house so wide, 
By the poor man's snug fireside, 
'Mid the mighty, 'mid the mean, 
Little children may be seen; 
Like the flowers which spring up fair, 
Bright and countless everywhere ! 

In the fair isles of the main, 
In the desert's lone domain, 



140 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

In the savage mountain glen, 
'Mong the tribes of swarthy men, 
Wheresoe'er a foot hath gone, 
Wheresoe'er the sun hath shone 
On a league of peopled ground, 
Little children may be found ! 

Blessings on them ! they, in me, 
Move a kindly sympathy, 
With their wishes, hopes, and fears, 
With their laughter and their tears, 
With their wonders, so intense, 
And their small experience. 

Little children not alone 
On the spacious earth are known, 
'Mid its labors and its cares, 
'Mid its sufferings and its snares; 

Free from sorrow, free from strife, 
In the world of love and life, 
Where no sinful thing hath trod — 
In the presence of our God, 
Spotless, blameless, glorified, 
Little children there abide! 



Mary Howitt. 



WHAT THE CHRIST-SPIRIT SAID TO CHILDREN. 

T ITTLE children, love each other, 
-^ Never give another pain; 
If your brother speak in anger, 
Answer not in wrath again. 



BABYHOOD. 141 

Be not selfish to each other, 

Never mar another's rest, 
Strive to make each other happy, 

And you will yourselves be blest. 



THE HALLOWED DRAWER. 

IV/TRS. BIRD slowly opened the drawer. There were little 
-^* coats of many a form and pattern, piles of aprons, and 
rows of small stockings; and even a pair of little shoes, worn 
and rubbed at the toes, were peeping from the folds of a paper. 
There was a toy, horse and wagon, a top, a ball — memorials 
gathered with many a tear, and many a heart-break ! She sat 
down by the drawer, and leaning her head on her hands over 
it, wept till the tears fell through her fingers into the drawer. 
And oh, mother that reads this, has there never been in your 
house a drawer, or a closet, the opening of which has been to 
you like the opening again of a little grave ? 

Mrs. H. B. Stow©. 



A PICTURE. 

AH what a loveliness her eyes 

^ Gather in that one moment's space, 

While peeping round the post she spies 

Her darling's laughing face ! 
Oh Mother's love is glorifying, 
On the cheek like sunset lying, 



Thomas Burbidgo. 



We can have many wives, but only one mother. 

Turkish Saying. 



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MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



CHILDREN. 

/CHILDREN are what the mothers are, 

No fondest father's fondest care 
Can fashion so the infant heart, 
As those creative beams that dart, 
With all their hopes and fears upon 
The cradle of a sleeping son. 

His startled eyes with wonder see 

A father near him on his knee, 

Who wishes all the while to trace 

The mother in his future face; 

But 'tis to her alone uprise 

His wakening arms; to her those eyes, 

Open with joy and not surprise. 



W. S. Landor. 



TT7H0 should it be ? Where shouldst thou look for kindness ? 

When we are sick, where can we turn for succour ? 
When we are wretched where can we complain ? 
And when the world looks cold and surly on us, 
Where can we go to meet a warmer eye 
With such sure confidence as to a mother's? 



Joanna Baillie. 



"A Kiss from my mother made me a painter." 



Benjamin West 



M TF the whole world were put into one scale, and my mothei 
into the other, the world would kick the beam." 



Lord Langdale. 



BABYHOOD. 143 



TO A CHILD EMBRACING HIS MOTHER. 

[" OVE thy mother, little one ! 

Kiss and clasp her neck again — 
Hereafter she may have a son 

Will kiss and clasp her neck in vain ; 
Love thy mother, little one ! 



Gaze upon her living eyes, 

And mirror back her love for thee — 
Hereafter thou mayst shudder sighs 

To meet them when they cannot see, 
Gaze upon her living eyes! 

Press her lips awhile they glow 

With love that they have often told — 

Hereafter thou mayst press in woe, 
And kiss them till thine own are cold, 

Press her lips the while they glow! 

Oh, revere her raven hair ! 

Although it be not silver-gray — 
Too early Death, led on by Care, 

May snatch save one dear lock away, 
! revere her raven hair ! 

Pray for her at eve and morn, 

That Heaven may long the stroke defer — 
For thou mayst live the hour forlorn 

When thou wilt ask to die with her, 
Pray for her at eve and morn ! 

Thomas Hood. 



141 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



MOTHER'S LOVE. 

TEWS were wrought to cruel madness, 
Christians fled in fear and sadness, 
Mary stood the cross beside. 

At its foot her foot she planted, 
By the dreadful scene undaunted, 
Till the gentle sufferer died. 

Poets oft have sung her story; 
Painters decked her brow with glory; 
Priests her name have deified; 

But no worship, song, or glory, 
Touches like that simple story — 
" Mary stood the cross beside/' 

And when under fierce oppression 

Goodness suffers like transgression, 

Christ again is crucified. 

But if love be there, true-hearted, 
By no grief or terror parted, 

Mary stands the cross beside. 



N. J. Fox. 



MY SERMON. 

T HAVE been sitting here for an hour, noting down some 
-*- thoughts for the sermon which I hope to write during this 
week, and to preach next Sunday. I have not been able to 
think very connectedly, indeed ; for two little feet have been 
pattering round me, two little hands pulling at me occasionally. 



BABYHOOD, 145 

and a little voice entreating that I should come and have a 
race upon the green. Of course I went; for like most men 
who are not very great or very bad, I have learned, for the 
sake of the little owner of the hands and the voice, to love 
every little child. My sermon will be the better for these 
interruptions. I do not mean to say it will be absolutely good, 
though it will be as good as I can make it ; but it will be 
better for these races with my little girl. 

Boyd. 



IN MEMGRIAM. 

I. 

A NOTHER little form asleep, 

And a little spirit gone; 
Another little voice is hushed, 

And a little angel born. 
Two little feet are on the way 

To the home beyond the skies, 
And our hearts are like the void that comes 
When a strain of music dies! 

II. 

A pair of little baby shoes, 

And a lock of golden hair; 
The toys our little darling loved, 

And the dress she used to wear; 
The little grave in the shady nook, 

Where the flowers love to grow; 
And these are all of the little hope 

That came three years ago ! 
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14(J MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

III. 

The birds will sit on the branch above, 

And sing a requiem 
To the beautiful little sleeping form 

That used to sing to them ; 
But never again will the little lips 

To their songs of love reply, 
For that silvery voice is blended with 

The minstrelsy on high ! 



Knickerbocker. 



A SUNBEAM AND A SHADOW. 

HEAR a shout of merriment, a laughing boy I see; 

Two little feet the carpet press, and bring the child to me, 
Two little arms are round my neck, two feet upon my knee ; 
How fall the kisses on my cheek ! how sweet they are to me ! 

That merry shout no more I hear, no laughing child I see ; 
No little arms are round my neck, nor feet upon my knee ! 
No kisses drop upon my cheek ; those lips are sealed to me. 
Dear Lord ! how could I give him up to any but to thee ! 

Monthly Religious Magazine 



A MOTHER'S JOYS. 

~'VE gear enough, I've gear enough, 
I've bonnie bairnies three; 
Their welfare is a mine of wealth, 

Their love a crown to me. 
The joys, the dear delights they bring, 

I'm sure I'd not agree 
To change for every worldly good 
That could be given to me. 



BABYHOOD. 147 

Let others flaunt in fashion's ring, 

Seek rank and high degree; 
I wish them joy with all my heart, 

They're envied not by me. 
I would not give those loving looks, 

The heaven of those smiles, 
To bear the proudest name — to be 

The Queen of Britain's isles. 

My sons are like their father dear, 

And all the neighbors tell 
That my young blue-eyed daughter's just 

The picture of mysel'. 
Oh, blessings on my darlings all ! 

They're dear as summer's shine, 
My heart runs o'er with happiness 

To think that they are mine. 

At evening, morning, every hour 

I've an unchanging prayer, 
That Heaven would my bairnies bless, 

My hope, my joy, my care. 
I've gear enough, I've gear enough, 

I've bonnie bairnies three; 
Their welfare is a mine of wealth, 

Their love a crown to me. 

William Ferguson 



THE CHILDREN. 

A H ! what would the world be to us 
If the children were no more? 
We should dread the desert behind us 
Worse than the dark before. 



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MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



What the leaves are to the forest, 

With light and air for food, 
Ere their sweet and tender juices 

Have been hardened into wood — 

That to the world are children ; 

Through them it feels the glow 
Of a brighter and sunnier climate 

Than reaches the trunks below. 

H. W. Longfellow. 



The fate of the child is always the work of his mother. 



Napoleon. 



ANTIPODES. 

"T7VA stood looking at Topsy. There stood the two children, 
representatives of the two extremes of society. The fair, 
high-bred child, with her golden head, her deep eyes, her 
spiritual, noble brow, and prince-like movements; and her 
black, keen, subtle, cringing, yet acute neighbor. They stood 
the representatives of their races. The Saxon, born of ages 
of cultivation, command, education, physical and moral emi- 
nence; the Afric, born of ages of oppression, submission, 
ignorance, toil, and vice ! 

H. B. Stowe. 



BABYHOOD. 149 



THE DEAD BOY. 

TTE crossed the sill; slie pointed to the bed; 
"^ There lay her boy, his innocent curly head, 
Nestled upon the pillow, and his face 
Lit with the solemn and unearthly grace 
That crowns but once the children of our race; 

God gives it when he takes them — he was dead ! 
A broken toy, a bunch of withered flowers, 

In his thin hands were clasped, his breast above, 
The last frail ties that to this world of ours 

Had linked the sufferer — save a mother's love. 

William Allen Butler. 



THE PRATTLE OE CHILDREN. 

VTO man knows, but he that loves his children, how many 
delicious accents make a man's heart dance in the pretty 
conversation of these dear pledges; their childishness, their 
stammering, their little angers, their innocences, their imper- 
fections, their necessities, are so many little emanations of joy 
and comfort to him that delights in their persons and society. 

Jeremy Taylor — Sermon xv'ii. 



* * * * ' 

TT7HERE like we to see presumption shown? 

^ In children : for the world's their own ! 
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150 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

/ \H, blessed indeed are little children ! Mortals do not un- 
^ derstand half they owe them ; for the good they do us is a 
spiritual gift, and few perceive how it intertwines the mystery 
of life. They form a ladder of garlands on which the angels 
descend to our souls; and without them, such communications 
would be utterly lost. 

L. M. Child. 



TN this dim world of clouding cares 
-*- We rarely know till wildered eyes 

See white wings lessening up the skies 
The angels with us unawares ! 

Gerald Massey. 



ILLUSIONS. 

TX7HEN the boys come into my yard for leave to gather 
horse-chestnuts, I own I enter into Nature's game, and 
affect to grant the permission reluctantly, fearing that any 
moment they will find out the imposture of that showy chaff. 
But this tenderness is quite unnecessary; the enchantments 
are laid on very thick. Their young life is thatched with 
them. Bare and grim to tears is the lot of the children in the 
hovel I saw yesterday ; yet not the less they hang it round 
with frippery romance, like the children of the happiest 
fortune. 

Emerson. 



A. 



TORN jacket is soon mended ; but hard words bruise the 
heart of a child. 

Longfel'ow 



BABYHOOD. 151 



THE CONTRAST. 

TN the parlor, singing, playing, 

Round me like a sunbeam straying, 
All her life with joy o'erladen, 
Is a radiant little maiden. 
Constant love, her cares beguiling, 
Shields her from sin's dread defiling; 
Sheltered safe from worldly rudeness, 
Grows she in her native goodness. 
Every morn brings fond caressing, 
Every night brings earnest blessing; 
So her heart gets sweeter, purer, 
And her steps in virtue surer. 

In the street, where storms are sighing, 
Is a child deserted, crying; 
Poor lost lamb ! with plaintive bleating 
All my sympathy entreating. 
No home's holy loves enfold her, 
No protecting arms uphold her; 
And the voices that should guide her 
Utter only tones that chide her. 
O'er her spirit's waste and blindness 
Falls no ray of saving kindness ; 
Wandering thus in earth's dark places, 
Sin her tender soul embraces. 

Then I know that radiant maiden 
All whose life with love is laden, 
Only love saves from the danger 
And the fate of this lost stranger ! 

Plummer. 



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MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



THE MOTHER, EVEN IN DEATH. 

HPHE end was drawing on; the golden bowl was breaking; 
the silver cord was fast being loosed — that animula blan- 
dula, vagula, hospes, comesque, was about to flee. The body 
and soul, companions for sixty years, were being sundered, and 
taking leave. She was walking alone through the valley of 
that shadow into which one day we must all enter; and yet 
she was not alone, for we all know whose rod and staff were 
comforting her. One night she had fallen quiet, and as we 
hoped, asleep; her eyes were shut. We put down the gas, and 
sat watching her. Suddenly she sat up in bed, and taking a 
bed-gown which was lying on it rolled up, she held it eagerly 
to her breast, to the right side. We could see her eyes, bright 
with surprising tenderness and joy, bending over this bundle 
of clothes. She held it as a woman holds her sucking child ; 
opening out her night-gown impatiently, and holding it close, 
and brooding over it, and murmuring foolish little words, as 
over one whom his mother comforteth, and who sucks and is 
satisfied. It was pitiful and strange to see her wasted, dying 
look, keen and yet vague ; her immense love : and then she 
rocked back and forward, as if to make it sleep, hushing it, 
and wasting on it her infinite fondness. " Preserve me !" 
groaned her husband, giving way. "Wae's me, doctor; I 
declare she's thinking it's that bairn." " What bairn ?" " The 
only bairn we ever had; our wee Mysie, and she's in the 
Kingdom forty years and mair." It was plainly true; the 
pain in the breast telling its urgent story to a bewildered, 
ruined brain, was misread and mistaken ; it suggested to her 
the uneasiness of a breast full of milk, and then the child ; 
and so again once more they were together, and she had her 
ain wee Mysie on her bosom. This was the close — she sank 
rapidly ; the delirium left her. After having for some time 



BABYHOOD. 153 

lain still, her eyes shut, she said, " James." He came close to 
her, and lifting up her calm, clear, beautiful eyes, she gave 
him a long look, turned to me kindly but shortly, then to her 
husband again, as if she would never leave off looking, shut 
her eyes, composed herself, and passed gently away. 

Jy^hn Brown. 



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THE CHILDREN'S HOUR. 

"BETWEEN the dark and the daylight, 
When the night is beginning to lower, 
Comes a pause in the day's occupations, 
That is known as the children's hour. 

1 hear in the chamber above me 

The patter of little feet; 
The sound of a door that is opened, 

And voices soft and sweet. 

From my study I see in the lamp-light, 
Descending the broad hall stair, 

Grave Alice, and laughing Allegra, 
And Edith with golden hair. 

A whisper, and then a silence; 

Yet I know by their merry eyes, 
They are plotting and planning together 

To take me by surprise. 

A sudden rush from the stairway, 
A sudden raid from the hall ! 

By three doors left unguarded, 
They enter my castle wall ! 



154 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

They climb up into my turret 

O'er the arms and back of my chair; 

If I try to escape, they surround me — 
They seem to be everywhere ! 

They almost devour me with kisses, 
Their arms about me entwine, 

Till I think of the Bishop of Bingen 
In his Mouse Tower on the Rhine ! 

Do you think, oh ! blue-eyed banditti, 
Because you have scaled the wall, 

Such an old moustache as I am 
Is not a match for you all ? 

I have you fast in my fortress, 
And will not let you depart, 

But put you down into the dungeons 
In the round-tower of my heart! 

And there will I keep you forever, 

Yes, forever and a day, 
Till the walls shall crumble to ruin, 

And moulder in dust away ! 



H. W. Longfellow. 



HP AKE heed ye offend not one of these little ones ; for I say 
-*- unto you, their angels do always behold the face of my 
Father. 



Christ. 



BABYHOOD. 155 



MOTHER'S TRUST. 

" "YTOU don't believe I did what they accuse me of, mother 
dear V cried Kit in a choking voice. " I believe it V 
exclaimed the poor woman. " I, that never knew you tell a 
lie, or do a bad action from your cradle; that have never had 
a moment's sorrow on your account. I believe it of the son 
that's been a comfort to me from the hour of his birth to this 
time, and that I never laid down one night in anger with ! I 
believe it of you, Kit I" " Why then, thank God !" said Kit, 
clutching the bars with an earnestness that shook them, " and 
I can bear it, mother. Come what may, I shall always have 
one drop of happiness in my heart when I think that you said 
that." At this, the poor woman fell a crying again. As to 
the baby, it was crowing and laughing with all its might, under 
the idea, apparently, that the whole scene had been invented 
and got up for its particular satisfaction ! 

Charles Dickens. 







MOTHER'S TENDERNESS. 

t THERE is an enduring tenderness in the love of a 
• mother to her son, which transcends all other affections 
of the heart. It is neither to be chilled by selfishness, nor 
daunted by danger, nor weakened by worthlessness, nor stifled 
by ingratitude. She will sacrifice every comfort to his conve- 
nience; she will surrender every pleasure to his enjoyment; 
she will glory in his fame, and exult in his prosperity; and, if 
misfortune overtake him, he will be the dearer to her for mis- 
fortune ; and if disgrace settle upon his name, she will still 
love and cherish him in spite of his disgrace ; and if all the 
world beside cast him off, she will be all the world to him. 

Washington Irving. 



156 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



I LIVE FOR THEE." 

TTOME they brought her warrior dead; 

She nor swooned, nor uttered cry; 
All her maidens, watching, said, 
" She must weep, or she will die." 
Then they praised him soft and low, 

Called him worthy to be loved, 
Truest friend, and noblest foe; 

Yet she neither spoke nor moved. 

Stole a maiden from her place, 

Lightly to the warrior stept, 
Took the face-cloth from the face; 

Yet she neither moved nor wept. 
Rose a nurse of ninety years, 

Set his child upon her knee, 
Like summer tempest came her tears, 
" Sweet, my child, I live for thee." 

Alfred Tennyson 









THE SEA. 

nPHROUGrH the night, through the night, 
-^ In the saddest unrest, 
Wrapt in white, all in white, 

With her babe on her breast, 
Walks the mother so pale, 
Staring out on the gale 

Through the night ! 



BABYHOOD. 157 

Through the night, through the night, 

Where the sea lifts the wreck, 
Land in sight, close in sight, 

On the surf-flooded deck 
Stands the father so brave, 
Driving on to his grave 

Through the night! 

R. H. Stoddard. 



" TH FFENDI," said the poor old creature, her voice trembling, 
and the tears streaming from her eyes, " My children 
are all dead ! There is no one now between me and Allah !" 

Pencillings by the Way. 



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QHE is the barren woman whose son is not remembered in 
^ the assemblies of the good and just. 

Hindoo Saying. 



LITTLE CHARLIE. 

f~\ LITTLE presence ! everywhere 

^ We find some touching trace of thee — 

A pencil mark upon the wall 

That " naughty hands " made thoughtlessly; 
And broken toys around the house, 

Where he has left them they have lain, 
Waiting for little busy hands 

That will not come again — 



Will never come asrain ! 



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158 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Within the shrouded room below 
lie lies a-cold — and yet we know 

It is not Charlie there ! 
It is not Charlie, cold and white, 
It is the robe, that in his flight, 

He gently cast aside ! 

Our darling hath not died ! 



T. B. Aldrich, 



A CHILD is a man in a small letter; the older he grows, he 
■^-*- is a stair lower from Cod; and, like his first Father, much 
worse in his breeches. 

John Earle, 1601 — 1665. Tutor to Prince Charles. 



KITTIE IS GONE. 

TT^ITTIE is gone. Where? To heaven. An angel came, 
-^ and took her away. She was a lovely child, gentle as a 
lamb; the pet of the whole family; the youngest of them all. 
But she could not stay with us any longer. * * * * If a 
little voice sweeter and more musical than other3 were heard, 
I knew Kittie was near. If my study door opened so gently 
and slily that no sound could be heard, I knew Kittie was 
coming. If after an hour's quiet play, a little shadow passed 
me, and the door opened and shut as no one else could open 
and shut it, "so as not to disturb papa," I knew Kittie was 
going. When, in the midst of my composing, I heard a gentle 
voice saying, " Papa, may I stay with you a little while ? I 
will be very still ;" I did not need to look off my work to assure 
me that it was my little lamb. You staid with me too long, 
Kittie dear, to leave me so suddenly, and you are too still now. 



BABYHOOD. 159 

Sou became my little assistant, my home angel, my youngest 
and sweetest singing bird, and I miss the little voice that I 
have heard in an adjoining room, catching up and echoing 
little snatches of melody as they were being composed. I 
miss those soft and sweet kisses. I miss the little hand that 
was always first to be placed on my forehead to " drive away 
the pain." I miss the sound of those little feet upon the 
stairs. * * * * I miss you in the garden. I miss you 
everywhere, but I will try not to miss you in heaven. " Papa, 
if we are good, will an angel truly come and take us to heaven 
when we die ?" When the question was asked, how little did 
I think the angel was so near ! But he did truly come, and 
the sweet flower was translated to a more genial clime. "I lo 
wish papa would come." Wait a little while, Kittie, and papa 
will come. The journey is not long. He will soon be Home. 

William B. Bradbury. 



HOW'S MY BOY? 

" TTO ! sailor of the sea ! 

-*--*- How's my boy — my boy?" 
"What's your boy's name, good wife, 
And in what good ship sailed he?" 

"My boy John- 
He that went to sea; 
What care I for the ship, sailor? 
My boy's my boy to me. 

"You come back from sea, 

And not know my John ? 
I might as well have asked some landsmai 

Yonder down in the town. 
There's not an ass in all the parish 

But knows my John. 



ICO MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

"How's my boy — my boy? 

And unless you let me know, 
I'll swear you are no sailor, 

Blue jacket or no, 
Brass buttons or no, sailor, 

Anchor and crown or no — 
Sure his ship was the ' Jolly Briton/ " 

" Speak low, woman, speak low!" 

"And why should I speak low, sailor, 
About my own boy John ? 

If I was loud as I am proud, 
I'd sing him over the town ! 

Why should I speak low. sailor ?" 
" That good ship went down." 

11 How's my boy — my boy ? 

What care I for the ship, sailor; 
I was never aboard her. 
Be she afloat or be she aground, 
Sinking or swimming, I'll be bound 

Her owners can afford her ! 
I say, how's my John Y* 
"Every man on board went down, 
Every man aboard her." 

"How's my boy — my boy? 
What care I for the men, sailor? 
I'm not their mother. 

How's my boy — my boy? 
Tell me of him, and no other ! 

How's my boy — my boy?" 



Sydnev Dobell, 



BABYHOOD. 161 

rPHE boy carried in his face the " open sesame" to ever} 
door and heart. 



THE BAREFOOT BOY. 

DLESSINGS on thee, little man, 

Barefoot boy, with cheek of tan ! 
With thy turned up pantaloons, 
And thy merry whistled tunes; 
With thy red lips, redder still, 
Kissed by strawberries on the hill; 
With the sunshine on thy face, 
Through thy torn brim's jaunty grace; 
From my heart I give thee joy — 
I was once a barefoot boy. 
Prince thou art — the grown up man 
Only is republican ; 
Let the million-dollared ride ! 
Barefoot, trudging at his side, 
Thou hast more than he can buy, 
In the reach of ear and eye; 
Outward sunshine, inward joy : 
Blessings on thee, barefoot boy ! 

0, for boyhood's painless play, 
Sleep that wakes in laughing day, 
Health that mocks the doctor's rules, 
Knowledge never learned of schools, 
Of the wild bee's morning chase, 
Of the wild flower's time and place, 
Flight of fowl and habitude 
Of the tenants of the wood; 
How the tortoise bears his shell, 
How the woodchuck digs his cell, 
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And the ground-mole sinks his well; 
How the robin feeds her young, 
How the oriole's nest is hung; 
Where the whitest lilies blow, 
Where the freshest berries grow, 
Where the groundnut trails its vine, 
Where the wood grape's clusters shine; 
Of the black wasp's cunning way, 
Mason of his walls of clay, 
And the architectural plans 
Of gray hornet artisans ! 
For, eschewing books and tasks, 
Nature answers all he asks; 
Hand in hand with her he walks. 
Face to face with her he talks, 
Part and parcel of her joy, 
Blessings on the barefoot boy! 



0, for boyhood's time of June, 
Crowding years in one brief moon, 
When all things I heard or saw, 
Me, their master, waited for. 
I was rich in flowers and trees, 
Humming-birds and honey-bees; 
For my sport the squirrel played, 
Plied the snouted mole his spade; 
For my taste the blackberry cone 
Purpled over hedge and stone; 
Laughed the brook for my delight 
Through the day and through the night, 
Whispering at the garden wall, 
Talked with me from fall to fall; 
Mine the sand-rimmed pickerel pond, 
Mine the walnut slopes beyond, 



BABYHOOD. 163 

Mine, on bending orchard trees, 
Apples of Hesperides ! 
Still, as my horizon grew, 
Larger grew my riches too; 
All the world I saw or knew 
Seemed a complex Chinese toy, 
Fashioned for a barefoot boy ! 

0, for festal dainties spread, 
Like my bowl of milk and bread, 
Pewter spoon and bowl of wood, 
On the door-stone gray and rude; 
O'er me, like a regal tent, 
Cloudy-ribbed the sunset bent, 
Purple-curtained, fringed with gold, 
Looped in many a wind-swung fold; 
While for music came the play 
Of the pied frog's orchestra; 
And, to light the noisy choir, 
Lit the fly his lamp of fire. 
I was monarch ; pomp and joy 
Waited on the barefoot boy! 

Cheerily, then, my little man, 
Live and laugh, as boyhood can ! 
Though the flinty slopes be hard, 
Stubble-speared the new-mown sward, 
Every morn shall lead thee through 
Fresh baptisms of the dew; 
Every evening from thy feet 
Shall the cool wind kiss the heat; 
All too soon these feet must hide 
In the prison cells of pride, 
Loose the freedom of the sod, 
Like a colt's for work be shod, 



164 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Made to tread the mills of toil, 
Up and down in ceaseless moil; 
Happy if their track be found 
Never on forbidden ground; 
Happy if they sink not in 
Quick and treacherous sands of sin. 
Ah ! that thou couldst know thy joy, 
Ere it passes, barefoot boy ! 



J. G. Whittier. 



HARRY'S LETTER. 
Dear Bill: 

TTERE I am in Lincolnshire. Now I'll tell you what 1 
want. I want you to come down here for the holidays. 
Don't be afraid. Ask your sister to ask your mother to ask 
your father to let you come. It's only ninety miles. If you're 
out of pocket-money, you can walk, and beg a lift now and 
then, or swing by the dickeys. Put on corduroys, and don't 
care for cut behind. The two prentices, George and Nick, are 
here to be made farmers of, and brother Frank is took home 
from school to help in agriculture. We like farming very 
much ; it's capital fun. Us four have got a gun, and go out 
shooting; it's a famous good one, and sure to go off if you 
don't full cock it. Tiger is to be our shooting dog as soon as 
he has left off killing the sheep. He's a real savage, and 
worries cats beautiful. Before father comes down, we mean 
to bait our bull with him. 

There's plenty of new rivers about, and we're going a fish- 
ing as soon as we have mended our top joint. We've killed 
one of our sheep on the sly to get gentles. We've a pony, 
too, to ride upon when we can catch him, but he's loose in the 
paddock, and has neither mane nor tail to signify to lay hold 



BABYHOOD. 165 

of. Isn't it prime, Bill ? You must come. If your mother 
won't give your father leave to allow you, run away. There's 
a pond full of frogs, but we won't pelt them till you come; but 
let it be before Sunday, as there's our own orchard to rob, and 
the fruits to be gathered on Monday. If you like sucking 
raw eggs, we know where the hens lay, and mother don't ; and 
I'm bound there's lots of birds' nests. Do come, Bill, and 
I'll show you the wasp's nest, and everything to make you 
comfortable. I dare say you could borrow your father's 
volunteer musket of him without his knowing it; but be sure 
any how to bring the ramrod, as we've mislaid ours by firing 
it off. Don't forget some bird-lime, Bill, and some fish-hooks, 
and some different sorts of shot, and some gunpowder, and a 
gentle-box, and some flints, some May-flies, and a powder-horn, 
and a landing-net, and a dog-whistle, and some porcupine- 
quills, and a bullet-mould, and a trolling-winch, and a shot- 
belt, and a tin-can. You pay for 'em. Bill, and I'll owe it 
you. 

Your old friend and school-fellow, 

Harry. 

Thomas Hood. 



A QUESTION. 

TT7HEN yet was ever found a mother 
* * Who'd give her booby for another ? 

John Gay 



THE BOY'S APPEAL. 

AH, why must my face be washed so clean, 
^ And rubbed and scrubbed for Sunday? 
When you very well know, as you often have seen, 
'Twill be dirty again on Monday. 



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MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



You rub as hard as ever you can, 

And your hands are rough, to my sorrow; 

No woman shall wash me when I'm a man; 
And I wish I was one to-morrow ! 



THE EATHEK'S ADVICE 

To his Son going to Seek his Fortune. 

VTOW, my boy, remember three things: "Fear God; be kind 
•^ to your horse ; and keep your bowels open." 

Hildreth. 



AGAINST BOYS. 

/CERTAIN feeble poetasters are always mourning that they 
are no longer in the Classical or Commercial Seminary of 
their younger days, but I believe that there are few honest 
men who do not look back upon their school-days with a 
shudder. I was not a very bad boy myself, I believe, but the 
comparison of my Now with my Then is certainly not odious. 
I can now meet a cat without wishing to kill it; I can behold 
two dogs without yearning to set them by the ears; I can listen 
to the twitter of a hedge-sparrow without longing for a horse- 
pistol; I can pass in the street an individual smaller than 
myself without experiencing an uncontrollable desire to snatch 
off his cap, and throw it over the wall. When I go to church, 
I take a church-service in my hand, and not a novel of similar 
external appearance ; I do not distend my pockets with filberts 
purloined from my host's dinner-table ; I do not smoke bits of 
cane until I am sick ; I do not think it ungentlemanly to ride 
in a 'bus ; I am no longer irresistibly attracted to any barrow 



BABYHOOD. 167 

full of strange delicacies, such as Albert rock or Alicam-pane, 
and if I were, the fruit of all others I should leave untouched 
would be exposed slices of cocoa-nut. Upon the whole, in 
short, I flatter myself that my relations with society are 
improved since I was that dreadful being — a boy. If all the 
grown-up people in the world should suddenly fail, what a 
frightful thing would society become reconstructed by boys ! 

Chambers' Journal. 



WHICH IS THE HAPPIEST. 

TT7HICH is the happiest ; a king, a lover repairing to his 
first interview, a successful author, an actor who has 
heard his rival hissed, an old coquette who has just received a 
compliment, a servant who is alone in a house, or a school-boy 
commencing his holidays ? 

Paul de Kock. 



Extract from a Letter to Philip Sydney, at ten years of age, from his Father. 

T)E curteese of gesture, and affable to all men, with diversity 
of reverence, according to the dignity of the person. 
There is nothing which wynneth so much with so lytell cost. 
Use moderate dyet, so as after yowr meate, you may find yowr 
wytte fresher, and not duller, and yowr bodie more lyvely, and 
not more heavye. Delight to be cleanly, as well in all parts 
of yowr bodie, as in yowr garments. Give yowrselfe to be 
merry e, but let yowr myrthe be ever void of all scurrility, and 
biting woordes to any man, for an wounde given by a woorde 
is oftentimes harder to be cured, than that which is given by 
the sword Above all things, tell no untruthe, no. not in 



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.MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



trifels. Be virtuously occupied, so shall you make such an 
habits of well doing, that you shall not know how to do evell. 
Well, my lytell Phillipe, this is ynough for me, and too muche, 
I fear, for you. 

H. Sydney. 



T YfE should gain our object better in the discipline of chil- 
dren, if, instead of finding fault with an action, we set 
ourselves to produce a better state of feeling, without noticing 
the action. 

Mary P. Ware. 



THE BOY AT HTTEEN. 

ANE of the most common signs of this period, in some 
natures, is the love of contradiction and opposition — a 
blind desire to go contrary to everything that is commonly 
received among older people. The boy disparages the minister, 
quizzes the deacon, thinks the school-master an ass, and seems 
to be rather pleased, than otherwise, with the shock and flutter 
that all these announcements create among peaceably disposed 
grown people. Is he a boy ; an immortal soul ? a reasonable 
human being? or a goblin sent to torment? " What shall we 
do with him ?" says his mother. " He can't be governed like 
a child, and he won't govern himself like a man." " We must 
cast out anchor and wait for day," says his father. " Prayer 
is a long rope with a strong hold." 

H. B. Stowe. 



"jHOK what we learn in youth, to that alone 
In age we are by second nature prone. 



Juvenal 



BABYHOOD. 169 

rpHERE is good metal in the boy ; the best ore cannot look 
-^ like gold till it is fused. It is so difficult for us women, 
who have to watch from our quiet homes afar, to distinguish 
the glow of the smelting furnace from the glare of a confla- 
gration. 

Chronicles of the Schonberg Cotta Family. 



What the Father said to the School-boy. 

" \ ND now, Tom, my boy," said the Squire, " remember you 
are going, at your own earnest request, to be chucked 
into this great school, like a young bear, with all your troubles 
before you. If schools are what they were in my time, you'll 
see a great many cruel blackguard things done, and hear a deal 
of foul bad talk. But never fear. You tell the truth, keep a 
brave and kind heart, and never listen to, or say anything you 
would not have your mother or sister hear, and you'll never 
feel ashamed to come home, or we to see you." 

Tom Brown at Rugby. 



What the Father said to his Daughter. 

"AT EVER for one moment forget that you are a gentlewoman ; 
let all your words and actions mark you gentle. 

Lord Collingwood. 



What the Poet said to the Young Maiden. 

"DE good, sweet maid, and let who will be clever; 
^ l>o noble things, not dream them, all day long, 
And so make life, death, and that vast Forever 
One grand, sweet song. 

Charles Kingsiey. 
Ih H 



1 7 MO S A ICS OF L 1FK. 

What the Poet might say to the Young Maiden's Mother. 

rpiS all in vain to hurry so, 

They're roses and they'll surely blow. 

Goethe. 



r FHE boy whose love you cannot feed by daily nourishment, 

will find pride, self-indulgence, and an iron purpose coming 

1 to furnish other supply lor the soul that is in him. If he 

cannot shoot his branches into the sunshine, he will become 

acclimated to the shadow. 

D. G. Mitchell. 



r PHAT domestic discipline of children may not end in disap- 
pointment, three things, with God's help, are needed; 
firmness of purpose, gentleness of manner, and consistency of 
example. 



E. S. Gannett. 



TN the man whose childhood has known caresses, there is 
always a fibre of memory which can be touched to gentle 
issues. 

Marian Evans. 



Happy is he whose friends were born before him. 

Old Proverb. 



Happy he 
With such a mother ! faith in womankind 
Beats with his blood, and trust in all things high 
Comes easy to him, and though he trip and fall, 
He shall not blind his soul with clay. 

Alfred Tonnysor 



BABYHOOD. 171 



BOY LOST. 



TTE had black eyes with long lashes, red cheeks, and hair 
-""*- almost black and almost curly. He wore a crimson plaid 
jacket, with full trowsers, buttoned on; had a habit of whistling, 
and liked to ask questions ; was accompanied by a small, black 
dog. It is a long while now since he disappeared. I have a 
very pleasant house and much company. My guests say, 
"Ah! it is pleasant here! Everything has such an orderly, 
put-away look — -nothing about under foot, no dirt !" 

But my eyes are aching for the sight of whittlings and cut 
paper upon the floor, of tumble-down card-houses, of wooden 
sheep and cattle, of pop-guns, bows and arrows, whips, tops, 
go-carts, blocks, and trumpery. I want to see boats a rigging, 
and kites a making, crumbles on the carpet, and paste spilt on 
the kitchen table. I want to see the chairs and tables turned 
the wrong way about. I want to see candy-making and corn- 
popping, and to find jack-knives and fish-hooks among my 
muslins. Yet these things used to fret me once. 

They say, " How quiet you are here ! Ah ! one here may 
settle his brains, and be at peace." But my ears are aching 
for the pattering of little feet, for a hearty shout, a shrill 
whistle, a gay tra la la, for the crack of little whips, for the 
noise of drums, fifes, and tin trumpets ; yet these things made 
me nervous once. 

They say, " Ah ! you have leisure — nothing to disturb you ; 
what heaps of sewing you have time for !" But I long to be 
asked for a bit of string or an old newspaper, for a cent to buy 
a slate pencil or pea-nuts. I want to be coaxed for a piece of 
new cloth for jibs or main-sails, and then to hem the same. I 
want to make little flags, and bags to hold marbles. I want to 
be followed by little feet all over the house, teasing for a bit 



172 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

of dough for a little cake, or to bake a pie in a saucer. Yet 
these things used to fidget me once. 

They say, " Ah ! you are not tied at home. How delightful 
to be always at liberty to go to concerts, lectures, and parties ! 
No confinement for you." 

But I want confinement. I want to listen for the school- 
bell mornings, to give the last hasty wash and brush, and then 
to watch from the window nimble l'eet bounding to school. I 
want frequent rents to mend, and to replace lost buttons. I 
want to obliterate mud-stains, fruit-stains, molasses-stains, and 
paints of all colors. I want to be sitting by a little crib of 
evenings, when weary feet are at rest, and prattling voices are 
hushed that mot hers may sing their lullabies, and tell over the 
oft-repeated stories. They don't know their happiness then — 
those mothers. I didn't. All these things I called confine- 
ment once. 

A manly figure stands before me now. He is taller than I; 
has thick, black whiskers, and wears a frock-coat, bosomed 
shirt, and cravat. He has just come from college. He brings 
Latin and Greek in his countenance, and busts of the old 
philosophers for the sitting-room. He calls me mother, but I 
am rather unwilling to own him. 

He stoutly declares that he is my boy, and says that he will 
prove it. He brings me a small pair of white trowsers, with 
gay stripes at the sides, and asks if I didn't make them for 
him when he joined the boys' militia. He says he is the very 
boy, too, that made the bonfire near the barn, so that we came 
very near having a fire in earnest. He brings his little boat, 
to show the red stripe on the sail (it was the end of the piece,) 
and the name on the stern — " Lucy Low" — a little girl of our 
neighborhood, who, because of her long curls and pretty round 
face, was the chosen favorite of my little boy. Her curls were 
long since cut off, and she has grown to be a tall, handsome 
girl. How the red comes to his face when he shows me the 



BABYHOOD. 173 

name on the boat ! Oh ! I see it all, as plain as if it were 
written in a book. My little boy is lost, and my big boy will 
soon be. Oh ! I wish he were a little tired boy in a long 
white night-gown, lying in his crib, with me sitting by, hold- 
ing his hand in mine, pushing the curls back from his fore- 
head, watching his eyelids droop, and listening to his deep 
breathing. 

If I only had my little boy again, how patient I would be ! 
How much I would bear, and how little I would fret and 
scold ! I can never have him back again ; but there are still 
many mothers who haven't yet lost their little boys. I wonder 
if they know they are living their very best days — that now 
is the time to really enjoy their children, I think if I had 
been more to my little boy, I might now be more to my grown- 
up one. 

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YOUTH. 



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YOUTH. 



Oh beautiful, all golden, gentle youth ! 

Making thy palace in the careless front 

And hopeful eye of man — ere yet the soul 

Hath lost the memories which (so Plato dreamed) 

Breathed glory from the earlier star it dwelt in. 

0, for one gale from thine exulting morning 

Stirring amidst the roses, where of old 

Love shook the dew-drops from his glancing hair ! 

E. L. Bulwer. 

But then her face, 

So lovely, yet so arch, so full of mirth, 

The overflowings of an innocent heart, 

It haunts me still, though many a year has fled 

Like some wild melody ! 

Samuel Rogers. 

A lovely being scarcely formed, or moulded, 
A rose with all its sweetest leaves yet folded. 

Lord Byron. 

When a girl ceases to blush, she has lost the most powerful charm of her 

beauty, 

Gregory. 

The beauty of this beautiful woman is Heaven's stamp upon virtue. 
She will be equal to every chance that shall befal her, and she is so radiant 
and charming in the circle of prosperity, only because she has that irresisti- 
ble simplicity and fidelity of character, which can also pluck the sting 

from adversity. 

G. W. Curtis. 

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178 MJSAICS OF LIFE. 

She was a form of life and light 
That seen became a part of sight; 
And rose, where'er I turned mine eye 
The morning star of memory ! 



Lord Byron. 

Youth pastures in a valley of its own : 

The glare of noon, the rains and winds of heaven, 

Mar not the calm yet virgin of all carej 

But ever with sweet joys it buildeth up 

The airy halls of life. 

Sophocles. 

Look upon every day, youth, as the whole of life, not merely as a 
section, and enjoy the present without wishing through haste, to spring 
on to another lying — before — the section. 

RlCHTER. 



EMILY IS MARKIED! 

TT is wonderful how one young maiden freshens up and keeps 
green, the paternal roof. Old and young seem to have an 
interest in her, so long as she is not absolutely disposed of. 
Emily is married. The Admiral still enjoys his pipe, but he 
has no Miss Emily to fill it for him. The instrument stands 
where it stood, but she is gone, whose delicate touch could 
sometimes for a short minute appease the warring elements. 
He has learnt, as Marvel expresses it, to " make his destiny 
his choice." He bears bravely up, but he does not come out 
with his flashes of wild wit so thick as formerly. His sea- 
songs seldom escape him. His wife, too, looks as if she wanted 
some younger body to scold and set to rights. We all miss a 
junior presence. The youthfulness of the house is flown ! 

Charles Lamb. 



A WOMAN may one day hope to be an angel, but she can 
^^ never again be a girl ! 



YC UTH. 179 



TO FANNIE IN A BALL DKLSS. 

rpHOU hast braided thy dark flowing hair, 
-*- And wreathed it with rosebuds and pearls, 
But, dearer, neglected thy sweet tresses are, 
Soft falling in natural curls ! 



Thou delightest the cold world's gaze, 

When crowned with the flower and the gem, 

But thy lover's smile should be dearer praise, 
Than the incense thou prizest from them. 

And gay is the playful tone, 

As to flattery's voice thou respondest, 
But what is the praise of the cold and unknown, 

To the tender blame of the fondest? 

John Everett. 



TS there anything in life so lovely and poetical as the laugh 
and merriment of a young girl, who still in harmony with 
all her powers, sports with you in luxuriant freedom, and in 
her mirthfulness neither despises nor dislikes ? Her gravity 
is seldom as innocent as her playfulness ; still less that haughty 
discontent which converts the youthful Psyche into a dull, 
thick, buzzing, wing-drooping night-moth. Never fear that 
feminine playfulness will exclude depth of character and sensi- 
bility. Let then the laughter-loving creatures giggle on at one 
another, and especially at the first clumsy make-game wight 
who comes among them, even should he be the writer of this 
paragraph ! 

Jean Paul. 



180 MOSAICS OF LIFE, 

I was glad that day — 
The June was in me; 
I felt so young, so strong, so sure of God! 

E. B. Browning. 



MAIDENHOOD 

1V/TAIDEN! with the meek, brown eyes, 

In whose orbs a shadow lies 
Like the dusk in evening skies ! 

Bear a lily in thy hand; 
Gates of brass cannot withstand 
One touch of that magic wand. 

Bear through sorrow, wrong, and ruth; 
In thy heart the dew of youth, 
On thy lips the smile of truth. 

Oh, that dew, like balm, shall steal 
Into wounds that cannot heal, 
Even as sleep our eyes doth seal; 

And that smile, like sunshine, dart 
Into many a sunless heart, 
For a smile of God thou art. 



H. W. Longfellow. 



LIEE IS BEFORE YE. 

[" IFE is before ye ! from the fated road 

Ye cannot turn; then take ye up the load, 
Not yours to tread, or leave the unknown way, 
Ye must go o'er it, meet ye what ye may; 







gj^^MlM 



MAIDENnOOP. 



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YOUTH. 181 

Gird up your souls within you to the deed! 
Angels and fellow-spirits bid ye speed. 
What tho' the brightness wane, the pleasure fade, 
The glory dim ! Oh, not of those is made 
The awful life that to your trust is given. 
Children of God ! inheritors of heaven ! 
Mourn not the perishing of each fair toy; 
Ye were ordained to do, not to enjoy — 
To suffer, which is nobler than to dare; 
A holy burden is the life ye bear. 
Look on it, lift it, bear it solemnly, 
Stand up, and walk beneath it steadfastly; 
Fail not for sorrow, falter not for sin, 
But onward, upward, till the goal ye win! 
God guide ye, and God guard ye on your way, 
Young warrior-pilgrims who set forth to-day. 

Fanny Kemble. 



The childhood shows the man, as morning shows the day. 

Paradise Regained — Book iv. 



IDEALS OP WOMAN. 
No. 1. 

AH, blest with temper, whose unclouded ray 
^ Can make to-morrow cheerful as to-day, 
She who can love a sister's charms, and hear 
Sighs for a daughter with unwounded ear; 
She who ne'er answers till a husband cools. 
Or, if she rules him, never shows she rules, 
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182 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Charms by accepting, by submitting sways, 
Yet has her humor most when she obeys; 
Spleen, vapors, or small-pox, above them all, 
And mistress of herself, though China fall! 

Alexander Pope 



IDEALS Or WOMAN. 

No. 2. 
"VTOT only good and kind, 

But strong and elevated was her mind; 
A spirit that with noble pride 

Could look superior down 

On fortune's smile or frown ; 
That could without regret or pain 
To virtue's lowest duty sacrifice, 
Or interest or ambition's highest prize; 
That injured, or offended, never tried 
Its dignity by vengeance to maintain 

But by magnanimous disdain. 

A wit, that, temperately bright, 

With inoffensive- light 

All pleasing shone; nor ever past 
The decent bounds that wisdom's sober hand, 
And sweet benevolence's mild command, 

And bashful modesty before it cast. 
A prudence undeceiving, undeceived, 
That nor too little, nor too much believed; 
That scorned unjust suspicion's coward fear, 
And without weakness knew to be sincere. 

Made to engage all hearts, and charm all eyes, 

Though meek, magnanimous; though witty, wise; 
Polite, as all her life in courts had been, 
Yet good, as she the world had never seen. 

George Lytfleton 



YOUTH. 183 



MY KATE. 

Ideal No. 3. 
OHE was not as pretty as women I know, 
^ And yet all your best, made of sunshine and snow, 
Deep to shade, melt to nought, in the long-trodden ways, 
While she's still remembered on warm and cold days : 

My Kate. 

Her air had a meaning, her movement a grace, 
You turned from the fairest to gaze in her face; 
And when you had once seen her forehead and mouth, 
You saw as distinctly her soul and her truth: 

My Kate. 

Such a blue inner light from her eyelids outbroke, 
You looked at her silence and fancied she spoke; 
When she did, so peculiar, yet soft was the tone, 
Though the loudest spoke also, you heard her alone : 

My Kate. 

I doubt if she said to you much that could act 
As a thought or suggestion ; she did not attract 
In the sense of the brilliant and wise, I infer; 
'Twas her thinking of others made you think of her: 

My Kate. 

She never found fault with you; never implied 
Your wrong by her right; and yet men at her side, 
Grew nobler, girls purer, as through the whole town 
The children were gladder that pulled at her gown : 

My Kate. 

None knelt at her feet as adorers in thrall ; 

They knelt more to God than they used, that was all; 



184 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

If you praised her as charming, some asked what you meant, 
But the charm of her presence was felt when she went : 

My Kate. 

The weak and the gentle, the ribald and rude, 
She took as she found them and did them all good; 
It always was so with her — see what you have ! 
She has made the grass greener e'en here with her grave : 

My Kate. 

My dear one! when thou wert alive with the rest, 
I held thee the sweetest, and loved thee the best; 
And now thou art dead, shall I not take thy part, 
As thy smile used to do thyself my sweet-heart ? 

My Kate. 

Elizabeth Barrett Browning. 



POET'S IDEAL. 

No. 4. 

QHE was a Phantom of delight, 

^ When first she gleamed upon my sight; 

A lovely apparition, sent 

To be a moment's ornament; 

Her eyes as stars of Twilight fair; 

Like Twilight's too, her dusky hair; 

But all things else about her drawn; 

From May-time and the cheerful dawn; 

A dancing shape, an Image gay, 

To haunt, to startle and waylay. 

I saw her upon nearer view, 
A Spirit, yet a Woman too ! 



YOUTH. 185 

Her household motions light and free, 

And steps of virgin liberty; 

A countenance in which did meet 

Sweet records, promises as sweet; 

A creature not too bright or good 

For human Nature's daily food; 

For transient sorrows, simple wiles, 

Praise, blame, love, kisses, tears, and smiles. 

And now I see with eye serene 
The very pulse of the machine; 
A Being breathing thoughtful breath, 
A Traveler between life and death; 
The reason firm, the temperate will, 
Endurance, foresight, strength, and skill; 
A perfect Woman, nobly planned 
To warn, to comfort and command; 
And yet a Spirit still, and bright 
With something of an Angel light. 

William Wordsworth 



FKOM COMUS." A MASK. 

Scene — A Wildwood. 

First Brother — 

But oh, that hapless virgin, our lost Sister; 
Where may she wander now, whither betake her 
From the chill dew, among rude burs and thistles ? 
What, if in wild amazement, and affright, 
Or, while we speak, within the direful grasp 
Of savage hunger, or of savage heat? 
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186 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Second Brother — 

My sister is not so defenceless left, 

As you imagine; she has a hidden strength 

Which you remember not. 

First Brother — 

What hidden strength, 
Unless the strength of Heaven, if you mean that? 

Second Brother — 

I mean that too, but yet a hidden strength, 

Which, if Heaven gave it, may be termed her own ; 

'Tis chastity, my Brother, chastity : 

She that has that, is clad in complete steel, 

Some say no evil thing that walks by night, 

In fog, or fire, by lake, or moorish fen, 

No goblin, or swart faery of the mine 

Hath hurtful power o'er true virginity — 

So dear to heaven is saintly chastity, 

That when a soul is found sincerely so, 

A thousand liveried angels lackey her, 

Driving far off each thing of sin and guilt, 

And in clear dream and solemn vision, 

Tell her of things that no gross ear can hear, 

Till oft converse with heavenly habitants 

Begin to cast a beam on th' outward shape 

The unpolluted temple of the mind, 

And turns it by degrees to the soul's essence, 

Till all be made immortal. 

First Brother — 

Heaven keep my Sister. 

John Milton, 



YOUTH. L87 

f\B. ! n'insultez jamais une femme qui tombe ! 

^ Qui sait sous quel fardeau la pauver ante succombe. 

Comme au bout d'une branche on voit etinceler 
Une goutte de pluie oii le ciel vient briller, 
Qu'on secoue avec 1'arbre, et qui tremble, et qui lutte. 
Perle avant de tomber, et fange ajpres sa chute ! 

Cette fange, d'ailleurs, contient Teau pure encor, 
Pour que lagoutte d'eau sorte de la poussiere 
Et redevienne perle en sa splendeur premiere, 
II suffit, c'est ainsi que tout remonte un jour, 
Ifun rayon de soliel ou d'un rayon d y amour ! 

Victor Hugo. 



THE BRIDGE Or SIGHS. 

" Drowned ! drowned !" — Hamlet. 
ANE more Unfortunate, 



Weary of breath, 
Rashly importunate, 
Gone to her death! 

Take her up tenderly, 
Lift her with care; 

Fashion'd so slenderly, 
Young, and so fair! 

Look at her garments 
Clinging like cerements; 
Whilst the wave constantly 

Drips from her clothing; 
Take her up instantly, 

Loving, not loathing. 



188 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Touch her not scornfully; 
Think of her mournfully, 

Gently and humanly, 
Not of the stains of her; 
All that remains of her 

Now is pure womanly. 

Make no deep scrutiny 
Into her mutiny; 

Rash and un dutiful ! 
Past all dishonor, 
Death has left on her 

Only the beautiful. 

Still, for all slips of hers, 
One of Eve's family — 

Wipe those poor lips of hers 
Oozing so clammily. 

Loop up her tresses, 

Escaped from the comb — 

Her fair auburn tresses; 

Whilst wonderment guesses 
Where was her home ? 

Who was her father? 

Who was her mother? 
Had she a sister? 

Had she a brother? 
Or was there a dearer one 
Still, and a nearer one 

Yet than all other? 

Alas ! for the rarity 
Of Christian charity 



YOUTH. 189 

Under the sun ! 
Oh ! it was pitiful ! 
Near a whole city full 

Home she had none. 

Sisterly, brotherly, 
Fatherly, motherly, 

Feelings had changed : 
Love, by harsh evidence, 
Thrown from its eminence; 
Even God's providence 

Seeming estranged. 

Where the lamps quiver 
So far in the river, 

With many a light 
From window and casement, 
From garret to basement, 
She stood, with amazement, 

Houseless by night. 

The bleak wind of March 

Made her tremble and shiver; 
But not the dark arch, 

Or the black flowing river: 
Mad from life's history, 
Glad to death's mystery 

Swift to be hurrd- 
Anywhere, anywhere, 

Out of the world! 

In she plunged boldly, 
No matter how coldly 
The rough river ran — 



190 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Over the brink of it, 
Picture it — think of it, 

Dissolute Man ! 
Lave in it, drink of it 

Then, if you can ! 



Take her up tenderly, 
Lift her with care; 

Fashion'd so slenderly, 
Young, and so fair! 

Ere her limbs frigidly 
Stiffen too rigidly, 

Decently, kindly, 
Smooth, and compose them; 
And her eyes, close them, 

Staring so blindly! 

Dreadfully staring 

Through muddy impurity, 
As when with the daring 
Last look of despairing 

Fixed on futurity. 

Perishing gloomily, 
Spurred by contumely, 
Cold inhumanity. 
Burning insanity, 

Into her rest. 
Cross her hands humbly, 
As if praying dumbly, 

Over her breast! 

Owning her weakness, 
Her evil behaviour, 

And leaving, with meekness, 
Her sins to her Saviour ! 



Thomas Hood. 



YOUTH. 191 



VIRGINIA. 

O TllAIGHTWAY Virginius led the maid a little space aside 
To where the reeking shambles stood, piled up with horn 

and hide, 
Hard by, a flesher on a block had laid his whittle down : 
Virginius caught the whittle up, and hid it in his gown. 
And then his eyes grew very dim, and his throat began to 

swell, 
And in a hoarse, changed voice he spake, " Farewell, sweet 

child, farewell ! 
Oh ! how I loved my darling ! Though stern I sometimes be, 
To thee thou know'st I was not so. Who could be so to 

thee ? 
And how my darling loved me ! How glad she was to hear 
My footstep on the threshold when I came back last year ! 
And how she danced with pleasure to see my civic crown, 
And took my sword and hung it up, and brought me forth my 

gown ! 
Now all those things are over — yes, all thy pretty ways, 
Thy needle-work, thy prattle, thy snatches of old lays ; 
And none will grieve when I go forth, or smile when I 

return, 
Or watch beside the old man's bed, or weep upon his urn. 
The house that was the happiest within the Roman walls, 
The house that envied not the wealth of Capua's marble 

halls, 
Now, for the .brightness of thy smile, must have eternal gloom, 
And for the music of thy voice, the silence of the tomb. 
The time is come. See how he points his eager hand this 

way ! 
See how his eyes gloat on thy grief, like a kite's upon the 

prey! 



192 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

With all his wit, he little deems, that, spurned, betrayed, 

bereft, 
Thy father hath in his despair one fearful refuge left. 
He little deems that in this hand I clutch what still can save 
Thy gentle youth from taunts and blows, the portion of the 

slave ; 
Yea, and from nameless evil, that passeth taunt and blow, 
Foul outrage which thou knowest not, which thou shalt never 

know. 
Then clasp me round the neck once more, and give me one 

more kiss; 
And now, mine own dear little girl, there is no way but this." 
With that he lifted high the steel, and smote her in the side, 
And in her blood she sank to earth, and with one sob she 

died 
Then, for a little moment, all people held their breath; 
And through the crowded Forum was stillness as of death; 
And in another moment brake forth from one and all 
A cry as if the Volscians were coming o'er the wall. 
A.nd as Virginius through the press his way in silence cleft, 
Ever the mighty multitude fell back to right and left. 

T. B. Macaulay. 



SHKS GANE TO DWALL IN HEAVEN. 

QHE'S gane to dwall in heaven, my lassie, 

She's gane to dwall in heaven; 
Ye're owre pure, quo' the voice of God, 
For dwalling out o' heaven ! 

what '1 she do in heaven, my lassie ? 

what '1 she do in heaven ? 
She'll mix her ain thoughts wi' angels' sangs, 

And make them mair meet for heaven ! 



YOUTH. 193 

She was beloved by a', my lassie, 

She was beloved by a'; 
But an angel fell in luve wi' her, 

An' took her frae us a\ 

Nithsdale and Galloway Songs. 
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A MOSAIC FOR FRIENDS. 



195 



A MOSAIC FOR FRIENDS. 



Happy is he whose friends were born before him. 



KXH 



Sustine et abstine. 



We exchanged our experiences, and all learned something 

Emerson. 



CONCERNING FRIENDS. 

DE to their faults a little blind, 
■^ Be to their virtues very kind. 

Matthew Pry or. 



There are many carks in life that a little truth would end 

E. L. Bu'wor. 



Kindness gives birth to kindness. 

Sophocles 
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198 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



B 



ELTEVE not each accusing tongue 



As most weak people do; 

But still believe that story wrong, 

Which ought not to be true. 



H 



E who has a thousand friends, has not one friend to spare, 
And he who has one enemy, shall meet him everywhere ! 



SPHERE is no better test of friendship than the ready turn- 
ing of the mind to the little concerns of a friend when 
preoccupied with important concerns of our own. 



QORROW is a stone that crushes a single bearer to the 
^ ground, whilst two are able to carry it with ease. 



TT7HEN a man is no longer his own friend, then goes he to 

' * his brother, who is so still, that he may talk gently with 

him, and may again give him life. 



Jean Paul. 



T?OUR things come not back : the spoken ivord, the sped 

tunity. 

Prophet Omar. 



"*" arrow, the past life, and the neglected opportunity. 



A MOSAIC FOR FRIENDS, 199 

QINCE trifles make the sum of human things, 

And half our misery from our foibles springs, 
Since life's best joys consist in peace and ease, 
And few can serve or save, but all can please, 
Oh let the ungentle spirit learn from hence 
A small unkindness is a great offence; 
Large bounties to bestow we strive in vain, 
But all may shun the guilt of giving pain. 

Hannah More. 



T70R two enemies, the world is too small ; for two friends, a 
needle's eye is big enough. 



TTOW common it is for one's friends to drop a heavy weight 
upon one's heart, and then desire one not to let it dwell 
there ! 

ri. Marti neau. 



T70RSE voi amereste meglio un amico piu ideale : non so che 
-*■ dire : fabbricativelo — Quello era cosi. 



NO PERFECTION. 

YT7HEN a man glances critically through the circle of his 

Y intimate friends, he is obliged to confess that they are 

far from being perfect. They profess neither the beauty of 

Apollo, nor the wisdom of Solon, nor the wit of Mercutio, nor 



200 MOSAICS OF LIFE 

the reticence of Napoleon III. Yet forced to make such 
uncomfortable confessions, our supposed man does not like his 
friends one whit the less. * * * Perfection is not essential to 
friendship. * * * If a man be an entire and perfect chryso- 
lite, you slide off him, and fall back into ignorance. 

From " Dreamthorp," by Alexander Smith. 



A MOSAIC FOR YOUNG MEN 



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A MOSAIC FOR YOUNG MEN 



Be bolde, Be bolde, and everywhere Be bolde — 

Be not too bolde; 

Faery Queene. — Book III., Canto XI. 

The World is his who has Patience. 



The borrower is servant to the lender. 

Hebrew, 



Fidelity is seven-tenths of business — success. 

Parton. 



There is no royal road to Geometry! 



Viam aut inveniam aut faciam. 

Sydney's Motto. 



IV /TAKE the best of everything; 
-^ Think the best of everybody; 
Hope the best for yourself. 

203 



204 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Do as I have done — persevere. 



George Stephenson 



When the cup is full, carry it even. 

Scotch Proverb. 



A man's best wealth ought to be himself. 

William Austin. 



A DECENT boldness ever meets with friends, 
■^ Succeeds, and even a stranger recommends. 

Pope's Homer. 



TF he had promised an acorn, and the acorn season failed in 
England, he would have sent to Norway for one ! 



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C\ OODS gone — something gone, 

^ Must bend to the oar, 

And earn thee some more. 

Honor gone — much gone, 

Must go and gain glory, 

Then the idling gossips will alter their story. 
Courage gone — all's gone, 
Better never have been born ! 



Goethe. 



A MOSAIC FOE YOUNG MEN 205 

YT7HAT you learn by experience you learn pretty thoroughly; 
' ' but at the same time, occasionally, much to your cost 
Thus by chopping off a couple of fingers, you learn, by expe- 
rience, not to meddle with edge tools ! 

Edward Everett. 



TF any one speak ill of thee, consider whether he has truth 
L on his side ; and if so, reform thyself. 

Epictetus. 



Laziness is the Devil's cushion. 



Old Proverb. 



pOUNT that day lost whose low, descending sun 
Sees at thy hand no worthy action done. 



Allez en avant, et la foi vous viendrea. 

D'Alembert. 



-♦<>•- 



Never take trouble on interest. 



T)E noble; and the nobleness that lies 

In other men sleeping, but never dead. 
Will rise in majesty to meet thine own. 

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206 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

T)EGTN nothing of which thou hast not well considered the 
-° end. 



He that despiseth small things shall fall by little and little. 

Hebrew. 



Providence does not run on broken wheels. 



A MAN'S true wealth hereafter is the good he does in this 

world to his fellow-man. When he dies, people will say, 

" What property has he left behind him." But the angels 

who examine him will ask, " What good deeds hast thou sent 

before thee V* 

Mohammed. 



rpHE man that never breaks a rule 
Is little better than a fool. 



Obsta principiis. 



The one prudence in life is concentration. 

R. W Emerson. 



TF thou art anything, keep still, 
-*- In silence all will work out well; 
For one may place him where he will, 
The real man will always tell. 



Goethe. 



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207 



A MOSAIC FOR HOUSE-WIVES. 



A PLACE for everything, and everything in its place. 
A time for everything, and everything in time. 



Speech is silver ; silence is golden. 



A WOMAN habitually gentle, sympathizing, forbearing, and 
cheerful, carries a soothing and sustaining influence ever 
with her. 

C. E. Beecher. 



An anxious mind is never a holy mind. 



Do the duty that lies nearest. 

Goethe. 



TX7HAT we need most is not so much to realize the Ideal as 
to idealize tlie Real. 

F. H. Hedge. 
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210 



MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



T70R. every evil under the sun 

-*- There's a remedy, or there's none; 

If there is one, try and find it; 

If there isn't, never mind it. 



TF my foresight were as good as my hindsight, I should not 
make so many mistakes." 



Dutchman. 



Though I am always in haste, I am never in a hurry. 

John Wesley 



One keep-clean is worth two make-cleans. 



\T7HERE there is room in the heart, there is always room 
in the house. 



TXTHAT I don't see 

Don't trouble me; 
And what I see 
Might trouble me, 
Did I not know 
That it must be so. 



Goethe. 



The morning hour has gold in its mouth. 



A MOSAIC FOR HOUSE-WIVES. 211 

[" OSE an hour in the morning, you may search for it all day. 
^ and never find it. 

Old Saying, 



One small candle may light a thousand. 



Dirt is not dirt, but only something in the wrong place ! 

Lord Palmerston, 



Temper is nine-tenths of Christianity. 



ARDER was made for the family, and not the family for 
^ order. 

H. B. Stowe. 



No sensible person ever made an apology. 

R. W. Emerson. 



GRANDMOTHER'S TRIPLET. 

A FTER breakfast, work and tile ; (toil) 
After dinner, sit awhile; 
After supper, walk a mile. 



^HE three family physicians — Dr. Diet, Dr. Quiet, and Dr. 
Merry-man. 



Old Proverb. 



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A MOSAIC FOR US ALL. 



213 



A MOSAIC FOR US ALL. 



TOG on, jog on, the foot-path road, 
^ And merrily trip the stile-a; 
Your merry heart goes all the day, 
Your sad one tires in a mile-a. 

Old Song. 



"TvON'T cross the bridge till you come to it, 
Is a proverb old, and of excellent wit. 

H. W. Longfellow. 



A ND when the road forks ary side, 
^"*- And you're in doubt which one it is; 



Stand still, and let your conscience guide, 

much amiss. 

J. P. Hebel — German Burns. 



Thank God, it can't lead much amiss. 



OEEK not to know 

^ What pleaseth Heaven to hide; 

Dark is the abyss of time, 

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MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



But light enough to guide our souls is given; 

Whatever weal or woe betide, 

Turn never from the path of truth aside, 
And leave the event, in holy hope, to Ileaven. 



A SOFT answer turneth away wrath. 



Hebrew. 



In difficult cases, do nothing. 



Edgeworth. 



TF every one's internal thought 
Were written on his brow, 

How many would our pity move, 
Who wake our envy now! 



Metastasio. 



T ET this thought quicken thee, 
Minds that are great and free 
Should not on fortune pause; 
'Tis crowne enough to virtue still, her owne applause. 

Ben Jonson's Ode to Himself. 



Volete aver molti in aiuto ? fate di non averne bisogno ! 

Manzoni. 



A MOSAIC FOR US ALL. 217 

TX7E see so darkly into futurity, we never know when we 
* * have real cause to rejoice or lament. The worst appear- 
ances haye often happy consequences, as the best lead many 
times into the greatest misfortunes. 

M. W. Montague. 



rPWO things there are, indicative of a weak mind; to be 

silent when it is proper to speak, and to speak when it is 

proper to be silent. 



Persian Sage. 



A RE head and heart confused and sore, 
■^ What better wouldst thou have? 
Who loves no more, and hopes no more, 
As well were in his grave! 



Goethe. 



■•♦•■ 



Douceur plus fait que violence. 



TTE who has health, has hope; and he who has hope, has 
everything. 

Arabian Proverb. 



BE still, sad heart, and cease repining 
"D~"Ui~J ±"L ~ ^1~,,J^ Zr* 4-V.^ t,„~ ~a!11 



Behind the clouds is the sun still shining. 

H. W. Longfellow. 
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MOSAICS OF LIFE, 



TTE prayeth best, who loveth best, 

All things both great and small, 
For the dear God who loveth us, 
He loveth one and all. 

S. T. Coleridge. 

Be of good cheer. 



Christ. 



SINGLE LIFE. 



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SINGLE LIFE. 



THE OLD MAID'S PKAYER TO DIANA. 

QINCE thou and the stars, my dear Goddess, decree, 
^ That old maid as I am, and old maid I must be. 
Oh ! hear the petition I render to thee. 

For to bear it, must be my endeavor, 
From the grief of my friendships all dropping around, 
Till not one that I loved in my youth can be found, 
From the legacy hunters which near us abound, 

Diana, thy servant deliver ! 

From the scorn of the young, and the flouts of the gay, 

From all the trite ridicule rattled away, 

By the pert ones who know nothing wiser to say, 

Or a spirit to laugh at them, give her, 
From repining at fancied neglected desert, 
Or, vain of a civil speech, bridling alert 
From finical niceness, or slatternly dirt, 

Diana, thy servant deliver ! 

From over-solicitous guarding of pelf, 
From humor unchecked, that most obstinate elf, 
From every unsocial attention to self, 
Or ridiculous whim whatsoever, 
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222 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

From the vaporish freaks, or methodical airs, 
Apt to sprout in a brain that's exempted from cares, 
From impertinent meddling in other's affairs, 
Diana, thy servant deliver ! 

From spleen at beholding the young more caressed, 

From pettish asperity tartly expressed, 

From scandal, detraction, and every such pest, 

From all thy true servant deliver ! 
Nor let satisfaction depart from her lot, 
Let her sing, if at ease, and be patient if not, 
l>e pleased when remembered, content, if forgot, 

Till the Fates her slight thread shall dissever. 

Mrs. Tighe. 



u QO that I would not say but it takes the like of me, a single 

gentlewoman, unacquaint with % the real fash and trouble 

of the estate of marriage, to carry pure to the end of mortal 

days, the first grand thoughts of youth." 



Oliphant. 



T KNOW, therefore, of no reason why a woman should marry, 

except because she cannot help it; because, "the spirit of 

life which dwelleth in the secret chambers of the soul, all 

trembling, speaks these words : Behold a God more powerful 

than I." 

Gan Hamilton. 






SINGLE LIFE. 223 



BROTHER AND SISTER. 

"DRIDGET ELIA has been my house-keeper for many a long 
year. I have obligations to Bridget extending beyond the 
period of memory. We house together, old bachelor and maid, 
in a sort of double singleness; with such tolerable comfort, 
upon the whole, that I, for one, find in myself no sort of dis- 
position to go out upon the mountains, with the rash king's 
offspring, to bewail my celibacy. We agree pretty well in our 
tastes and habits — yet so, as "with a difference." We are 
generally in harmony, with occasional bickerings — as it should 
be among near relations. We are both of us inclined to be a 
little too positive ; and I have observed the result of our dis- 
putes to be almost uniformly this : that in matters of fact, 
dates, and circumstances, it turns out, that I was in the right, 
and Bridget in the wrong. But where we have differed upon 
moral points, upon something proper to be done, or let alone ; 
whatever heat of opposition, or steadiness of conviction, I set 
out with, I am sure always, in the long-run, to be brought over 
to her way of thinking! Her education in youth was not 
much attended to ; and she happily missed all that train of 
female garniture, which passeth by the name of accomplish- 
ments. She was tumbled early, by accident or design, into a 
spacious closet of good old English reading, without much 
selection or prohibition, and browsed at will upon that fair and 
wholesome pasturage. Had I twenty girls, they should be 
brought up exactly in this fashion. I know not whether their 
chance in wedlock might not be diminished by it; but I can 
answer for it, that it makes (if the icorst comes to the worst) 
incomparable old maids! 

Charles Larr.b. 



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EPITAPH ON AN OLD MAID. 

T)EST, gentle traveler, on life's toilsome way; 

Pause here awhile; yet o'er this lifeless clay 
No weeping, but a joyful tribute pay. 

For this green nook, by sun and showers made warm, 
Gives welcome rest to an o'erwearied form, 
Whose mortal life knew many a wintry storm. 

Yet, ere the spirit gained a full release, 

From earth, she had attained that land of peace, 

Where seldom clouds obscure, where tempests cease. 

No chosen spot of ground she called her own; 
She reaped no harvest in her spring-time sown, 
Yet always in her path some flowers were strown. 

No dear ones were her own peculiar care, 
So was her bounty free as heaven's air; 
For every claim she had enough to spare. 

And loving more the heart to give than lend, 
Though oft deceived in many a trusty friend, 
She hoped, believed, and trusted to the end. 

She had her joys; 'twas joy to live, to love, 
To labor in the world with God above, 
And tender hearts that ever near did move. 

She had her griefs ; but why recount them here — 
The heart-sick loneness, the onlooking fear, 
The days of desolation, dark and drear. 



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Since every agony left peace behind, 
And healing came on every stormy wind, 
And with pure brightness every cloud was lined. 

And every loss sublimed some low desire, 
And every sorrow helped her to aspire, 
Till waiting angels bade her go up higher! 

Englishwoman's Journal. 



COUSIN JANE. 

TX7HAT do people think of her? 

Old Cousin Jane, 
With a sallow, sunken cheek, 
Hair with many a silver streak, 
Features never made for show, 
Eyes that faded long ago, 
Brows no longer smooth and fair, 
Form bent o'er with pain and care; 
Sad to be so old and plain, 

Slighted Cousin Jane! 
i 
What do we all think of her? 

Our Cousin Jane ? 
Quieting the children's noise, 
Mending all the broken toys, 
Doing deftly, one by one, 
Duties others left undone, 
Gliding round the sick one's bed 
With a noiseless foot and tread ; 
Who like her to soothe in pain ? 

Useful Cousin Jane i 
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22(3 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

What do angels think of her? 

Our Cousin Jane? 
Bearing calmly every cross, 
Finding gain, though seeking loss, 
And a beauty ever bright 
In the rigid line of right, 
Self-forgetting, free from art, 
With a loving, cheerful heart, 
Living, aye, for others gain, 

Saintly Cousin Jane ! 






Would that thinking oft of her — 

Our Cousin Jane — 
Might our inward vision clear, 
To behold the unseen near, 
And in forms of dullest hue, 
Heaven's own beauty shining through ! 
Reached — that land of purest day, 
Passed — misjudging earth away. 
What radiance will she then attain ! 

Star-crowned Cousin Jane ! 



"T7ULL many a gem of purest ray serene 

The dark unfathomed caves of ocean bear; 
Full many a flower is born to blush unseen, 
And waste (?) its sweetness on the desert air 

Thomas Gray. 



T)ATIENCE and abnegation of self, and devotion to others, 
-*■ This was the lesson a life of trial and sorrow had taught 
her. 



SINGLE LIFE. 227 

So was her love diffused, but, like some odorous spices, 
Suffered no waste nor loss, though filling the air with aroma. 
Other hope had she none, nor wish in life, but to follow 
Meekly, with reverent steps, the sacred feet of her Saviour. 

From Evangeline — Part ii. 



A ND thou, when thou seest the sparrow fall, and many a 
goodly ship suffer wreck, do not forget that we see merely 
a portion of the history; that its last chapter rests in the 
bosom of Eternal Love ! Let us meekly wait. 

Chronicles of the Schonberg Cotta Family. 



From an •' Extra Leaf on Daughter-full Houses." 

T^ORSAKEN, but patient one ! misknown and mistreated ! 
-*- Think not of the times when thou hadst hope of better 
than the present are, and repent the noble pride of thy heart 
never ! It is not always our duty to marry, but it is always 
our duty to abide by right, not to purchase happiness by loss 
of honor, not to avoid unweddedness by untruthfulness. Lonely, 
unadmired heroine ! in thy last hour, when all life and the 
by-gone possessions and scaffoldings of life shall crumble in 
pieces, ready to fall down, in that hour thou wilt look back on 
thy untenanted life ; no children, no husband, no wet eyes will 
be there; but in the empty dusk, one high, pure, angelic, 
smiling, beaming figure, godlike and mounting to the godlike, 
will hover, and beckon thee to mount with her. Mount thou 
with her ; the figure is thy virtue. 

Jean Paul Friedrich Kichter. 



228 MOSAICS OF LIFE, 



I 



IF THOU COULDST KNOW, 
think if thou couldst know, 
soul that will complain 
What lies concealed below 
Our burden and our pain; 
How just our anguish brings 
Nearer those longed for things 
We seek for now in vain, 
I think thou wouldst rejoice and not complain. 

I think if thou couldst see 

With thy dim mortal sight, 
How meanings dark to thee, 
Are shadows hiding light; 
Truth's efforts crossed and vexed, 
Life's purpose all perplexed — 
If thou couldst see them right, 
I think that they would seem all clear, and wise and bright 

And yet thou canst not know, 
And yet thou canst not see; 
Wisdom and sight are slow 
In poor humanity. 
If thou couldst trust, poor soul, 
In Him who rules the whole, 
Thou wouldst find peace and rest; 
Wisdom and sight are well, but Trust is best. 



SOLITUDE OF SINGLE WOMEN 

TT is a condition to which a single woman must makt up her 
■*- mind, that the close of her days will be more or h ss soli- 
tary. Yet there is a solitude which old age feels to be as 



SINGLE LIFE. 229 

natural and satisfying as that rest which seems such an irk- 
someness to youth, but which gradually grows into the best 
blessings of our lives; and there is another solitude, so full 
of peace and hope, that it is like Jacob's sleep in the wilder- 
ness, at the foot of the ladder of angels. 

"All things are less dreadful than they seem." 

And it may be that the extreme loneliness which, viewed 
afar off, appears to an unmarried woman as one of the saddest 
of the inevitable results of her lot, shall by that time have 
lost all its pain, and be regarded but as the quiet dreamy hour 
" between the lights ;" when the day's work is done, and we 
lean back, closing our eyes, to think it all over before we finally 
go to rest, or to look forward, in faith and hope, unto the 
coming morning. 

A finished life — a life which has made the best of all the 
materials granted to it, and through which, be its web dark or 
bright, its pattern clear or clouded, can now be traced plainly 
the hand of the Great Designer ; surely this is worth living 
for. And though at its end it may be somewhat lonely ; though 
a servant's and not a daughter's arm may guide the failing step ; 
though most likely it will be strangers only who come about 
the dying bed. flose the eyes that no husband ever kissed, and 
draw the shroud kindly over the poor withered breast where 
no child's head has ever lain ; still, such a life is not to be 
pitied, for it is a completed life. It has fulfilled its appointed 
course, and returns to the Giver of all breath, as pure as He 
gave it." 

Dinah Muloch, 



I 



HAVE lived to know that the secret of happiness is never 
to allow your energies to stagnate. 

Adam Clarke. 
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230 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



MIDDLE LIFE. 

OUCH is the burden of our thought concerning the middle 
age : Experience without worldliness ; equanimity without 
indifference ; progress without instability. 

S. Osgood. 



EXPECTATION. 

QUE looked from out the window 
^ With long and asking gaze, 
From the gold-clear light of morning 

To the twilight's purple haze. 
Cold and pale the planets shone, 
Still the girl kept gazing on. 
From her white and weary forehead 

Droopeth the dark hair, 
Heavy with the dews of evening, 

Heavier with her care; 
Falling as the shadows fall 
Till flung round her like a pall. 

When from the carved lattice 

First she leant to look, 
Her bright face was written 

Like some pleasant book, 
Her warm cheek the red air quaffed, 
And her eyes looked out and laughed. 
She is leaning back now languid, 

And her cheek is white; 
Only on the drooping eyelash 

Glistens tearful light; 



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Color, sunshine hours are gone, 
Yet the maiden watches on. 

Human heart, this history 

Is thy faded lot; 
Even such thy watching 

For what cometh not, 
Till with anxious waiting dull, 
Round thee fades the beautiful. 
Still thou seekest on, though weary, 

Seeking still in vain; 
Daylight deepens into twilight, 

What has been thy gain ? 
Death and night are closing round 
All that thou hast sought, unfound. 

L. E. Landor, 



TV\ die for what we love ! Oh ! there is power 

In the true heart, and strength and joy for this: 
It is to live without the vanished light 
That strength is needed! 



IT MIGHT HAVE BEEN. 
God pity us all 



Who vainly the dreams of youth recall, 

For of all sad words of tongue or pen, 
The saddest are these : " It might have been !" 

Ah well ! for us all some sweet hope lies 
Deeply buried from human eyes, 



232 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

And, in the hereafter, angels may 
Roll the stone from its grave away 



J. G. Whittier. 



THE UNLOVED. 

fPHE great mystery of God's providence is the permitted 
crushing out of flowering instincts. Life is maintained by 
the respiration of oxygen and of sentiments. In the long 
catalogue of scientific cruelties, there is hardly anything quite 
so painful to think of as that experiment of putting an animal 
under the bell of an air-pump, and exhausting the air from it. 
[I never saw the accursed trick performed. Laus Deo !] 
There comes a time when the souls of human beings, women 
more even than men, begin to faint for the atmosphere of the 
affections they were made to breathe. Then it is that society 
places its transparent bell-glass over the young woman who is 
to be the subject of one of its fatal experiments. The element 
by which only the heart lives is sucked out of her crystalline 
prison. Watch her through its transparent walls ; her bosom 
is heaving, but it is in a vacuum. Death is no riddle, com- 
pared to this. I remember a poor girl's story in the " Book 
of Martyrs." The " dry pan and the gradual fire" were the 
images that frightened her most. How many have withered 
and wasted under as slow a torment in the walls of that larger 
inquisition which we call civilization ! 

For that great procession of the unloved, who not only wear 
the crown of thorns, but must hide it under the locks of brown 
or gray, under the snowy cap, under the chilling turban ; hide 
it even from themselves; perhaps never know they wear it, 
though it kills them ; there is no depth of tenderness in my 
nature that pity has not sounded. Somewhere, somewhere 
love is in store for them; the universe must not be allowed to 



SINGLE LIFE. 233 

fool them so cruelly. What infinite pathos in the small, half- 
unconscious artifices by which unattractive young persons seek 
to recommend themselves to the favor of those towards whom 
our dear sisters, the unloved, like the rest, are impelled by 
God-given instincts ! 

O. W. Holmes. 



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FROM ENDYMION. 

one is so accursed by fate, 
No one so utterly desolate, 

But some heart, though unknown, 
Responds unto his own. 



Responds, as if with unseen wings, 
A breath from heaven had touched its strings; 
And whispers, in its song, 
"Where hast thou stayed so long?" 

H. W. Longfellow. 



REFLECTED HAPPINESS. 

DO not know when I have been better pleased than at 
■^ being invited last week to be present at the wedding of a 
friend's daughter. I like to make one at these ceremonies, 
and am sure to be in good humor for a week or two after, and 
enjoy a reflected honey-moon. Being without a family, I am 
flattered with these temporary adoptions into a friend's family; 
I feel a sort of cousinship or uncleship for the season ; I am 
inducted into degrees of affinity; and, in the participated 
socialities of the little community, I lay down for a brief whilo 
my solitory bachelorship. I carry this humor so far, that I 
take it unkindly to be left out, even when a funeral is going 
on in the house of a dear friend. 

Charles Lamb 
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234 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



From •• Much Ado About Nothing" — Act ii., Scene i. • 

Leonato. — Well, niece, I hope to see you one day fitted 
with a husband. 

Beatrice. — Not till God make men of some other metal 
than earth. Would it not gfieve a woman to be overmastered 
with a piece of valiant dust ? to make an account of her life 
to a clod of wayward marl ? No, uncle, I'll none. Lord, I 
could not endure a husband with a beard on his face. 

Leonato. — You may light upon a husband that hath no 
beard. 

Beatrice. — What should I do with him ? He that hath 
a beard is more than a youth ; and he that hath no beard is 
less than a man ; and he that is more than a youth is not for 
me; and he that is less than a man, I am not for him. There- 
fore, I will even take sixpence in earnest of the beard-herd, 
and lead his apes into hell. 

Leonato. — Well, then, go you into hell ? 

Beatrice. — No ; but to the gate ; and there will the devil 
meet me, and say, Get you to heaven, Beatrice, get you to 
heaven; here's no place for you maids ; so deliver I up my 
apes, and away to Saint Peter for the heavens; he shows me 
where the bachelors sit, and there live we as merry as the day 
is long. 

Shakespeare 



"AS grandmamma says, be in no hurry, deary; if you get a 
good husband at last, ye'll not have waited too long; 
and if ye get a bad one, ye'll wish you'd waited longer." 



SINGLE LIFE. 235 



BACHELOR'S TARE. 

"T7UNNY and free are a bachelor's reveries, 

Cheerily, merrily passes his life, 
Nothing knows he of connubial devilries, 

Troublesome children and clamorous wife. 
Free from satiety, care and anxiety, 

Charms in variety fall to his share; 
Bacchus's blisses, and Venus's kisses, 

This, bovs, this is the Bachelor's Fare. 

A wife, like a canister, chattering, clattering, 

Tied to a dog, for his torment and dread, 
All bespattering, bumping and battering, 

Hurries and worries him till he is dead. 
Old ones are two devils, haunted with blue devils, 

Young ones are new devils raising despair: 
Doctors and nurses combining their curses, 

Adieu to full purses and Bachelor's Fare. 

Through such folly, days, once sweet holidays, 

Soon are embittered by wrangling and strife; 
Wives turn jolly days to melancholy days, 

All perplexing and vexing one's life; 
Children are riotous, maid-servants fly at us, 

Mammy to quiet us growls like a bear; 
Polly is squalling, and Molly is bawling, 

While dad is recalling his Bachelor's Fare. 

When they are older grown, then they are bolder grown, 
Turning your temper, and spurning your rule; 

Girls through foolishness, passion or mulishness, 
Parry your wishes, and marry a fool. 



236 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Boys will anticipate, lavish and dissipate, 
All that your busy pate hoarded with care; 

Then tell ine what jollity, fun or frivolity, 
Equals in quality Bachelor's Fare ! 



Horace Srm*h. 



OUR IDEALS. 

"TT had been the ambition of Mademoiselle Baptistine to be 
able to buy a parlor lounge, with cushion of Utrecht velvet 
roses, on a yellow ground, while the mahogany should be in 
the form of swan's necks. But this would have cost at least 
five hundred francs; and, as she had been able to save only 
forty-two francs and two sous, for the purpose, in five years, 
she had finally given it up. Bat who ever does attain to Ms 
Ideal ? 

Victor Hugo. 



EXACTIONS OE MAKKIED PEOPLE. 

TT7HEN you have once shown yourself too considerate and 
self-denying to add a family of your own to an already 
crowded population, you are vindictively marked out by your 
married friends, who have no similar consideration, and no 
similar self-denial, as the recipient of half their conjugal 
troubles, and the born friend of all their children. Husbands 
and wives talk of the cares of matrimony, and bachelors and 
spinsters hear them ! 

Wilkie Colins 



SINGLE LIFE. 237 



A BACHELOR'S IGNORANCE. 

" TT 70 MEN have seven reasons always for everything they 
do." " What Jo you know by any possibility about 
women ? you, who are bachelor bachelorum ? I tell you, sir, 
that until you marry, you are in utter darkness; darkness — 
ind desolation V 

Mansfield. 



A BACHELOR'S QUESTION. 
Donne, donne, eterni Dei chi v'arriva a indovinar ? 

Ruffini, 



Whoever is free from wrangling is a bachelor. 



St, Jerome. 



SONG OE ANTICIPATION. 

f\ DEAR, Fm beginning to tremble, 
■ Only think of what people would say, 

If I should not chance to get married ! 
Let me see — I am twenty next May. 

Why, I can remember the time, 

When twenty I thought an old maid! 

But I yet shall encounter the time, 

When I think it's quite young, I'm afraid ! 

For myself, I don't think I should mind, 

I could live very happy alone, 
But people so laugh at old maids, 

And I don't like a laugh, I must own. 



238 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

And to have a whole volley of aunts, 

And cousins, insulting my car, 
With, " I wonder you are not engaged, 

At your age I was married, my dear V* 

Now, what is more teazing than this, 
'Tis worse than the creak of a door, 

I'd wed the first fool that came stalking alonf. 
If I need not hear this any more ! 

But to folly and wisdom I'll give, 

A brief sketch of my person and life, 
" Verbum sat" take my word for it, I 
Should make a most excellent wife! 

My eyes rather border on green, 

My figure is not very tall, 
But I dress in extreme of the style, 

And that you know makes up for all ! 

My face's not so broad as the moon's, 
My foot's very well when it's hid; 

I don't call myself ugly, I'm sure; 
Was there ever a maiden that did? 

I never but once was in love; 

The years since it happened are three; 
But my pride made me act like a prude, 

And my chosen one would not choose me' 

When tired of loving, unloved, 

I thought the best thing was to die, 

So I wore a long face a long while, 
And never would speak sans a sigh ! 



SINGLE LIFE. 239 

But my health was remarkably good, 
And all I could do 'twould not fail; 

Not a friend would confess I looked thin, 
And I could not contrive to look pale I 

When cut both by love and by death, 

I began to be rude as a bear; 
Full of frolics, and capers, and fun, 

To make matter-of-fact people stare! 

Now to folly and wisdom Fve given 
A sketch of my person and life; 
"Verbum sat," take my word for it, I 
Should make a most excellent wife! 

But if "nobody's coming to marry, 

Nobody coming to woo," 
Til flourish a cheery old maiden, 

And laugh with the laughers too! 

My face shall be full of sunshine, 

My spirit a "house of glee," 
My heart full of loving-kindness, 

Though nobody marry me! 

Elizabeth Austin. 



KIZZY KKINGLE. 

r AM an old maid. Perhaps I might have been married. 
^- Perhaps not. I don't know as that is anybody's business. 
I have a little room I call my own. Old maids like to have a 
good time as well as other folks; so I don't shut myself 
moping in my little salt-box of a room. When the four walls 



240 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

close too tight around me, there are four or five families where 
I go visiting. Everybody is glad to see me. If the baby has 
the colic, I tend it; if Willie wants a new tail to his kite, I 
make it; if Lottie has torn her best frock, I mend it; and if 
papa comes slily up to me, and slips a dickey into my hand, I 
sew the missing string on, and say nothing. I have lately 
made the acquaintance of a new family, who have a whole 
house-full of children — not one too many, according to my 
way of thinking. Louisas and Marys, and Lauras and Annas, 
and Frankies and Harries, beside a little baby that its mother 
has not had time to name. I love to watch little children. 1 
love to hear them talk, when they don't think I am listening. 
I love to read to them, and watch their eyes sparkle. They 
are oftener much pleasanter company than grown people; at 
least, so Kizzy thinks. But that is only an old maid's 
opinion. 

Fanny Fern. 



THE FORSAKEN. 

LEANT my back against an aik, 
Methought it was a trusty tree; 
But first it bowed, and then it brak; 
So my true-love did lichtly me ! 

waly, waly, love is bonny, 
A little time while it is new, 

But when it's auld, it waxeth cauld, 
And fades away like morning dew. 

Oh, wherefor should I busk my head? 

Oh, wherefor should I kame my hair ? 
Sin' my true-love has me forsook, 

And says he'll never luve me mair! 



SINGLE LIFE. 241 

But had I wist before this day, 

That luve had been sae ill to win, 
I had locked my heart in a case o' gowd, 

And pinned it with a siller pin ! 

Auld Sang 



THE WOUNDED HEART. 

O WEET, thou hast trod on a heart. 

Pass ! there's a world full of men ; 
And women as fair as thou art 

Must do such things now and then. 

Thou only hast stepped unaware, — 

Malice no one can impute; 
And why should a heart have been there, 

In the way of a fair woman's foot? 

It was not a stone that could trip, 
Not was it a thorn that could rend; 

Put up thy proud under-lip! 

'Twas merely the heart of a friend. 

And yet, peradventure, one day 
Thou, sitting alone at the glass, 

Remarking the bloom gone away, 

Where the smile in its dimplement was, 

And seeking around thee in vain 
From hundreds who flattered before. 

Such a word as, " Oh, not in the main 
Do I hold thee less precious, but more !" 
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242 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Thou'lt sigh, very like, on thy part, 
" Of all I have known or can know, 

I wish I had only that heart 
I trod upon ages ago!" 



E. B Browning. 



The first rule to insure happiness is to forget one's self. 



rpHE disenchanted earth to me had no lustre to lose; but I 
-*~ remembered that others continued to see it in the rainbow 
lines of varied bliss. 



rPIS better to have loved and lost 
-*- Than never to have loved at all. 

In Memoriam, xxvil, 



HHALK not of wasted affection ; affection never was wasted ; 
If it enrich not the heart of another, its waters returning 
Back to their springs, like the rain, shall fill them full of 

refreshment. 
That which the fountain sends forth returns again to the 

fountain. 

From Evangeline— Part ii. 

XT7HY should we faint, and fear to live alone, 
' * Since all alone, so Heaven has willed, we die ; 
Not even the tenderest heart, and next our own, 
Knows half the reason why we smile or sigh ! 



SINGLE LIFE. 243 

Each in its hidden sphere of joy or woe 

Our hermit spirits dwell, and range apart; 
Our eyes are all around, in gloom or glow, 



Hues of their own, fresh borrowed from the heart. 



Keble. 



A PICTURE. 

A CHEERFUL, contented, benevolent and popular lady, 
seldom behind the fashion, or behind the news and litera- 
ture of the day, beloved by nephews and nieces, married 
brothers, sisters, and cousins ; a tower of strength in times of 
sickness and family troubles ; a favorite visitor, yet not always 
visiting, nor staying too long; sometimes on the contrary, 
having a snug little home of her own, where pet nephews and 
nieces spend a few days most delightfully; a guardian angel 
to the poor ; a valuable auxiliary to the clergyman and clergy- 
man's wife; in high esteem and respect among the trades- 
people, a famous letter-writer, and fabricator of most delightful 
fancy work. Aunt Kate, Aunt Lucy, Aunt Susan, and a host 
of aunts, who have been pretty young women in their time, 
and who now have " something than beauty dearer." They 
are the salt of the country, and greatly do they contribute to 
the support of the social affections. 

Eclectic Review. 



BUT after all, peradventure, it is sweeter to love, than to be 
loved. 



244 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



NOT A MISTAKE. 

AUR neighbor over the way, passes for a woman who has 
failed in her career, because she is an old maid. People 
wag solemn heads of pity, and say that she made so great a 
mistake in not marrying the brilliant and famous man who 
was for long years her suitor. It is clear that no orange flower 
will ever bloom for her. The young people think of her soli- 
tary hours of bitter regret, and please their imaginations with 
fancying her hard struggle with the conviction that she has 
lost all that makes life beautiful. But this old maid who is 
thus pitied for a secret sorrow, is a woman whose nature is a 
tropic, in which the sun shines, the birds sing, the flowers 
bloom forever. There are no regrets, no doubts and half 
wishes, but a calm sweetness, a transparent peace. I saw her 
blush when her old lover passed by, or paused to speak to her, 
but it was only the sign of delicate feminine consciousness. 
She knew his love, and honored it, although she could not 
understand it, nor return it. Although all the world had 
exclaimed at her indifference to such homage, and had declared 
it was astonishing she should lose so fine a match, she would 
only say simply and quietly, " If the highest Ideal of manly 
nobleness, intellect, and worth, loved me, and I did not love, 
how could I marry V 

G. W. Ctirtit. 



JEAN PAUL'S QUESTIONS. 

TTOW, my girls, is your heart so little worth that you cut it, 
**- -*- like old clothes, after any fashion, to fit any breast ? and 
does it wax or . shrink, then, like a Chinese ball, to fit itself 
into the ball-mould and marriage ring-case of any male heart 
whatever ? 



SINGLE LIFE. 245 

HHHEY are never alone who are accompanied with noble 



LLLUUgULS. 

Sir Philip Sydney. 



thoughts. 



One can always stoop, and pick up nothing. 

Old Proverb. 



X^ET to say truth, she is never alone, but is still accompanied 
with old songs, honest thoughts and prayers, but short 
ones. 

Sir Thomas Overbury. 



To rejoice in the prosperity of another is to partake of it. 

William Austin. 



OLD MAIDS. 

/"\LD maids, old maids, I love old maids, though snarling 

cynics say, 
That wrinkles, spleen, and coquetry have claimed them for 

their prey; 
When scribbling rhymers rail at them and show self-lack of 

sense, 
Shame on the bard that would not raise a pen in their defence ! 

In youth, when woman's opening charms attract the gazer's 

eye, 
And woman's snowy bosom heaves with passion's tender sigh ) 
How oft the bright pure fountain of her rich affection flowing. 
Is like a sea-ward streamlet to waste and ruin going ! 
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246 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Some fop, perchance, hath trifled with the heart he could not 

prize, 
Or cold beneath the churchyard turf a blighted lover lies, 
And maiden truth and constancy enshrined within her breast, 
Are made the poetaster's theme to point a stupid jest ! 

Her life in deeds of charity and kindness glides away, 
And often wedlock's saddened victims are by her m&de gay; 
The wife that's left to pine or die in solitude or grief, 
Oft turns to maiden tenderness for solace and relief. 

Then tell us not of married dames excelling single ladies; 
This matrimony now-a-days with most a scheming trade is, 
To " multiply by two," oft means to multiply with nought, 
And fortune-seeking man and wife are often sadly caught. 
They are some nuisances surpassing bachelors or maids, 
Viz. : noosed and rhyming Benedicts who once were roaring 

blades ; 
Who, like the fabled fox that lost his tail, would recommend 
Their own sad plight to each unfettered male and female friend. 

United States Gazette. 



SONG Or CASSANDRA. 

rpHEY say, "'Tis time, go, marry, go!" 

But I will have no husband; no! 
I'd rather live serene and still 
Upon a solitary hill, 
Than bend me to a husband's will; 
No ! I will have no husband ; no ! 

So, mother, think not I shall wed, 
And through a tiresome life be led; 




SOLILOQUY OF A BACHELOR. 



Page 247. 



SINGLE LIFE. 247 

The man has not been born, I ween, 

Who as my husband shall be seen; 

For I will live all carelessly, 

And never ask, nor anxious be, 

Of wedded weal or woe; 

In vain you say, " Go, marry, go I" 

For I will have no husband; no! 

From a Dramatic Eclogue, ky Gil Vicente. 







NE thing thou must not long for, if thou love a life serene 
A woman for thy wife, though she were a crowned queen. 

From the Persian. 



SOLILOQUY Or A BACKLLOK. 

I" DO much wonder that one man, seeing how much another 
man is a fool when he dedicates his behaviours to love, will 
become the argument of his own scorn by falling in love. One 
woman is fair, yet I am well ; another is wise, yet I am rcp.U ; 
another virtuous, yet I am well ; but till all graces be in q**q 
woman, one woman shall not come in my grace ! 

Shakespeare. 



The tree 
Sucks kindlier nature from a soil enriched 
By its own fallen leaves; and man is made 
In heart and spirit from deciduous hopes 
And things that seem to perish. 

Henry Taylor 



248 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

C\R ! shallow and mean heart ! dost thou conceive so little of 
love as not to know that it sacrifices all — love itself- — for the 
happiness of the one it loves ? 



TTER lot is on you — to be found untired 

-*-*- Watching the stars out by the bed of pain; 

With a pale cheek, and yet a brow inspired, 

And a true heart of hope, though hope be in vain, 
Meekly to bear with wrong, to cheer decay, 
And oh ! to love through all things — therefore pray. 

Felicia Hermans. 



A REMONSTRANCE, 

Addressed to a Friend who complained of being Alone in the World, 

f\B. ! say not thou art all alone 

^ Upon this wide, cold-hearted earth; 

Sigh not o'er joys forever flown — 

The vacant chair, the silent hearth; 
Why should the world's unholy mirth 

Upon thy quiet dreams intrude, 
To scare those shapes of heavenly birth 

That people oft thy solitude? 

Though many a fervent hope of youth 
Hath passed and scarcely left a trace; 

Though earth-born love, its tears and truth, 
No longer in thy heart have place; 



SINGLE LIFE. 249 

Nor time, nor grief, can e'er efface 

The brighter hopes that now are thine — 

The fadeless love, all pitying grace, 
That makes thy darkest hours divine! 

Not all alone; for thou canst hold 

Communion sweet with saint and sage, 
And gather gems of price untold 

From many a pure unsullied page — 
Youth's dreams, the golden lights of age, 

The poet's love are still thine own; 
For while such themes thy thoughts engage, 

Oh! how canst thou be all alone! 

Not all alone; the lark's rich note, 
As mounting up to heaven she sings; 

The thousand silvery sounds that float 
Above, below, on morning's wings; 

The softer murmurs twilight brings — 
The cricket's chirp, cicala's glee; 

All earth — that lyre of myriad strings- 
Is jubilant with life for thee! 

Not all alone! the whispering trees, 

The rippling brook, the starry sky, 
Have each peculiar harmonies — 

To soothe, subdue, and sanctify; 
The low, sweet breath of evening's sigh 

For thee hath oft a friendly tone, 
To lift thy grateful thoughts on high, 

To say, thou art not all alone ! 

Not all alone; a watchful eye 

That notes the wandering sparrow's fall; 



250 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

A saving hand is ever nigh, 

A gracious Power attends thy call, 

When sadness holds thy heart in thrall, 
Is oft his tenderest mercy shown; 

Seek then the balm vouchsafed to all, 
And thou canst never be alone! 

Alaric A. Watts. 



OLD AGE. 



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OLD AGE. 



AULD AGE. 

A Treaty. 



TS that Auld Age that's tirling at tlie pin ? 
•^ I trow it is — then haste to let him in ; 
Ye're kindly welcome, friend; na, dinna fear, 
To show yourself, ye'll cause nae trouble here. 
I ken there are who tremble at your name, 
As tho' ye bro't wi' ye reproach or shame ; 
And wha, o' thousand lies wad bear the sin 
Rather than own ye for their kith and kin; 
But far frae shirking ye as a disgrace 
Thankful I am to have lived to see your face; 
Nor sail I e'er disown ye, nor tak pride 
To think how long I might your visit bide ; 
Doing my best to mak ye weel respecked, 
I'll no for your sake fear to be neglecked ; 
But now ye're come, and through all kinds of weather ; 
We're doomed from this time forth, to jog thegither; 
I'd fain mak compact wi' ye, firm and strong, 
In terms of fair giff-gaff to hold out long; 
Gin thou'lt be civil, I sail liberal be, 
Witness the lang lang list o' what I'll gie — 
First then, I here make owre for gude and ay, 
All youthful fancies whether bright or gay ; 
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254 3I0SAICS OF LIFE. 

Beauties and graces, too, I wad resign them, 

But, sair, I fear 't would cost you fash to find them ; 

For 'gainst your Daddy Time they could not stand, 

Nor bear the grip o' his onsonsy hand ; 

But there's my skin which ye may further crinkle, 

And write your name at length in iika wrinkle ; 

On my brown locks you've leave to lay your paw, 

And bleach them to your fancy, white as snaw ; 

But look na, Age, sae wistful at my mouth, 

As gin ye langed to pull out ilka tooth ! 

Let them, I do beseech, still keep their places, 

Tho' gin ye wish't ye're free to paint their faces, 

My limbs I yield ye, and if ye see meet, 

Your icy shackles fasten on my feet. 

Sae muckle wad I gie wi' right good will, 

But och ! I fear, that mair ye look for still. 

I ken by that fell glare, and meaning shrug, 

Ye'd clap your skinny fingers on each lug ; 

And unco fain ye are, I trow, and keen, 

To cast your misty powders in my 'een. 

But 0, in mercy, spare my poor wee twinkers, 

And I for aye sail wear your crystal blinkers, 

Then 'bout my lugs I'd fain a bargain mak, 

And gie my hand that I sail ne'er draw back. 

Weel, then, wad ye consent their use to share, 

Thus I wad ha't — When babbling fools intrude, 

Gabbling their noisy nonsense, long and loud ; 

Or when ill-nature weel brushed up by wit — 

Wi* sneer sarcastic takes its aim to hit; 

Or when detraction, meanest slave o' pride, 

Spies out wee faults, and seeks great worth to hide, 

Then mak me deaf, as deaf as deaf can be, 

At all sic times I lend my lugs to thee. 



OLD AGE. 255 



But when in social hour ye see combined, 

Genius and wisdom, fruits of heart and mind, 

Good sense, good humor, wit in playful mood, 

And candor e'en from ill, extracting good ; 

then, auld friend, I must hae back my hearing, 

To want it then wad be an ill past bearing. 

Better to lonely sit in the douf spence, 

Than catch the sough o' words without the sense ; 

Ye winna promise ? Och, ye're unko dour, 

Sae ill to manage, and sae cauld and sour ; 

Nae matter, hail and sound I'll keep my heart, 

Nor frae a crum o't sail I ever part — 

Its kindly warmth will ne'er be chilled by a' 

The cauldest breath your frozen lips can blaw, 

Ye needna fash your thumb, auld carl, nor fret, 

For there affection shall preserve its seat; 

And tho' to tak my hearing ye rejoice, 

Yet spite o' you, I'll still hear friendship's voice. 

Thus, tho' ye tak the rest, it sha' na grieve me, 

For ae blythe spark o' spirits ye maun leave me, 

And let me tell ye in your lug, Auld Age, 

I'm bound to travel wi' ye, but ae stage — 

Be't lang or short, ye canna keep me back, 

And when we reach the end o't, ye maun pack, 

For there we part forever, late or air 

Another guess companion meets me there, 

To whom ye, will ye, nill ye, maun me bring, 

Nor think that I'll be wae, or laith to spring 

Frae your poor dosened side, ye carl uncouth, 

To the blest arms of everlasting youth. 

By him, whate'er ye've rifled, stolen, or ta'en, 

Will a' be given wi' interest back again, 

Fraught by all gifts and graces, thousands moe, 

Than hearts can think of, freely he'll bestow ; 



256 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Ye need na wonder then, nor swell wi' pride, 

Because I kindly welcome ye as guide ; 

To ane far, far your better — Now a's tauld, 

Let us set out upon our journey cauld ; 

Wi' nae vain boasts, nor vain regrets tormented, 

We'll e'en jog on the gate, calm and contented. 

Elizabeth Hamilton. 



GOLDEN WOKDS. 

"DUT now let me tell you this. If the time comes when you 
-^ must lay down the fiddle and the bow, because your fingers 
are too stiff, and drop ten foot sculls because your arms are too 
weak, and after dallying awhile with eye-glasses, come at last 
to the undisguised reality of spectacles; if the time comes 
when that fire of life we spoke of has burned so low, that 
where its flames reverberated, there is only the sombre stain 
of regret, and where its coals glowed, only the white ashes 
that cover the embers of memory — don't let your heart grow 
cold, and you may carry cheerfulness and love with you into 
the teens of your second century, if you can last so long. 

O. W. Holmes. 



THE FLIGHT OF YOUTH. 

T)OW your heads very low, 

Solemn, measured be your paces, 
Gathered up in grief your faces, 

Sing sad music as ye go; 
In disordered handfuls strew 
Strips of cypress, sprigs of rue; 



OLD AGE. 257 

In your hands be borne the bloom, 

Whose long petals once and only 
Look from their pale-leaved tomb 

In the darkness lonely. 
Let the nightshade's beaded coral 
Fall in melancholy moral 
Your wan brows around, 

While in very scorn ye fling 
The amaranth upon the ground 

As an unbelieved thing. 
What care we for its fair tale 
Of beauties that can never fail, 

Glories that can never wane? 
No such blooms are on the track 
He has past, who will come back 

Never again ! 
Alas ! we know not how he went, 

We knew not he was going, 
For had our tears once found a vent, 

We had stayed him with their flowing. 
It was as an earthquake, when 

We awoke and found him gone, 
We were miserable men; 

We were hopeless, every one! 
Yes, he must have gone away 
In his guise of every day, 
In his common dress, the same 
Perfect face and perfect frame; 
For in feature, for in limb, 
Who could be compared to him? 
Firm his step, as one who knows 
He is free where'er he goes, 
And withal as light of spring 
As the arrow from the string; 
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258 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

His impassioned eye had got 
Fire which the sun has not; 
Silk to feel, and gold to see, 
Fell his tresses full and free, 
Like the morning mists that glide 
Soft adown the mountain's side. 
Most delicious 'twas to hear 
When his voice was trilling clear, 
As a silver-hearted bell, 
Or to follow its low swell, 
When, as dreamy winds that stray 

Fainting 'mid JEoliaD chords, 
Inner music seemed to play 

Symphony to all his words; 
In his hand was poised a spear, 
Deftly poised, as to appear 
Resting of its proper will. 
Thus a merry hunter still, 
And engarlanded with bay, 
Must our youth have gone away; 
Though we half remember now 

He had borne some little while 

Something mournful in his smile, 
Something serious on his brow. 
Think with him how gay of yore 

We made sunshine out of shade ; 
Think with him how light we bore 

All the burden sorrow laid; 
All went happily about him — 
How shall we toil on without him ? 
How, without his cheering eye, 

Constant strength embreathing ever? 
How, without him standing by, 

Aiding every hard endeavor? 



OLD AG' J J. 259 

For when faintness or disease 
Had usurped upon our knees, 
If he designed our lips to kiss 
With those loving lips of his, 
We were lightened of our pain, 
We were up and hale again. 
Oh ! if love, the sister dear 

Of youth that we have lost, 
Come not in swift pity here, 

Come not with a host 
Of affections, strong and kind, 
To hold up our sinking mind; 
If ^he will not of her grace 
Take her brother's holy place, 
And be to us, at least a part, 
Of what he was, in life and heart; 
The faintness that is on our breath 
Can have no other end but death. 

Richard Monckton Mines. 



THE LAST LEAP. 

SAW him once before, 
■^ As he passed by the door, 

And again 
The pavement stones resound 
As he totters o'er the ground 
With his cane. 

They say that in his prime, 
Ere the pruning-knife of Time 

Cut him down, 
Not a better man was found 
By the crier on his round 

Through the town. 



2(30 310&11CS OF LIFE. 

But now he walks the streets, 
And he looks at all he meets 

Sad and wan, 
And he shakes his feeble head, 
That it seems as if he said, 

" They are gone. ,, 

The mossy marbles rest 

On the lips that he has prest 

In their bloom, 
And the names he loved to hear 
Have been carved for many a year 

On the tomb. 

My grandmamma baa said — 

Poor old lady, she is dead 

Long ago — 
That he had a Roman nose, 
And his cheek was like a rose 

In the snow; 

But now his nose is thin, 
And it rests upon his chin 

Like a staff, 
And a crook is in his back, 
And a melancholy crack 

In his laugh. 

I know it is a sin 
For me to sit and grin 

At him here; 
But the old three-cornered hat. 
And the breeches, and all that, 

Are so queer 1 



OLD AGE. 

And if I should live to be 
The last leaf upon the tree 

In the spring; 
Let them smile, as I do now, 
At the old forsaken bough 

Where I cling. 



201 



O. W. Holmet. 



SONG. 

OH ! for the days when I was young ! 
When I thought that I should ne'er be old, 
When the songs came a bubbling off my tongue, 
And the girl that heard the ballad I sung 

Never thought if my pocket held copper or gold ; 
Oh! for the days when I was young! 

And yet in the days when I was young, 
In the days that now I remember well, 

Hot words like sparks around I flung, 

And snatching at honey I often was stung, 
And what I have lost it's hard to tell; 

So I would rather be old than young! 

John Sterling, 



FIND myself often moralizing on the present fast age, and 
sio-hin^ over the " good old times." Well, let me be 
grateful that the threads of my life have been woven into so 
full a web, and mingled in so many fair colors; and let my 
prayer be, that I may not say with Hood : 

" It gives me little joy 
To think I'm farther off from heaven 
Than when I was a hoy." 



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262 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

But rather that I may make some approaches to that blest 
abode — 

"And nightly pitch my roving tent 
A day's march nearer home." 



H^IIE soul's dark cottage, battered and decayed, 

"*■ Lets in new light through chinks that time has made; 

Stronger by weakness, wiser men become, 

As they draw near to their eternal home; 

Leaving the old, both worlds at once they view, 

That stand upon the threshold of the new. 

From " Divine Poems," written by Edmund Waller at 82. 



JOYS OF OLD AGE. 

T)EOPLE place age and youth opposite to each other, as the 
light and shade in the day of life. But has not every day, 
every age, its own youth, its own new attractive life, if one 
only sets about rightly to enjoy them. Yes, the aged man, 
who has collected together pure recollections for his evening 
companions, is manifold happier than the youth who, with a 
restless heart, stands only at the beginning of his journey. 
No passions disturb the evening meal of the other; no restless 
endeavors disturb the cheerful gossip of the evening twilight; 
all the little comforts of life are then so thoroughly enjoyed; 
and we can then with more confidence cast all our cares and 
anxieties on God. We have then proved him ! 

Frederika Bremer. 



Tj^N viellissant, elle avait gagne ce qu'on pourrait appeler la 
beaute de la bonte. 

Victor Hugo. 



OLD AGE. 268 



BOYS AND GIRLS FOREVER. 

TTEAVEN be thanked for the young old boys and the young 
"*■ old girls — boys and girls forever — who, even when the 
evening of life is falling around them, interchange the BWeet 
caresses that call back the days of courtship and early marriage! 

Dr. J. G. Holland. 



/CHILDHOOD itself is scarcely more lovely than a cheerful 
kind, sunshiny old age. 

L. M, Child. 



ONE GOOD OLD MAN. 

T THINK that to have known one good old man — one man, 

who, through the chances and mischances of a long life, 

has carried his heart in his hand, like a palm-branch, waving 

all discords into peace, helps our faith in God, in ourselves, 

and in each other, more than many sermons. 

G. W. Curtis. 



BEAUTY OE AGE. 

A Picture. 

T) Y her side sat a woman with a bright tin pan in her lap, 
-^ into which she was sorting some dried peaches. Sha 
might be fifty-five or sixty ; but hers was one of those faces 
that time seems to touch only to brighten and adorn. Her 
face was round and rosy, with a healthful downy softness, sug- 
gestive of a ripe peach. Her hair, partially silvered by age, 



264 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

was parted smoothly back from a high placid forehead, on 
which time had written no inscription, except peace on earth, 
good-will to men, and beneath shone a large pair of clear, 
honest, loving brown eyes ; you only needed to look straight 
into them, to feel that you saw to the bottom of a heart as 
good and true as ever throbbed in woman's bosom. So much 
has been said and sung of beautiful young girls, why don't 
somebody wake up to the beauty of old women ? 

Mrs. H. B. Stowe. 



A HUMAN heart can never grow old, if it takes a lively 

interest in the pairing of birds, the reproduction of 

flowers, and the changing tints of autumn leaves. 



L. M. Child. 



rpHROW yourself upon Nature every year, site is ever new, 
■^ and you will thus be ever young. 



The Poet, like Apollo, his Father, is forever a youth. 

Jean Paul. 



To live in hearts we leave behind, is not to die. 

Thomas Campbell. 



TTAVE you seen, my reader, the face that had grown old in 
•*-*- life grow young after death? the expression of many 
years since, lost for long, come out startlingly in the features, 



OLD AGE. 265 

fixed and cold ? Every one has seen it ; and it is sometimes 
strange how rapidly the change takes place. It is a beautiful 
sight to see the young look come back on the departed Chris- 
tian's face. Gone, it seems to say, where the progress of time 
shall no longer bring age or decay. Gone where there are 
beings whose life may be reckoned by centuries, but to whom 
life is fresh and young, and always will be so. Close the aged 
eyes ! Fold the aged hands in rest. Their owner is no longer 
old! 

Boyd. 



TT7E grizzle every day. I see no need of it. Whilst we 
converse with what is above us, we do not grow old, but 
grow young. 

R. W. Emerson. 



T IFE is but Thought, so think I will 
■^ That Youth and I are housemates still. 

S. T. Coleridge. 



THE HOUSE IN THE MEADOW. 

TT stands in a sunny meadow, 
-*- The house so mossy and brown, 
With its cumbrous old stone chimneys, 
And the gray roof sloping down. 

. The trees fold their green arms round it; 
The trees a century old; 
And the winds go chanting through them, 
And the sunbeams drop their gold. 
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MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



The cowslips spring iri the marshes, 

The roses bloom on the hill, 
And beside the brook in the pasture 

The herd go feeding at will. 

Within, in the wide old kitchen, 

The old folks sit in the sun 
That creeps through the sheltering woodbine, 

Till the day is almost done. 

Their children have gone and left them; 

They sit in the sun alone ! 
And the old wife's ears are failing, 

As she harks to the well-known tone 

That won her heart in her girlhood — 
That has soothed her in many a care — 

And praises her now for the brightness 
Her old face used to wear. 

She thinks again of her bridal — 
How, dressed in her robe of white, 

She stood by the gay young lover, 
In the morning's rosy light. 

Oh! the morning is rosy as ever, 
But the rose from her cheek is fled; 

And the sunshine still is golden, 
But it falls on a silvered head. 



And the girlhood dreams once vanished, 
Come back in her winter time, 

Till her feeble pulses tremble 

With the thrill of Spring time's prime. 



OLD AGE. 2G7 

And looking forth from the window, 

She thinks how trees have grown, 
Since clad in her bridal whiteness, 

She crossed the old door stone. 

Though dimmed her eyes' bright azure, 
And dimmed her "hair's young gold/' 

The love in her girlhood plighted 
Has never grown dim or old. 



They sat in peace in the sunshine, 

Till the day was almost done, 
And then at its close, an angel 

Stole over the threshold stone. 

He folded their hands together; 

He touched their eyelids with balm, 
And their last breath floated outward, 

Like the close of a solemn psalm. 

Like a bridal pair they traversed 

The unseen, mystic road 
That leads to the Beautiful City, 
- Whose " builder and maker is God." 

Perhaps, in that miracle country, 
They will give her lost youth back, 

And the flowers of the vanished Spring-time 
Will bloom in the spirits' track. 

One draught from the living waters 
Shall call back his manhood's prime, 

And eternal years shall measure 
The love that outlasted time. 



268 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

But the shapes that they left behind them, 

The wrinkles and silver hair — 
Made holy to us by the kisses 

The angels hold printed there — 

We will hide away 'neath the willows, 
When the day is low in the West 

Where the sunbeams cannot find them, 
Nor the winds disturb their rest. 

And we'll suffer no tell-tale tombstone, 

With its age and date, to rise 
O'er the two who are old no longer, 

In the Father's house in the skies. 

Louise Chandler Moulton 



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De soir, fontaines, de matin montaignes. 



COMING -HOME. 

C\ BROTHERS and sisters, growing old, 
^ Do you all remember yet 
That home in the shade of the rustling trees, 
Where once our household met? 

Do you know how we used to come from school, 
Through the summer's pleasant heat, 

With the yellow fennel's golden dust 
On our tired little feet? 



OLD AGE. 269 

And sometimes in an idle mood 

We loitered by the way; 
And stopped in the woods to gather flowers, 

And in the fields to play; 

Till warned by the deep'ning shadows' fall 

That told of the coming night, 
We climbed to the top of the last long hill, 

And saw our home in sight? 

And, brothers and sisters, older now, 

Than she whose life is o'er, 
Do you think of the mother's loving face, 

That looked from the open door? 

Alas, for the changing things of time, 

That home in the dust is low; 
And that loving smile was hid from us, 

In the darkness, long ago ! 

And we have come to life's last hill, 

From which our weary eyes 
Can almost look on that home that shines 

Eternal in the skies. 

So, brothers and sisters, as we go, 

Still let us move as one, 
Always together keeping step, 

Till the march of life is done; 

For that mother, who waited for us here, 

Wearing a smile so sweet, 
Now waits on the hills of Paradise 



For her children's coming feet. 

Alice Cary. 



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270 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



THE PLEASURE VOYAGE. 

WISH I could as merry be 
As when I set out this world to see; 
Like a boat filled with good companie, 

On some gay voyage sent. 
There Youth spread forth the broad, white sail, 
Sure of fair weather and full gale, 
Confiding life would never fail, 
Nor time be ever spent. 

And Fancy whistled for the wind, 
And if ever Memory looked behind, 
'Twas but some friendly sight to find, 

And gladsome wave her hand. 
And Hope kept whispering in Youth's ear, 
To spread more sail and never fear, 
For the same sky would still be clear 

Until they reached the land. 

Health, too, and Strength, tugged at the oar, 
Mirth mocked the passing billow's roar, 
And Joy, with goblet running o'er, 

Drank draughts of deep delight; 
And Judgment at the helm they set — 
But Judgment was a child as yet, 
And lack-a-day ! was all unfit 

To guide the boat aright. 

Bubbles did half her thoughts employ; 
Hope she believed; she played with Joy, 
And Fancy bribed her with a toy 

To steer which way he chose; 



OLD AGE. 271 



But still they were a merry crew, 
And laughed at dangers as untrue, 
Till the dim sky tempestuous grew, 

And sobbing south winds rose. 



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Then Prudence told them all she feared, 
And Youth awhile his messmates cheered, 
Until at length he disappeared, 

Though none knew how he went. 
Joy hung his head, and Mirth grew dull, 
Health faltered, Strength refused to pull, 
And Memory, with her soft eyes full, 

Backward her glance still bent — 

To where upon the distant sea, 
Bursting the storm's dark canopy, 
Light from the sun none now could see, 

Still touched the whirling wave. 
And though Hope, gazing from the brow, 
Turns oft — she sees the shore — to vow, 
Judgment, grown older now, I trow, 

Is silent, stern, and grave. 

And though she steers with better skill, 
And makes her fellows do her will, 
Fear says, the storm is rising still, 

And day is almost spent. 
Oh ! that I could as merry be 
As when I set out this world to see; 
Like a boat filled with good companie, 

On some gay voyage bent. 



No wise man ever wished to be younger. 



G. P. R. James. 



Dean Swift, 



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MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



A PETITION TO TIME. 

HHOUCH us gently, Time! 

Let us glide ailown thy stream 
Gently, as we sometimes glide, 

Through a quiet dream ! 
Humble voyagers are we, 
Husband, wife, and children three ; 
(One is lost — an angel fled 
To the azure overheard.) 

Touch us gently, Time ! 

We've not proud nor soaring wings; 
Our ambition, our content, 

Lies in simple things. 
Humble voyagers are we, 
O'er life's dim unsounded sea, 
Seeking only some calm clime; 
Touch us gently, gentle Time! 

Bryan Walter Proctor. 



THE GOOD OLD FRIEND. 

"\/fY good old friend, " he tirled at the pin/ 

He opened the door and entered in; 
We were all glad to see his face, 
As he took at the fire his 'customed place, 
And the little children, loud in glee, 
They welcomed him as they welcomed me. 
He knew our griefs, our joys he shared; 
There cannot be friend with him compared — 



OLD AGE. 273 

I and my friend, we were bred together. 
He had a smile like the summer weather, 
A kind, warm heart, and a hand as free : 
My friend, he was all the world to me ! 

Mary Howitt. 



* TT'S hard we canna just remain young a' the days we have 
•^ to bide below, there's no sae mony o' them. I never 
could see the use of growing auld." 



TX7E live in deeds, not years ; in thoughts, not breaths ; 

In feelings, not in figures on a dial ; 
We should count time by heart-throbs. He most lives 
Who thinks most, feels the noblest, acts the best. 

Bailey's Festus, 



THE ONE GRAY HAIR. 

rFHE wisest of the wise 
Listen to pretty lies, 
And love to hear them told; 

Doubt not that Solomon 

Listened to many a one — 
Some in his youth, and more when he grew old. 

I never sat among 

The choir of Wisdom's song, 
But pretty lies loved I 

As much as any king — 

When youth was on the wing, 
And (must it then be told ?) when youth had quite gone by. 

M * 



274 310SAICS OF LIFE. 

Alas ! and I have not 

The pleasant hour forgot, 
When one pert lady said — 
" Oh ! I am quite 

Bewildered with affright; 
I see (sit quiet now !) a white hair on your head !" 

Another, more benign, 

Drew out that hair of mine, 
And in her own dark hair 

Pretended she had found 

That one, and twirled it round — 
Fair as she was, she never was so fair. 

Walter Savage Landor. 



TX7HAT matters it to him whose way 

Lies upward with the immortal dead, 
A few more hairs are turning gray, 
A few more years of life are fled ! 

Prof. Norton. 



" Lord, keep my memory green." 



C\ ROWING- old is like bodily existence refining away into 
^ spiritual life. True, the ripeness of the soul is hidden in 
the decay of the body ; but so is many a ripe fruit in its husk. 

William Mountford. 



OLD AGE. 275 

TYEATH is another life. We bow our heads 
"^ At going out, we think, and enter straight 
Another golden chamber of the king's, 
Larger than this we have, and lovelier. 

P. J. Bailey. 



EVENING. 



"VT7HEN eve empurples cliff and cave, 

* Thoughts of the heart, how soft ye flow ; 
Not softer on the western wave, 
The golden lines of sunset glow. 

II. 

Then all by chance or fate removed, 

Like spirits crowd upon the eye, 
The few we liked, the one we loved, 

And the whole heart is memory! 

III. 

And Life is like this fading hour, 

Its beauty dying as we gaze; 
Yet as its shadows round us lower, 

Heaven pours above the brighter blaze. 

IV. 

When morning paints with gorgeous dye, 
Our hope, our heart to earth is given ; 

But dark and lonely is the eye 

That turns not, at its eve, to Heaven. 



Croly. 



276 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

pHANGE o'er the youthful frame must roll, 
But love and life are of the soul ! 



riALL him not old, whose visionary brain 
Holds o'er the past its undivided reign. 
For him in vain the envious seasons roll, 
Who bears eternal summer in his soul. 
If yet the minstrel's song, the poet's lay, 
Spring, with her birds, or children with their play, 
Or maiden's smile, or heavenly dream of art 
Stir the few life-drops creeping round his heart — 
Turn to the record where his years are told — 
Count his gray hairs, they cannot make him old ! 

Autocrat of the Breakfast Table, No. vii. 



A HEALTHY old fellow, that is not a fool, is the happiest 
-^ creature living. At that time of life we have nothing to 
manage, as the phrase is ; we speak the downright truth ; and 
whether the rest of the world will give us the privilege, or not, 
we have so little to ask of them, that we can take it. 

Richard Steele. 



T 



HE rarest of attainments is to grow old happily and 
gracefully. 



».. M Child. 



OLD AGE. 271 



TEMPERANCE. 

TT70ULDST see blithe looks, fresh cheeks beguile 

* Age ? Wouldst see December smile ? 
Would see nests of new roses grow 
In a bed of reverend snow? 
Warm thoughts, free spirits flattering 
Winter's self into a Spring? 
In sum, wouldst see a man that can 
Live to be old, and still a man ? 
Whose latest and most leaden hours 
Fall with soft wings, stuck with soft flowers : 
And when life's sweet fable ends, 
Soul and body part like friends — 
No quarrels, murmurs, no delay— 
A kiss, a sigh, and so away ? 
This rare one, reader, wouldst thou see ? 
Hark, hither! and thyself be he. 

Richard Crashaw. 



AS I approve of a youth, that has something of the Old 
■*"**- Man in him, so I am no less pleased with an Old Man 
that has something of the youth. 



Cicero. 



USE OE EXPERIENCE. 

F HAVE learned ae thing in my auld age, that it's wrang in 
-*- folk to be ower misleared and importunate in their requests 
to their Maker. It's best to be thankful and grateful for what 

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278 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

we receive, and gie him just his ain way o' things. He's nae 
likely to gang far wrang ; an* gin he were, it's nae use crying 
a', ane for ane thing, and ane for anither, that likely to pit 
him right again. 



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THE SAFE SIDE. 

rpHEN cease to wonder that I feel no grief 

From age, which is of my delights the chief; 
My hopes, if this assurance hath deceived, 
(That I man's soul immortal have believed;) 
And if I err, no power shall dispossess 
My thoughts of that expected happiness. 
Though some minute philosophers pretend 
That with our days our pains and pleasures end; 
If it be so, I hold the safer side, 
For none of them my error shall deride ! 

Sir John Denham, 



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LD friends are best. King James used to call for his old 
shoes ; they were easiest for his feet. 



John Selden. 



P^OST thou think, because thou art virtuous, there shall be 

Twelfth Night — Act IT., Scene IV. 



"^ no more cakes and ale ? 



OLD AGE. 279 



SIR MARMADUKE. 

OIK MARMADUKE was a hearty knight— 

^ Good man ! old man ! 

He's painted standing, bolt upright. 

With his hose rolled over his knee; 
His periwig's as white as chalk, 
And on his fist he holds a hawk; 
And he looks like the head 

Of an ancient family. 

His dining-room was long and wide — 

Good man ! old man ! 
His spaniels lay by the fireside, 

And in other parts, d'ye see, 
Cross-bows, tobacco-pipes, old hats, 
A saddle, his wife, and a litter of cats; 
And he looked like the head 

Of an ancient family. 

He never turned the poor from the gate — 

Good man ! old man ! 
But was always ready to break the pate 

Of his country's enemy. 
What knight could do a better thing 
Than serve the poor, and fight for his king? 
And so may every head 

Of an ancient family. 

George Colmar, 



280 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

TO A GRANDMOTHER. 

"Old age is dark and unlovely." — Ossian. 

/^VH, say not so ! A bright old age is thine, 
^ Calm as the gentle light of summer eves, 
Ere twilight dim her dusky mantle weaves; 
Because to thee is given, in thy decline, 
A heart that does not thanklessly repine 

At aught of which the hand of God bereaves, 
Yet all He sends with gratitude receives. 

May such a quiet, thankful close be mine; 
And hence thy fireside chair appears to me 

A peaceful throne, which thou wert form'd to fill; 

Thy children, ministers who do thy will; 

And those grand-children sporting round thy knee, 
Thy little subjects looking up to thee 

As one who claims their fond allegiance still. 

Bernard Barton 



QO live, that when thy summons comes to join 
^ The innumerable caravan that moves 
To that mysterious realm, where each shall take 
His chamber in the silent halls of death, 
Thou go not, like the quarry slave at night, 
Scourged to his dungeon, but, sustained and soothed 
By an unfaltering trust, approach thy grave, 
Like one who wraps the drapery of his couch 
About him, and lies down to pleasant dreams. 

W. C. Bryant. 



OLD AGE. 281 

TT seems as though, at the approach of a certain dark hour, 
the light of heaven infills those who are leaving the light 
of earth. 

Victor Hugo. 



"VTOW, for my life, it is a miracle of years, which to 

-^ relate were not a history, but a piece of poetry, and would 
sound to common ears like a fable. 

Thomas Browne. 



f\N parent knees a naked, new-born child, 

^ Weeping thou sat'st while all around thee smiled; 

So live, that sinking in thy last, long sleep, 

Calm thou niay'st smile while all around thee weep. 

From the Persian; translated by Sir William Jcnes. 



\T7HEN an old man was asked how he had attained to an 
old age so serene and lovely, he said : " I have never 
rejoiced at any evil which happened to my neighbor ." 



CAN well believe in my being to live hereafter. How, 
indeed, I am to live, I do not know; but, then, neither do 
I know how I do live now. This living from day to day is 
astonishing, when it is thought of; and we are let feel the 
miracle of it, so, perhaps, that our being to live again may 
not be too wonderful for our belief. 

Mountford's Euthanasy. 
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282 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



BEHIND THE MASK. 

TT was an old distorted face, 
-*- An uncouth visage, rough and wild; 
Yet from behind, with laughing grace, 
Peeped the fresh beauty of a child. 

And so contrasting, fair and bright, 

It made me of my fancy ask, 
If half earth's wrinkled grimness might 

Be but the baby in the mask. 

Behind gray hairs and furrowed brow, 
And withered look that life puts on, 

Each as he wears it, comes to know 
How the child hides, and is not gone. 

For, while the inexorable years 

To saddened features fit their mould, 

Beneath the work of time and tears 

Waits something that will not grow old ! 

And pain, and petulance, and care, 
And wasted hope and sinful stain 

Shape the strange guise the soul doth wear, 
Till her young life look forth again. 

The beauty of his boyhood's smile — 
What human faith could find it now 

In yonder man of grief and guile — 
A very Cain, with branded brow? 

Yet, overlaid and hidden, still 

It lingers — of his life a part; 
As the scathed pine upon the hill 

Holds the young fibres at his heart. 



OLD AGE, 283 

And, haply round the Eternal Throne, 
Heaven's pitying angels shall not ask 

For that last look the world hath known 
But for the face behind the mask ! 

Atlantic Monthly. 



THE SPARK DIVINE. 

A MONGr the dying, I have observed some who have been 
the reverse of noble or great during life, and who, some 
hours before their death, or perhaps some moments, have 
shown an inexpressible ennobling of the countenance. Every- 
body saw a new man; coloring, drawing, and grace, all was 
new, all bright, as the morning; heavenly; beyond expression, 
noble, and exalted; the most inattentive must see, the most 
insensible feel, the image of God. I saw it break forth and 
shine through the ruins of corruption; was obliged to turn 
aside in silence and adore. Yes, glorious God ! Still art thou 
there, in the weakest, most fallible of men ! 

Johann Caspar Lavater. 



A RETROSPECTIVE REVIEW. 

AH when I was a tiny boy, 

^ My days and nights were full of joy, 

My mates were blithe and kind ! 
No wonder that I sometimes sigh, 
And dash the tear-drop from my eye, 

To cast a look behind ! 



284 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

A hoop was an eternal round 

Of pleasure. In those days I found 

A top a joyous thing; 
But now those past delights I drop, 
My Head, alas ! is all rny top, 

And careful thoughts the string! 

My marbles — once my bag was stored — 
Now I must play with Elgin's lord, 

With Theseus for a taw ! 
My playful horse has slipp'd his string, 
Forgotten all his capering, 

And harnessed to the law ! 

My kite — how fast and far it flew! 
Whilst I, a sort of Franklin, drew 

My pleasure from the sky ! 
'Twas paper'd o'er with studious themes 
The tasks I wrote — my present dreams 

Will never soar so high. 

My joys are wingless all, and dead; 
My dumps are made of more than lead, 

My flights soon find a fall; 
My fears prevail, my fancies droop, 
Joy never cometh with a whoop, 

And seldom with a call! 

My football's laid upon the shelf; 
I am a shuttlecock myself, 

The world knocks to and fro — 
My archery is all unlearned, 
And grief against myself has turn'd 

My arrows and my bow ! 



OLD AGE. 285 

No more in noontide sun I bask; 
My Authorship's an endless task, 

My head's ne'er out of school ; 
My heart is pain'd with scorn and slight, 
I have too many foes to fight, 

And friends grown strangely cool. 

The very chum that shared my cake 
Holds out so cold a hand to shake, 

It makes me shrink and sigh; 
On this I will not dwell and hang, 
The changeling would not feel a pang, 

Though these should meet his eye ! 



No skies so blue, or so serene 

As then; no leaves look half so green 

As clothed the play-ground tree ! 
All things I loved are alter'd so, 
Nor does it ease my heart to know 

That change resides in me ! 

Oh, for the garb that marked the boy, 
The trowsers made of corduroy, 

Well inked with black and red; 
The crownless hat, ne'er deemed an ill, 
It only let the sunshine still 

Repose upon my head ! 

Oh, for the ribbon round the neck! 
The careless dog's ears apt to deck 

My book and collar both! 
How can this formal man be styled 
Merely an Alexandrine child, 

A boy of larger growth ? 



286 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Oh, for that small, small beer anew ! 
And (heaven's own type) that mild sky blue 

That washed my sweet meals down; 
The master even ! and that small Turk 
That fagged me ! worse is now my work ; 

A fag for all the town! 

Oh, for the lessons learned by heart ! 
Ay, though the very birch's smart 

Should mark those hours again; 
I'd " kiss the rod/' and be resigned 
Beneath the stroke, and even find 

Some sugar in the cane ! 

The Arabian Nights rehearsed in bed, 
The Fairy Tales in school-time read, 

By stealth, 'twixt verb and noun ! 
The angel form which always walked 
In all my dreams, and looked and talked 

Exactly like Miss Brown ! 

The " omne bene" — Christmas come ! 
The prize of merit won for home; 

Merit had prizes then ! 
But now I write for days and days — 
For fame, a deal of empty praise, 

Without the silver pen! 

Then home, sweet home ! the crowded coach, 
The joyous shout, the loud approach, 

The winding horns like rams' ! 
The meeting sweet that made me thrill, 
The sweetmeats almost sweeter still, 

No "satis" to the "jams!" 



OLD AGE. 287 



When that I was a tiny boy, 

My days and nights were full of joy, 

My mates were blithe and kind; 
No wonder that I sometimes sigh, 
And dash the tear-drop from my eye, 

To cast a look behind! 



Thomas Hood. 



rPHE days of our youth ! had we a grip o' them back again, 
■*- how different like wad we use them ; at least so we think, 
but wha can hinder the wind to blaw? Youth winna be 
guided. 



TT is a fine thing to ripen without shrivelling ; to reach the 
-*- calmness of age, yet keep the warm heart and read} 
sympathy of youth. 

Boyd. 



AF this old man, let this just praise be given, 
^ Heaven was in him before he was in heaven. 



OLD AGE. 

TT7HEN life has been well spent, age is a loss of what it 
can well spare — muscular strength, organic instincts, 
gross bulk, and works that belong to these. But the central 
wisdom, which was old in infancy, is young in four-score years, 
and, dropping off obstructions, leaves in happy subjects the 



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MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



mind purified and wise. I have heard that whoever loves is 
in no condition old. I have heard, that whenever the name 
of man is spoken, the doctrine of immortality is announced; 
it cleaves to his constitution. The mode of it baffles our wit, 
and no whisper comes to us from the other side. But the 
inference from the working of intellect, hiving knowledge, 
hiving skill — at the end of life just ready to be born — affirms 
the inspirations of affection and of the moral sentiment. 

R. W. Emerson. 



The acts of this life shall be the fate of the next. 

Eastern Saying. 



ANOTHER CHANCE. 

TV/TY days go by, till I stand despairing; 

For those were evil, and these were vain, 
Yet hope, my heart, for the time is nearing 
When I may renew my life again. 



E. S. Turner, 



THE OLD MAN'S FUNERAL. 

SAW an aged man upon his bier, 
-^ His hair was thin and white, and on his brow 
A record of the cares of many a year; 

Cares that were ended and forgotten now. 
And there was sadness round, and faces bowed, 
And woman's tears fell fast, and children wailed aloud. 



OLD AGE. 289 

Then rose another hoary man and said, 
In faltering accents, to that weeping train, 

Why mourn ye that our aged friend is dead ? 
Ye are not sad to see the gathered grain; 

Nor when their mellow fruit the orchards cast, 

Nor when the yellow woods shake down the ripened mast. 

Ye sigh not when the sun, his course fulfilled, 
His glorious course, rejoicing earth and sky, 

In the soft evening, when the winds are stilled, 
Sinks where his islands of refreshment lie, 

And leaves the smile of his departure, spread 

O'er the warm-colored heaven and ruddy mountain head. 

Why weep ye then for him, who, having won. 
The bound of man's appointed years, at last, 

Life's blessings all enjoyed, life's labors done, 
Serenely to his final rest has passed; 

While the soft memory of his virtues, yet, 

Lingers like twilight hues, when the bright sun is set? 

His youth was innocent; his riper age, 

Marked with some act of goodness every day; 

And watched by eyes that loved him, calm and sage, 
Faded his late declining years away. 

Cheerful he gave his being up, and went 

To share the holy rest that waits a life well-spent. 

That life was happy ; every day he gave 
Thanks for the fair existence that was his, 

For a sick fancy made him not her slave, 
To moek him with her phantom miseries. 

No chronic tortures racked his aged limb, 

For luxury and sloth had nourished none for him. 

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290 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

And I am glad that he has lived thus loner. 
And glad that he has gone to his reward; 

Nor deem that kindly nature did him wrong, 
Softly to disengage the vital cord. 

When his weak hand grew palsied, and his eye 

Dark with the mists of age, it was his time to die. 



William C. Bryant. 



IV T EMORY, wit, fancy, acuteness, cannot grow young again 
in old age ; but the heart can. 

Jean Paul. 



MY FIFTIETH BIRTHDAY. 

USED to think, when I, a child, 
Played with the pebbles on the shore, 
Of the clear river, rippling wild, 

That rolled before my father's door, 
How long, how very long 'twould be 

Ere I could live out fifty years; 
To think of it oft checked my glee, 

And filled my childish heart with fears. 

I looked at grandma as she sat, 

Her forehead decked with silvery rime, 
And thought " When I'm as old as that, 

Must I darn stockings all the time? 
Must I sit in an arm-chair so, 

A white frilled cap around my face, 
With dull drab strings, and ne'er a bow, 

And keep things always in their place?" 



OLD AGE. 291 

The lines of care, the sigh of pain. 

The "Hush" her lips so oft let fall, 
Made me wish o'er and o'er again, 

I never might grow old at all. 
Yet she was ever cheerful, and 

Would ofttimes join our sports and mirth; 
And many a play by her was planned 

Around the winter evening hearth. 

But then she played not by the brook, 

She did not gather pretty flowers, 
She did not sing with merry look, 

Nor make a spring-time of the hours. 
So, when she said, one sunny morn, 
" You will be old, like me, some day," 
I wept like one of hope forlorn, 

And threw my playthings all away. 

Be old ! like grandma, and not roam 

The glen in spring, for violets blue, 
Or bring the bright May blossoms home, 

Or pick the strawberries 'mong the dew ! 
Be old ! and in the summer time 

Take weary naps in mid-day hours, 
And fail the Chandler trees to climb, 

And shake the ripening fruit in showers! 

Be old ! and have no nutting-bees 

Upon the hillside, rustling brown, 
Or hang upon the vine-clad trees, 

And shout the rich ripe clusters down ! 
Be old ! and sit round wintry fires ! 

Be fifty ! have no sliding spree ! 
And hush away all wild desires ! 

I thought 'twere better not to be. 



292 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

But two-score years have glided by, 

With summer's heat and winter's cold, 
With sunny hours and clouded sky, 

Till now I'm fifty — now I'm old. 
The sun-burnt locks are silvery now, 

That used to dangle in the wind; 
And eyes are dim, and feet move slow, 

That left my playmates all behind. 

^% ^^ ^^ ^p ^^ 

But life has pleasures holier still 

Than childhood's play with all its zest, 
That, as we journey down the hill, 

Make each succeeding year the best. 
Now stalwart men are at my hearth, 

And " bonnie lassies" laughing free, 
That had not lived on this good earth, 

To love and labor, but for me. 

And shall I pine for childhood's joys, 

For woodland walks and violets blue, 
While round me merry girls and boys 

Are doing what I used to do ? 
My days of toil, my years of care, 

Have never chilled my spirit's flow, 
Or made one flower of life less fair 

Than in the spring-time long ago. 

The paths I trod were sometimes rough, 

And sharp and piercing to my feet; 
Yet there were daisied walks enough 

To make it all seem smooth and sweet. 
Friends that I loved have passed from sight 

Before me to my spirit home; 
But in the day that knows no night, 

I know they'll greet me when I come. 



OLD AGE 293 

Hopes that I cherished, too, were vain; 

But I have lived to feel and know 
That were life to live o'er again, 

'Twere better that it should be so. 
At every winding of the way 

I've sought for love, and love have given ; 
For love can cheer the darkest day, 

And make the poorest home a heaven. 

Oh, ye who're passing down, like me 

Life's autumn side, be brave and strong 
And teach the lisper at your knee 

That fifty years is not so long; 
That if they would be ever young, 

And free from dolorous pain and care, 
The life-harp must be ever strung 

With love of duty everywhere. 

As violins in foreign lands, 

Broken and shattered o'er and o'er, 
When mended and in skilful hands, 

Make sweeter music than before ; 
So, oft the heart, by sorrow torn, 

Gives forth a loftier, clearer song 
Than that which greeted us at morn, 

When it was new, and brave, and strong. 

Father, I thank thee for them all, 

These fifty years, which now are passed; 
Oh ! guide me, guard me, till the fall 

Of death my form shall hide at last. 
Let me in love and kindness still 

Live on, and ne'er grow hard and cold; 
Bend me and break me to thy will, 

But may my spirit ne'er grow old ! 

Frances D. Gago 
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MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



TX7HEN the little one sits on your knee, and lays upon your 
shoulder a little head with golden ringlets, you do not 
mind very much though your own hair (what is left of it) is 
getting shot with gray. 

Boyd. 



A PERSON is always startled when he hears himself 
seriously called old for the first time. 



O. W. Holmes. 



IT NEVER COMES AGAIN. 

HP HE RE are gains for all our losses, 
There are balms for all our pain ; 
But when youth, the dream departs, 
It takes something from our hearts, 
And it never comes again. 

We are stronger, we are better, 

Under manhood's sterner reign; 
Still we feel that something sweet 
Followed you with flying feet, 
And will never come again. 



Something beautiful is vanished, 

And we sigh for it in vain; 
We behold it everywhere, 
On the earth and in the air, 
But it never comes again ! 



R. H. Stoddard. 



The memory of youth is- 



-a sigh 



Old Proverb. 



OLD AGE. 295 



FROM HALL OF FANTASY." 

"VTEVERTHELESS I confide the whole matter to Provi- 
dence, and shall endeavor so to live, that the world may 
come to an end at any moment, without leaving me at a loss 
to find foothold somewhere else. 

Hawthorne. 



THE GRANDMOTHER'S APOLOGY. 

A ND Willy, my eldest born, is gone, yon say, little Annie ? 
Ruddy and white, and strong on his legs, he looks like a 
man. 
And Willy's wife has written : she never was overwise, 
Never the wife for Willy : he wouldn't take my advice. 

For, Annie, you see, her father was not the man to save, 
Hadn't a head to manage, and drank himself into his grave. 
Pretty enough, very pretty ! but I was against it for one. 
Eh ! but he wouldn't hear me — and Willy you say is gone. 

Willy, my beauty, my eldest boy, the flower of the flock, 
Never a man could fling him : for Willy stood like a rock. 
" Here's a leg for a babe of a week !" says doctor ; and he 

would be bound, 
There was not his like that year in twenty parishes round. 

Strong of his hands, and strong on his legs, but still of his 

tongue ! 
I ought to have gone before him : I wonder he went so young. 
I cannot cry for him, Annie : I have not long to stay; 
Perhaps I shall see him the sooner, for he lived far away. 



296 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Why do you look at rue, Annie ? you think I am hard and 

cold; 
But all my children have gone before me, I am so old : 
I cannot weep for Willy, nor can I weep for the rest; 
Only at your age, Annie, I could have wept with the best. 

For I remember a quarrel I had with your father, my dear, 
All for a slanderous story, that cost me many a tear. 
I mean your grandfather, Annie : it cost me a world of woe, 
Seventy years ago, my darling, seventy years ago. 

For Jenny, my cousin, had come to the place, and I knew 

right well 
That Jenny had tripp'd in her time : I knew, but I would not 

tell. 
And she to be coming and slandering me, the base little liar ! 
But the tongue is a fire as you know, my dear, the tongue is a 

fire. 

And the parson made it his text that week, and he said like- 
wise, 

That a lie which is half a truth is ever the blackest of lies, 

That a lie which is all a lie may be met and fought with out- 
right, 

But a lie which is part a truth is a harder matter to fight. 

And Willy had not been down to the farm for a week and a 

day; 
And all things look'd half-dead, though it was the middle of 

May. 
Jenny, to slander me, who knew what Jenny had been ! 
But soiling another, Annie, will never make one's self clean. 

And I cried myself well-nigh blind, and all of an evening laie 
T climb'd to the top of the garth, and stood by the road at the 
gate. 



OLD AGE. 297 

The moon like a rick on fire was rising over the dale, 
And whit, whit, whit, in the bush beside me chirrup'd the 
nightingale. 

All of a sudden he stopp'd ; there pass'd by the gate of the 

farm, 
Willy — he didn't see me — and Jenny hung on his arm. 
Out into the road I started, and spoke I scarce knew how; 
Ah, there's no fool like the old one — it makes me angry now. 

Willy stood up like a man, and looked the thing that he meant; 
Jenny, the viper, made me a mocking courtesy and went. 
And I said, " Let us part : in a hundred years it'll all be the 

same, 
You cannot love me at all, if you love not my good name." 

And he turn'd, and I saw his eyes all wet, in the sweet moon- 
shine : 
" Sweet-heart, I love you so well that your good name is mine. 
And what do I care for Jane, let her speak of you well or ill; 
But marry me out of hand : we two shall be happy still." 

" Marry you, Willy !" said I, " but I needs must speak my 

mind, 
I fear you will listen to tales, be jealous and hard and unkind." 
But he turn'd and clasp'd me in his arms, and answer'd, " No, 

love, no;" 
Seventy years ago, my darling, seventy years ago. 

So Willy and I were wedded : I wore a lilac gown ; 

And the ringers rang with a will, and he gave the ringers a 

crown. 
But the first that ever I bare was dead before he was born, 
Shadow and shine is life, little Annie, flower and thorn. 

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298 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

That was the first time, too, that ever I thought of death. 
There lay the sweet little body that never had drawn a breath. 
I had not wept, little Annie, not since I had been a wile ; 
But I wept like a child that day, for the baby had fought for 
his life. 

His dear little face was troubled, as if with anger or pain : 
I look'd at the still little body — his trouble had all been in 

vain. 
For Willy I cannot weep, I shall see him another morn : 
But I wept like a child for the child that was dead before he 

was born. 

But he cheer'd me, my good man, for he seldom said me nay : 
Kind, like a man, was he ; like a man, too, would have his way. 
Never jealous — not he : we had many a happy year; 
And he died, and I could not weep — my own time seem'd so 
near. 

But I wish'd it had been God's will that I, too, then could 

have died : 
I began to be tired a little, and fain had slept at his side * 
And that was ten years back, or more, if I don't forget : 
But as to the children, Annie, they're all about me yet. 

Pattering over the boards, my Annie who left me at two, 
Pattering she goes, my own little Annie, an Annie like you : 
Pattering over the boards, she comes and goes at her will, 
While Harry is in the five-acre and Charlie plowing the hill. 

And Harry and Charlie, I hear them too — they sing to their 

team: 
Often they come to the door in a pleasant kind of dream. 
They come and sit by my chair, they hover about my bed — 
T am not always certain if they be alive or dead. 






OLD AGE. 299 

And yet I know for a truth, there's none of them left alive ; 
For Harry went at sixty, your father at sixty-five : 
And Willie, my eldest born, at nigh threescore and ten ; 
I knew them all as babies, and now they're elderly men. 

For mine is a time of peace, it is not often I grieve ; 
I am oftener sitting at home in my father's farm at eve : 
And the neighbors come and laugh and gossip, and so do I ; 
I find myself often laughing at things that have long gone by. 

To be sure the preacher says, our sins should make us sad; 
But mine is a time of peace, and there is grace to be had, 
And God, not man. is the judge of us all when life shall cease; 
And in this Book, little Annie, the message is one of Peace. 

And age is a time of peace so it be free from pain, 
And happy has been my life ; but I would not live it again, 
I seem to be tired a little, that's all, and long for rest; 
Only at your age, Annie, I could have wept with the best. 

So Willie has gone, my beauty, my eldest-born, my flower; 
But how can I weep for Willy, he has but gone for an hour — 
Gone for a minute, my son, from this room into the next. 
I, too, shall go in a minute. What time have I to be vext ? 

And Willy's wife has written, she never was overwise. 
Get me my glasses, Annie : Thank God that I keep my eyes, 
There is but a trifle left you, when I shall have passed away ; 
But stay with the old woman now : you cannot have long to 
stay. 

Alfred Tennyson. 



300 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 



ACROSS THE RIVER 

TT7HEN for me the silent oar 

Parts the silent river, 
And I stand upon the shore 

Of the strange forever, 
Shall I miss the loved and known? 
Shall I vainly seek mine own? 

'Mid the crowd that comes to meet 

Spirits sin-forgiven — 
Listening to their echoing feet 

Down the streets of heaven, 
Shall I know a footstep near, 
That I listen, wait for here ? 

Then will one approach the brink 

With a hand extended, 
One whose thoughts I loved to think 

Ere the veil was rended, 
Saying, " Welcome ! we have died, 
And again are side by side." 

Saying, I will go with thee, 

That thou art not lonely, 
To yon hills of mystery; 

I have waited only 
Until now, to climb with thee 
Yonder hill of mystery. 

Can the bonds that make us here 

Know ourselves immortal, 
Drop away like foliage sere 

At life's inner portal ? 



OLD AGE. 801 

What is holiest below 
Must forever live and grow. 

I shall love the angels well, 

After I have found them 
In the mansions where they dwell, 

With their glory round them; 
But at first without surprise 
Let me look in human eyes. 

Step by step our feet must go 

Up the holy mountain; 
Drop by drop within us flow 

Life's immortal fountain. 
Angels sing with crowns that burn; 
We shall have a song to learn. 

He who on our earthly path 

Bids us help each other; 
Who his well beloved hath 

Made our Elder Brother; 
Will but clasp the chain of love 
Closer when we meet above. 

Therefore dread I not to go 

O'er the silent river; 
Death, thy hastening oar I know, 

Bear me, thou life-giver, 
Through the waters to the shore 
Where mine own have gone before 

Lucy Laicom. 







NLY what we have wrought into our characters during life 
can we take away with us. 

Humboldt. 
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302 .MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Set thine house in order. 



Uaiah xxxviii. I. 



rPHE satisfactions of this life are many; but there will come 
a time when we have had a sufficient measure of its enjoy- 
ments, and may well depart contented with our share of the 
feast. I am far from regretting that this life was bestowed on 
me; and I have the satisfaction of thinking that I have 
employed it in such a manner as not to have lived in vain. In 
short, I consider this world as a place which nature never 
intended for my permanent abode ; and I look on my departure 
from it, not as being driven from my habitation, but simply 
as leaving an inn. 

From Cicero "On Old Age." 



PLIGHT OP TIME. 

YX7E are doomed to suffer a bitter pang as often as the irre- 
coverable flight of our time is brought home with keen- 
ness to our hearts. The spectacle of a lady floating over the 
sea in a boat, and waking suddenly from sleep, to find her 
magnificent ropes of pearl necklace by some accident detached 
at one end from its fastenings, the loose string hanging down 
into the water, and pearl after pearl slipping off forever into 
the abyss, brings before us the sadness of the case. 



TRAVELING IN TOKEIGN LANDS. 

HP HERE is a dignity about that going away alone, we call 
dying, that wrapping the mantle of immortality about us ; 
that putting aside with a pale hand the azure curtains which 
are drawn around this cradle of a world ; that venturing away 
from home for the first time in our lives, for ice are not dead — 



OLD AGE. 303 

there is nothing dead to speak of — and seeing foreign countries 
not laid down on any maps that we know about. There must 
be lovely lands somewhere star ward, for none ever return that 
go thither, and we very much doubt if any would if they 
could. 



PRAYER Or ALEXANDER PEDEN. 

ORD, thou hast been both good and kind to old Sanny 
through a long tract of time, and given him many years 
in thy service, which have been as so many months ; but now 
he is tired of thy world, and hath done all the gopd in it that 
he will do, let him away with the honesty that he has, for he 
will gather no more. 



A SUMMARY SUMMING-UP OP DIFFICULT SUMS. 

The sum of all science : — Perhaps. 

The sum of all morality : — Love what is good, and practice 
it. 

The sum of all creeds : — Believe what is true, (to you) and 
do not tell all you believe. 

Residuum of a Library. 



LIFE. 

T IFE ! we've been long together, 

Through pleasant and through cloudy weather ; 
'Tis hard to part when friends are dear; 
Perhaps 'twill cost a sigh, a tear; 

Yet steal away, give little warning, 
Say not, " Good night," but in some happier clime 

Bid me, " Good morning." 

Anna Letitia Barbauld. 



304 MOSAICS OF LIFE. 

Death did not seem 
So much even as the lifting of a latch — - 
Only a step into the open air, 
Out of a tent already luminous 
With light which shone through its transparent walls. 



rflHIS world I deem but a beautiful dream 
Of shadows which are not what they seem; 
Where visions rise giving dim surmise 
Of the things which shall meet our waking eyes. 



Soon the whole. 
Like a parched scroll, 

Shall before my amazed sight uproll; 
And without a screen, 
At one burst be seen 

The Presence wherein I've ever been! 



NIGHT AND DEATH. 

Dedicated to Co.endge. 

Mysterious night, when our first parent knew 
Thee from report divine, and heard thy name, 
Did he not tremble for this lovely frame, 

This glorious canopy of light and blue? 

Yet 'neath a curtain of translucent dew, 
Bathed in the rays of the great setting flame, 
Hesperus with the host of heaven came, 

And lo ! creation widened on his view. 



OLD AGE. 305 

Who could have thought such darkness lay concealed 
Within thy beams, Sun ! or who could find, 

Whilst fly, and leaf, and insect stood revealed, 
That to such countless orbs thou mad'st us blind ! 

Why do we then shun death with anxious strife ? 

If light can thus deceive, wherefore not life ? 

Blanco White. 



OUK BIRTH IS YET TO COME. 

TPvE ATH is Birth. And as in this life we woke into con- 
■^ sciousness in the arms of loving friends, so we may venture 
to hope our next waking will be bosomed by that Eternal Love 
which provided this shelter for us here. 

F. H. Hedge. 



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